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Topic: Synastry aspects that delays the relationship?
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plutomercjup20
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From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:28 PM
  
I have Saturn conjunct Venus ( along with other hard aspects with Saturn) with a guy I have liked (still do) since like 2 years ago and we are basically still in the same spot as we were years ago.... also every time we take a step forward later on we seem to go two steps backwards.... is it all because of the Saturn aspects? I feel like we have a lot of bad aspected Saturn  My main question is what aspects cause delays in relationships or what causes delays in (maybe?) future relationships? Other Saturn aspects we have are :
Saturn conjunct MC (4'12)
Venus conjunct Saturn (5'19)
Saturn square Sun (4'47)
Saturn square Pluto (2'33)
Saturn trine Moon (2'20)
Moon trine Saturn (1'55)
Saturn trine Jupiter (3'23)
Saturn sextile Neptune (4'21)
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plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:34 PM
Also do mind that I have in my natal chart Saturn square Venus , mars , Jupiter and AS so maybe that affects?IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 16, 2014 04:38 PM
Saturn in 7H
Venus-Saturn
I have Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct Neptune, and oddly enough this aspect also causes delays. So check that maybe?Most of your Saturn aspects are wide orb, except Moon-Saturn. But that aspect alone wouldn't cause a delay. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:43 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Saturn in 7H
Venus-SaturnI have Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct Neptune, and oddly enough this aspect also causes delays.
Hi, Moonfish! I have missed you!!  Does DC ruler conj Neptune also cause delays? Coz I'm soon to be 31 and broken 2 engagements already. It's like sorry gurl, you just have zero luck with men, get used to it. ------------------
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Moonfish
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From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 16, 2014 04:50 PM
Hey, I missed you too  I love your new name!Good question, from what I read anything that involves Neptune and 7H makes it difficult for someone to find there soulmate without running into a few "fakers" down the road. So yes I believe the Desc ruler could be a factor as well IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:53 PM
Ahh well, I've known anything BUT! At this point I am not even disappointed, just shrugging. Thanks Moonfish! I hope everything is well with you!  Where's the dragon?  ------------------
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plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:55 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Saturn in 7H
Venus-Saturn
I have Sun/Moon midpoint conjunct Neptune, and oddly enough this aspect also causes delays. So check that maybe?Most of your Saturn aspects are wide orb, except Moon-Saturn. But that aspect alone wouldn't cause a delay.
Wait is this just natal or does this also apply in synastry? I was asking mainly about it for synastry. Luckily I don't have sun/moon conjunctions with Neptune or Saturn in the 7th but I do have Saturn square Venus , mars , Jupiter and my AS. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 220
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 04:56 PM
To the OP: in my experience, nothing screws the relationship more than Saturn delays and obstacles, which mostly translate as Venus-Saturn hard aspect in composite, Saturn in the comp 7th or Sat sq, conj or opp Asc/DC axis. Some people make it work. I never could. Maybe you have better luck. Stay optimistic!  ------------------
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4313
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 16, 2014 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Ahh well, I've known anything BUT! At this point I am not even disappointed, just shrugging. Thanks Moonfish! I hope everything is well with you! Where's the dragon?
I hear ya, after a while you realize it's best just to let love find you <3 Yes everything's been good, how about for you?
Lol no idea, I haven't talked to him in months  IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 05:06 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
To the OP: in my experience, nothing screws the relationship more than Saturn delays and obstacles, which mostly translate as Venus-Saturn hard aspect in composite, Saturn in the comp 7th or Sat sq, conj or opp Asc/DC axis. Some people make it work. I never could. Maybe you have better luck. Stay optimistic!
Haha thanks for the positive vibes! Hopefully I make it work , I mean I've been single ever since I was born but then again I am young but still . Venus , mars and Jupiter are all in my 7th house squaring Saturn .... looks like I am going to be single for a very long time , plus once Saturn moves to Sagittarius he will move into my 7th house so yes I am basically forever alone. I would have to check our composite charts though. IP: Logged |
vickymadness
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From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 05:14 PM
I have been in similar situation. Legs in mud.
Their Saturn square my Venus.
My Saturn conjunct their mars.
Wooh, thank god I'm out.
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Moonfish
Moderator Posts: 4313
From: Tropical Ocean
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted March 16, 2014 05:15 PM
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Originally posted by plutomercjup20:
Wait is this just natal or does this also apply in synastry? I was asking mainly about it for synastry.Luckily I don't have sun/moon conjunctions with Neptune or Saturn in the 7th but I do have Saturn square Venus , mars , Jupiter and my AS.
Both, and Venus-Saturn is actually one of the most common aspects known for delayed relationships. At the same time, Synastry Venus-Saturn is common in long-term relationships as well. So perhaps if you continue to stay patient this guy will be worth the wait IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 05:45 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Both, and Venus-Saturn is actually one of the most common aspects known for delayed relationships. At the same time, Synastry Venus-Saturn is common in long-term relationships as well. So perhaps if you continue to stay patient this guy will be worth the wait
Hahaha you don't know how many times I have tried to get over this guy! Its impossible , I would get over him for about a week and then go back to liking him again. Its a tiring cycle to be honest but yeah maybe I should just be patient about it? Maybe he is worth the wait Who knows what the future awaits?
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plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 05:47 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I have been in similar situation. Legs in mud.
Their Saturn square my Venus.
My Saturn conjunct their mars.
Wooh, thank god I'm out.
I've heard so many bad things about Saturn/mars when badly aspected! Do you mind if I ask what was it like? IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Both, and Venus-Saturn is actually one of the most common aspects known for delayed relationships. At the same time, Synastry Venus-Saturn is common in long-term relationships as well. So perhaps if you continue to stay patient this guy will be worth the wait
We actually also have the north node conjunct sun (0'13) so maybe I should really wait and be patient? Since apparently that conjunction means that we both have a sense of moving forward together? Right? IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1816
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 06:04 PM
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Originally posted by plutomercjup20:
I've heard so many bad things about Saturn/mars when badly aspected! Do you mind if I ask what was it like?
hmm..
Lack of spontaneity. Moves were calculated. I was feeling repressed all the time. Not to mention, the relationship did not involve sexual expression, of any form. IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
Knowflake Posts: 74
From: I live where you vacation
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 16, 2014 06:13 PM
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
hmm..
Lack of spontaneity. Moves were calculated. I was feeling repressed all the time. Not to mention, the relationship did not involve sexual expression, of any form.
Oooh that sounds very similar to something I went through ... everything was very predictable. Good thing that's over with for both you and I. IP: Logged |
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