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Topic: Attracting men already in relationships?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 618 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 16, 2014 07:46 PM
Why is it they want to cheat on their girlfriends with me? Is it my Lilith-Venus/ascendant? So annoying but it happens frequently. Or is it my mars opposite Neptune? Really it makes me sad this happens. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3741 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 07:54 PM
I noticed that married men hit on me when either their wife/partner is pregnant or they have small children. Usually they hit on women who remind them of their wife.. so it's not just anyone. I notice that their wife/SO looks similar to me.. I'm a younger better looking version.I think this is extra common behaviour in men so it wouldn't be your chart. Because I've seen this happen to other women and also had this happen multiple times. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3741 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 16, 2014 07:55 PM
I do have Mars conjunct Neptune though lol I just don't think it's related to an aspect - because I see it SO frequently with different women... and the guy is the one who actively pursues cheating. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1205 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 16, 2014 08:34 PM
Yeah it could be things in their chart, or just men unhappy or noncommittal with their relationship. In your chart though, do you have 12th house placements? Venus/Mars particularly. It's often thought to indicate that you might pursue that kind of thing but really you never know. You could attract it just as well.
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dadoo Knowflake Posts: 280 From: Mercury Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 16, 2014 08:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I noticed that married men hit on me when either their wife/partner is pregnant or they have small children. Usually they hit on women who remind them of their wife.. so it's not just anyone. I notice that their wife/SO looks similar to me.. I'm a younger better looking version.
Oh, wow. It is EXACTLY the pattern. I kind of don't care if I attract them unconsciously or not. Answer is no anyway. IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 618 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 16, 2014 09:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Yeah it could be things in their chart, or just men unhappy or noncommittal with their relationship. In your chart though, do you have 12th house placements? Venus/Mars particularly. It's often thought to indicate that you might pursue that kind of thing but really you never know. You could attract it just as well.
Yep, jupiter in 12th trine Venus IP: Logged |
sis Knowflake Posts: 159 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 17, 2014 05:21 PM
I have Mars conjuct Neptune in the 12th.Yes. I get the same. Spoken men try to have sex with me. In the last 30 days, this happened more than 3 times... IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1601 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 10:43 PM
Same here. All the time. Its really anmoying. When i was 24 i met a 26 year old married man. We have a 5 1/2 year old daughter. It was a big scandal. I am looking to get married and want my own family but any idiot who approaches me is already involved. Im starting to lose hope.
I have venus inconjunct pluto. Sun, north node, & pas fortune in the 12th house.
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Bearee Knowflake Posts: 321 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted March 18, 2014 11:04 AM
This has happened to me 3 times. Two of them I didn't know they were married and the third one.. I wasn't interested in him, but he constantly flirted with me even though I was being unresponsive to his flirty behaviour.I have no 12th house placements, only Venus & Mars opposite Neptune. IP: Logged |