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posted March 13, 2014 04:11 PM            

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Anyone else have this and agree or disagre with being self-centered or having self image issues? Are you self sufficient? How do you react when people do things for you? Are you aware of what you want and what makes you happy? What's your opinion and anything else you'd like to add?

I have a 1 degree orb and disagree with being self-centered. I'm the opposite, I enjoy people and although I enjoy being the center of attention I would rather it be on someone else. I like looking put together and take pride in how I look, but don't believe that's being self-centered. I'm self sufficient and if I need help I will ask. I would rather do things myself, but if someone wants to do them for me than I won't complain, maybe just a little . I'm very aware of what I want and what makes me happy. I feel my personality and emotions are completely in sync.

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posted March 13, 2014 04:36 PM            

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I have two friends with Sun conjunct Moon, one in Capricorn, the other one in Pisces. They really like to be the center of attention! In a group, they can't stand to be ignored for long. They also seem very "whole", like doing things wholeheartedly. I think Sun conjunct Moon can be very good bosses if they overcome the self-centeredness and put that energy to use for the benefit of the group. Sun conjunct Moon people seem to like to be surrounded by a group, a large family or a group of close friends, whom they can guide, advise, protect and pamper , like a matriarch or patriarch.

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posted March 13, 2014 04:48 PM            

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I would also agree about the whole heartedness. I can't wait to be a mother. I'm also very nurturing and protective. I feel I'd do a great job advising and guiding. Thank you for sharing that. I saw that coming a mile away with Pisces though, they're ridiculous when it comes to being self-centered. LOL

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posted March 13, 2014 05:51 PM            

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I know there's more

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posted March 13, 2014 06:02 PM            

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My ego and emotions are not conflicting they are harmonizing together.
I think it makes me very sensitive and powerful at the same time.
I think in a lot of ways I'm too much for people to handle because I'm going through life like a shooting star and it's hard to keep up.

There is a strong solar energy and lunar too.
On the positive-
I've always been very aware who I am and what I want to be.
I'm still quite young and I'm midway to my destination.
Which is a blessing people are in their 30's lost or still finding themselves.
I knew what I wanted to do and what I wanted to become since I was a little boy.
The way I turned out went according to plan
Plus have strong parental support which pushes to be who I am meant to be.
It would be worse it if was out of sign for example If I had moon in cancer and sun in Gemini or Taurus sun and Gemini Moon because they are operating are different wave lengths.

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posted March 13, 2014 06:13 PM            

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I find it interesting were the same age and you're about to fulfill your dream of having a family.
LOL well.. I sort of have a family unit going on right now... BUT IT'S VERY UNINTENTIONAL SITUATION.
^Transits with Sn? cause it happened around the same time I believe..
but that's not my dream... I'm thinking that will happen in 2015 if everything goes according to plan

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posted March 13, 2014 06:27 PM            

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I know! It's crazy I didn't want a family until I was 30 and I did want to go to lawschool now I want to be Martha Stewart x 100 lol. I hated cooking now I'm obsessed with people eating my food! We both feel that if we get pregnant we do, if we don't we don't.

All that you said I feel almost identical. I also feel that knowing who we are at our age is incredible. Like you said there are so many people who get in their 30s and have no idea who they or what they want in life. Which is pretty sad.

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posted March 13, 2014 06:28 PM            

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And I don't get too deep into transits honestly. I have no idea what they're like or what's going on lol.

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posted March 13, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Wait it could be Saturn on our pluto.

Apparently this the transit where we "grow up"..
I feel 30 right now going to school than internship.
playing mommy+daddy.... too many responsibilities.

But I do try to party on fridays and be really immature just so I don't get depressed..

Like I've always been hardworking but like I can't mess up at all right now.. Before I could make a mistake or two.. I guess getting married will do that too lol.

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posted March 13, 2014 06:39 PM            

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Makes a lot of sense. I've partied myself out, soo over it. Now I'm ready to just enjoy life, travel and have real fun

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posted March 13, 2014 08:06 PM            

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I know there's more out there

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posted March 13, 2014 10:50 PM            

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I have sun/moon conjunct and I hate being the center of attention. If fact, I would do anything and everything to avoid being the center of attention. I am self sufficient though. I don't like to depend on others. I do not think I am self centered at all.

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posted March 13, 2014 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by fauxcoat:
I have sun/moon conjunct and I hate being the center of attention. If fact, I would do anything and everything to avoid being the center of attention. I am self sufficient though. I don't like to depend on others. I do not think I am self centered at all.

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What are you sun and moon if you don't mind me asking? That's the stereotype will us sun/moon people. It's annoying that's for sure.

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posted March 14, 2014 12:11 AM            

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Libra sun/Libra moon.

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posted March 14, 2014 12:29 AM            

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Really I'm the exact same. What degree?

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posted March 14, 2014 01:04 AM            

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Libra sun 0 degree / libra moon 1 degree

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posted March 14, 2014 01:22 AM            

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What's your venus and ascendant? Lol that doesn't make much sense for a Libra to not like being the center of attention.

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posted March 14, 2014 01:37 AM            

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I have a lot of libra friends/family and none of them like to be the center of attention. None. Maybe the libras you know have some Leo or Cap in their charts?

My rising is Aquarius. Venus is Libra.

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posted March 14, 2014 01:43 AM            

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Well I'm also libra mercury and ascendant so maybe that's why. I don't really mind either way but would rather it be on someone else. I don't like seeming self-centered. I'm not sure what they have really could be.

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posted March 14, 2014 07:41 AM            

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The energy and attributes of the moon gets absorbed by the Sun so that expression of the moon is relayed via the sun's energy.

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posted March 14, 2014 03:23 PM            

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@ Jessica - not sure what that means. Could you explain another way?

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