posted March 14, 2014 06:26 PM            

As a rule, fixed signs, too, are stubborn. The way we are programmed is just too fixed. We don't easily accept other people's ideas and we tend to impose our own ideas on others.

posted March 14, 2014 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
If someone is predominantly aquarius would they have these characteristics? I have heard many people say this before, but to me they just seem so flighty and easygoing. What are your experiences with them?

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posted March 14, 2014 08:54 PM            

Leos are fixed and have their stubborness but they rather have fun than spend their energy being controlling.

Scorpio women are controlling too but I dont think the men.

Aquarius perhaps stubborn in a quiet way but definitely not controlling at all!!

posted March 14, 2014 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I mean… they can be. Comparing all 4 Aquariuses I've known… the more controlling ones were the Aquarius Sun, Cancer moons. It wasn't even controlling but very clingy, needy, demanding, which can appear like controlling to some. The other one had Aquarius / Aries and the fourth had Aquarius / Capricorn. Neither of them struck me as controlling, especially the one with Capricorn. He was the most easy going and easy to be around.

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posted March 14, 2014 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
In my opinion the most controlling sign is Taurus.

Leos are fixed and have their stubborness but they rather have fun than spend their energy being controlling.

Scorpio women are controlling too but I dont think the men.

Aquarius perhaps stubborn in a quiet way but definitely not controlling at all!!

Tauras/Scorpio axis wins this one IMO.

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posted March 14, 2014 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by EndThisConfusion:
I can vouch for the fact that Venus in Aquarius can be... cold as ice.

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Or Venus / Uranus

posted March 14, 2014 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I am an aquarius with taurus moon. I'm not controlling at all, i have a live and let live attitude towards other people. If people leave me the hell alone and let me be me i will give them the same in return.

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Well you have sun in Aquarius though which is in my experience the opposite of possessive or controlling and you are just giving me your sun and moon sign but someone who has a mix of Taurus with Scorpio in their chart typically is rigid, controlling possessive and does not want things to deviate from what they are use to. They like to feel in control and feel very uncomfortable and unhappy if they are not.

posted March 14, 2014 10:36 PM            

She does some strange & surreal things at times, but she doesn't do things just to be different, there's always a philosophical or metaphoric meaning behind it (perhaps the Sag and Pisces in her chart make her that way). I'm much more likely (especially in youth) to be weird and shocking "just because" and I don't have any Aquarius in my chart at all (I think it's my Sag stellium which includes Uranus, though my Leo asc might've encouraged it).

posted March 14, 2014 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Well you have sun in Aquarius though which is in my experience the opposite of possessive or controlling and you are just giving me your sun and moon sign but someone who has a mix of Taurus with Scorpio in their chart typically is rigid, controlling possessive and does not want things to deviate from what they are use to. They like to feel in control and feel very uncomfortable and unhappy if they are not.

Your Aquarius freedom loving nature must be influencing your value system and keeping moon in taurus in check among perhaps other aspects in your chart.

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posted March 14, 2014 11:36 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
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The thing is I have singleton Jupiter in Leo and singleton Pluto in Scorpio and both touch multiple planets in my chart. Jupiter makes aspects to my sun and moon and pluto makes aspects to my sun,ascendant, moon,and venus. My chart is very fixed, all of the fixed signs are prominent in my chart but i'm not controlling. I think Aqua is the only fixed sign that isn't controlling. I have known controlling leos, scorpios,and taureans but have never met a controlling aqua.

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Interesting . When I said taurus/scorpio I was not thinking about pluto but more about personal planets who have taurus or scorpio as a sign. Pluto aspects I feel when stressful specially to MERCURY can lead to paranoia I have noticed but soft pluto aspects are not controlling or possessive. I would have to see your chart. I mean my mom for example has pluto conjunct venus but venus in Aquarius and moon in Taurus, she has always been possessive with me, her child, but never with my dad. My parents both have venus in aqua with pluto conjunct venus and are NOT possessive at all and trust each other.

Perhaps this is a testament of the power of Uranus or Aquarius and how freedom loving it is but I am curious now ABOUT your pluto aspects....what pluto aspects you have exactly?? To me Jupiter in leo would not make you possessive or controlling bc jupiter itself is not a controlling planet...I feel that would influence its expression of a fixed sign to some extent PERHAPS.

posted March 15, 2014 12:20 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Interesting . When I said taurus/scorpio I was not thinking about pluto but more about personal planets who have taurus or scorpio as a sign. Pluto aspects I feel when stressful specially to MERCURY can lead to paranoia I have noticed but soft pluto aspects are not controlling or possessive. I would have to see your chart. I mean my mom for example has pluto conjunct venus but venus in Aquarius and moon in Taurus, she has always been possessive with me, her child, but never with my dad. My parents both have venus in aqua with pluto conjunct venus and are NOT possessive at all and trust each other.

Perhaps this is a testament of the power of Uranus or Aquarius and how freedom loving it is but I am curious now ABOUT your pluto aspects....what pluto aspects you have exactly?? To me Jupiter in leo would not make you possessive or controlling bc jupiter itself is not a controlling planet...I feel that would influence its expression of a fixed sign to some extent PERHAPS.

Pls explain: if your jupiter and pluto are singleton in what way as I would think that they are not forming aspects with any other planets then.

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posted March 15, 2014 12:42 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I meant singleton as in they are the only planets in their respective elements. Jupiter is the only fire (leo)planet I have and pluto is the only water (scorpio) planet. I feel my pluto in scorpio is really prominent because its in its ruler and aspects my big 3 (sun, moon,and ascendant) and venus. It squares venus and opposes my moon. As far as relationships go I am very jealous, but I'm not controlling.. For example I do not like girls who insist on having male friends when they have a boyfriend and female friends already.. Some may see this as controlling but I dont see it that way. I'm not going to force a girl to abandon her friends or anything, i'm just going to avoid such girls.

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I want to make a correction my parents have venus opposite pluto and my mom is controlling with my dad but not possessive and she is controlling with me but not necessarily possessive either and has moon in Tauras. My dad is not controlling or possessive at all.

I definitely agree with you that PLUTO is an important planet for you. What is your chart ruler though?