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theunknown
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posted March 15, 2014 12:33 AM
  
... In pursuing their romantic interests? In this case it's a guy with virgo mars.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted March 15, 2014 12:37 AM
I'd say pretty persistent, especially if they like the person and there's an opening. Not so much if they're not over someone. They tend to hang on quite a bit especially when the person meant something to them. I'm a 1 degree 1st house scorpio venus  IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted March 15, 2014 12:43 AM
Ha! And she has Scorpio Venus and me Virgo Mars.
Coincidence. IP: Logged |
coolingembers
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posted March 15, 2014 12:59 AM
I agree with Barbie.Im a scorpio venus. I rarely find someone I click well enough with to peruse, so when i find one? Unless i sense dis-interest, i'm pretty much all in. Same with what she said about not being over someone. After a breakup you could be Brad Pitt and all i see is " You're not *insert ex's name* Once ive healed though, its on. IP: Logged |
Mystic_Cat
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posted March 15, 2014 01:05 AM
Can get fairly possessive. Like intensity in relationships.Venus in Scorpio 11th house IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted March 15, 2014 01:06 AM
I think scorp venus would be persistent, scorp is a fixed sign and all...In my experience however, not really. But the ones I'm talking about all have stressful aspects to their suns n moons. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2014 01:16 AM
Extremely persistent.
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MagnumJoe
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posted March 15, 2014 01:24 AM
Got Venus in scorpio in 11H.Well, pursuit isn't the mainstay. It's obsession and jealousy. When i like someone, and i rarely do, even if i didn't get the chance to pursue, i get obsessed by them. And in their presence i become very jealous even though there is nothing to be jealous about? They are not mine, and i still don't even know them that well, and they still don't know me either! But something keeps nagging inside my head:"She is yours! She shouldn't be talking to anyone except you! You and only you! Are you going to just stand here? Go mesmerize and enslave her passions now! Cradle her femininity and touch her sexuality! Nooow! NOOOW! I SAID NOOOW!" That's me  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2014 01:28 AM
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something keeps nagging inside my head:"She is yours! She should be talking to anyone except you!
Yes. This sounds familiar lol IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
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posted March 15, 2014 02:05 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Yes. This sounds familiar lol
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Aries23Degrees
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posted March 15, 2014 02:30 AM
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Originally posted by coolingembers:
I agree with Barbie.Im a scorpio venus. I rarely find someone I click well enough with to peruse, so when i find one? Unless i sense dis-interest, i'm pretty much all in. Same with what she said about not being over someone. After a breakup you could be Brad Pitt and all i see is " You're not *insert ex's name* Once ive healed though, its on.
Let me just tell my story because you took the words right out of my mouth. I know that all people fear rejection, but some people tend to handle it better than others. As a Venus in Scorpio myself, I wouldn't say that I am part of that group. Once I sense that the affections are not reciprocated, I dodge. But if I see that I definitely have a chance to get in there, I'm like a dog with a bone. I turn on the charm- FULL BLAST. I once had a Venus in Virgo guy that I could tell liked me but was very evasive about it. One day I pressed him into a corner and kissed him passionately. At first he resisted , then conceded.After that, he avoided me for 5 years!!! Last year we met again and guess what? The attraction is still very strong. So I put myself out there again and again, he resisted. Eventually I got the message and this year, I started something with someone else. The attraction wasn't as strong as it was for the guy though.And now, he is asking about me and who I am with and I'm no longer there. When I move on, I move on. I still like him but I won't go back to someone who didn't want me until I wasn't available to him anymore. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
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posted March 15, 2014 02:44 AM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
One day I pressed him into a corner and kissed him passionately. At first he resisted , then he conceded.Last year we met again and guess what? The attraction is still very strong. So I put myself out there again and again, he resisted.
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posted March 15, 2014 02:44 AM
I have a scorpio venus and virgo mars too (in 5th and 4th house)
And when I'm in a relationship with someone I love, I always start with being very cool and not so emotional, but with time I grow more and more possessive feelings and I love them more and more for each day…
But I think my moon square uranus eventually wants to break free, which creates some very complicated feelings. I think I might even start to lose interest or think the grass is greener somewhere else, while my scorpio venus want's to hold on forever on that person. I'm rarely the one who breaks up, but I'm always the person who ruins the relationship anyways lol… IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted March 15, 2014 03:28 AM
I have an ex with this. He wasn't overly persistent in the beginning, needed some encouraging from my part to know he is safe to pursue. After that, good luck kicking him out of the house for some me-time.  He was also VERY jealous, pathologically so. He had DC in Scorpio too. He was suspicious of my coworkers, all my exes, or any guy I would talk to casually. It's been 3 years of radio silence after the break-up and I still get a phonecall with unknown number or a text or even one of his friends calling me like it's wrong number. I don't know what he thinks he's accomplishing with that, because I'm neither scared, nor intimidated, and heck not nostalgic.
It's a placement that I kinda would like to avoid in the future. Too much unnecessary drama. ------------------
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Odette
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posted March 15, 2014 04:48 AM
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When I move on, I move on. I still like him but I won't go back to someone who didn't want me until I wasn't available to him anymore.
This is something I really like about Scorpio Venus.
I'm serious about love and sex - I have a Capricorn Mars. This works really well when my Mars is in aspect to their Venus - which puts their Venus on my Pluto. I like that they are very direct emotionally. When they love you - you know it and they rarely play games. IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars
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posted March 15, 2014 04:56 AM
Venus does NOT pursue, Mars does.The feelings of a Scorpio Venus are persistent, though, but it is the person's Mars that takes action (or not, if a weak Mars). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 15, 2014 05:10 AM
That's true about taking action... but Scorpio Venus - regardless of their Mars - if they are truly in love - and the connection seems otherworldly and deep.. they are very honest and open about how they feel. Not always verbally - but through their actions and their eyes.
They don't do anything to betray the connection. Also the detriment Venuses (Aries & Sco) - act a bit different to other Venuses.
Here we have Venus in the sign of Mars/Pluto... so the way they show their affection can still be so intense and Martian/Plutonian in nature... that it comes across as pursuing..
I'm not sure how else to explain it. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted March 15, 2014 05:28 AM
I've had two go stalker crazy of me - I wasn't interested. Even after they were clearly sleeping with other people, and they knew I knew this. Still vengeful harassment.These days when I meet a VIS who isn't interested in me romantically, I consider it a gift from the Gods. I try to appreciate them even if they irritate me in other ways. IP: Logged |
MagnumJoe
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posted March 15, 2014 05:48 AM
I am not convinced that hunting is mars only.I have a weak mars: in Libra 19°. I can tell you that my venus in Scorpio is the one that drives me in hunting. Even when i pursue, i do it Scorpio style. I switch between Libra and Scorpio, but i mainly do it Scorpio.IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted March 15, 2014 06:24 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Also the detriment Venuses (Aries & Sco) - act a bit different to other Venuses.
Here we have Venus in the sign of Mars/Pluto... so the way they show their affection can still be so intense and Martian/Plutonian in nature... that it comes across as pursuing..
I'm not sure how else to explain it.
Odette, would Venus square the Mars/Pluto conjunction behave more like a Scorpio Venus?
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Alma Sun
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posted March 15, 2014 06:58 AM
Speaking for myself I've never pursued anyone. Too lazy lolBut I've noticed ViS men pursue relentlessly. A ViS friend with Virgo Mars once said to me about his relationships, "I just want some p****. If there's something there and it develops into something more, so be it." ------------------
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theunknown
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posted March 15, 2014 08:16 AM
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posted March 15, 2014 08:19 AM
I know 2 sag guys with venus in scorpio. I kissed with both of them lol:P
I don't think any of them was aggressive or especially pursuing, they were more like very intense and focused and 100% "there". They are not the ones to get easily distracted by anything, they are passionate and even romantic I think! It's not that bad a placement, especially not for a sag! And I don't think they just wanted p**** either, cause I never went to bed with any of them, and they respected that 100% and was not pushing at all I also know that from myself, maybe I would try hard to seduce someone I like, but I would never do anything they don't want me to do :P IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted March 15, 2014 08:40 AM
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ash20
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posted March 15, 2014 09:50 AM
I don't think they really go after people they like. They expect the other person to come to them. They need ALOT of attention. If you show just the slightest interest in anyone or anything else they will get overdramatic! And they are very obsessiveIP: Logged |
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