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Topic: Any chance..?
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Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 07:54 AM
That a Venus conj Asc double whammy would NOT turn romantic? Surely there must be, right? ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 03:36 PM
I'm gonna avoid him just in case. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 6331 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 03:38 PM
Is that a Powerful one?IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 14, 2014 03:41 PM
It's a Dangerous one.. I've encouraged a friend to go on a dating site and the dude she's been talking to for a few weeks has better synastry with me, than her. Including those aspects. She wants me to go with her on their first date, hell no! Now I regret knowing. She's a Leo, he's a Sag and I'm an Aries. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 6331 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 14, 2014 04:33 PM
HA!(Look out world...) IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 03:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: HA!(Look out world...)
..WW3 is about to start! Nah, I will just refuse to meet him, ever. Problem is if they don't work out. That might tempt me. But they have Venus conj Saturn, they both want to settle down so maybe it will work. I am in a manhater mood right now anyways. *fingers crossed* ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 6331 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 12:02 PM
Well, the Irish have a Symbol denoting Love, Loyalty and Friendship.If you can successfully balance the three, I think they promote you to Sainthood... I can't even balance the one. So, I guess I'll just stay single. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 12:09 PM
Sainthood is not one of my priorities. Relieves a lot of pressure from my shoulders. But I'm not that ruthless either. I want my friend to be happy. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx Moderator Posts: 6331 From: Mountain Gate Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 15, 2014 12:23 PM
Well, I really like you.You give a Wonderful Light to LindaLand. And I Wish You The Best! ------------------ Love, Ellyn IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 12:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ellynlvx: Well, I really like you.You give a Wonderful Light to LindaLand. And I Wish You The Best!
Thank you, Ellyn! I like you very much also! ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 12:59 PM
Omg don't betray her. She's gonna feel horrible if you can't stop your feelings for him, maybe talk to her about it. I think she'll understand.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 01:09 PM
I don't have any feelings for him. :/ I don't want to have anything to do with him, either! She is making me a part of their relationship which I don't want to be, but I am going to excuse myself somehow. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 01:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I don't have any feelings for him. :/ I don't want to have anything to do with him, either!
Okay, I get it. You're scared you might develop something for him. I do hope it doesn't turn out bad for you. I'd feel really bad for both you and your friend. Happened to me once and me and her were never the same :/ IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 01:14 PM
Happened to me too and I don't want to go back there under any circumstance. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 1816 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 15, 2014 02:03 PM
Even if you don't have a great synastry with, being the third person on a date is very awkward, well at least for me.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 02:03 PM
Yeah I doubt you would :/ In my situation, I was the one victimized. My best friend has better synastry with the guy I currently like, too, and I'm scared things will develop between them. I'm just trying to think more positively about the situation and hope for the best.IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 02:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by vickymadness: Even if you don't have a great synastry with, being the third person on a date is very awkward, well at least for me.
I know! She asked me to sit at another table and keep an eye on how things go between them, but I'm pretty sure she will introduce us because she will most likely give me away. She is bad at keeping secrets and in fire woman fashion, she's like an open book, you can always tell she's up to something. Plus, they already talk about me. So I said no and will stand my ground. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 02:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: Yeah I doubt you would :/ In my situation, I was the one victimized. My best friend has better synastry with the guy I currently like, too, and I'm scared things will develop between them. I'm just trying to think more positively about the situation and hope for the best.
I hope things will work out for the best for you! I am sorry you're going through this! Have more faith in yourself and your abilities as a woman, synastries are many times relative, people prefer some challenges in their relationships. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 1108 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 15, 2014 03:04 PM
you all realize of course that if you are running a synastry with your friend's bf/potential bf you are not actually a friend, right? this is common sense. and it doesn't matter how many aspects you have to someone on paper - they have to be attracted to you. so venus conjunct ASC both ways won't matter if you're fat and he wants a thin girl or you're blonde and he wants a redhead. you can't change what someone is attracted to. I have venus-ASC both ways to my female cousin, you know? amazing synastry aspects can be found between lots of people, it's attraction that makes the difference.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 584 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 03:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I hope things will work out for the best for you! I am sorry you're going through this! Have more faith in yourself and your abilities as a woman, synastries are many times relative, people prefer some challenges in their relationships.
Thanks I'm hoping for the best for you too. I know you are a true friend to her since you are scared something might happen. But let's just assume nothing will happen and send our thoughts out to the universe to be heard. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by starmoon: you all realize of course that if you are running a synastry with your friend's bf/potential bf you are not actually a friend, right? this is common sense. and it doesn't matter how many aspects you have to someone on paper - they have to be attracted to you. so venus conjunct ASC both ways won't matter if you're fat and he wants a thin girl or you're blonde and he wants a redhead. you can't change what someone is attracted to. I have venus-ASC both ways to my female cousin, you know? amazing synastry aspects can be found between lots of people, it's attraction that makes the difference.
I happen to notice when someone's chart makes aspects to mine, especially if they're close. I am self centered like that. I did not do his chart to check his compatibility with me - I am not interested in him. But I hope you're right about the second part. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 15, 2014 03:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen: Thanks I'm hoping for the best for you too. I know you are a true friend to her since you are scared something might happen. But let's just assume nothing will happen and send our thoughts out to the universe to be heard.
Yeah, I need to detach myself from their issues. It is not my job to solve them, it's theirs. Detachment is key here. Thanks! ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 224 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 17, 2014 03:16 AM
Well my friend is in a weird mood and now she lost interest. She doesn't want to date anymore. She told me I can have him. wtf.. And also he was wrong about his birth time, so no double whammy after all. And no, I am not taking him. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |