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NeptunianSag
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posted March 16, 2014 07:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why is it they want to cheat on their girlfriends with me? Is it my Lilith-Venus/ascendant? So annoying but it happens frequently. Or is it my mars opposite Neptune? Really it makes me sad this happens.

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Odette
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posted March 16, 2014 07:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I noticed that married men hit on me when either their wife/partner is pregnant or they have small children.
Usually they hit on women who remind them of their wife.. so it's not just anyone. I notice that their wife/SO looks similar to me.. I'm a younger better looking version.

I think this is extra common behaviour in men so it wouldn't be your chart.
Because I've seen this happen to other women and also had this happen multiple times.

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Odette
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posted March 16, 2014 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I do have Mars conjunct Neptune though lol
I just don't think it's related to an aspect - because I see it SO frequently with different women... and the guy is the one who actively pursues cheating.

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DeepFreeze
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posted March 16, 2014 08:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah it could be things in their chart, or just men unhappy or noncommittal with their relationship.

In your chart though, do you have 12th house placements? Venus/Mars particularly.

It's often thought to indicate that you might pursue that kind of thing but really you never know. You could attract it just as well.

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dadoo
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posted March 16, 2014 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for dadoo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
I noticed that married men hit on me when either their wife/partner is pregnant or they have small children.
Usually they hit on women who remind them of their wife.. so it's not just anyone. I notice that their wife/SO looks similar to me.. I'm a younger better looking version.

Oh, wow. It is EXACTLY the pattern.
I kind of don't care if I attract them unconsciously or not.
Answer is no anyway.

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NeptunianSag
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posted March 16, 2014 09:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NeptunianSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Yeah it could be things in their chart, or just men unhappy or noncommittal with their relationship.

In your chart though, do you have 12th house placements? Venus/Mars particularly.

It's often thought to indicate that you might pursue that kind of thing but really you never know. You could attract it just as well.


Yep, jupiter in 12th trine Venus

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sis
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posted March 17, 2014 05:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars conjuct Neptune in the 12th.

Yes. I get the same. Spoken men try to have sex with me. In the last 30 days, this happened more than 3 times...

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Venusian Moon
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posted March 17, 2014 10:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venusian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Same here. All the time. Its really anmoying. When i was 24 i met a 26 year old married man. We have a 5 1/2 year old daughter. It was a big scandal.


I am looking to get married and want my own family but any idiot who approaches me is already involved. Im starting to lose hope.

I have venus inconjunct pluto.


Sun, north node, & pas fortune in the 12th house.

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Bearee
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posted March 18, 2014 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Bearee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This has happened to me 3 times.
Two of them I didn't know they were married and the third one.. I wasn't interested in him, but he constantly flirted with me even though I was being unresponsive to his flirty behaviour.

I have no 12th house placements, only Venus & Mars opposite Neptune.

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