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Topic: The Sun-Pluto synastry
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Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 251
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 17, 2014 08:58 AM
  
I am usually Pluto conj their Sun. That's with late Libras or early Scorps. I am Sun if we have the opposition, but with somewhat older dudes. From my experience, usually Sun initiates or ignites the relationship. Pluto is initially distrustful and skeptical. As the relationship progresses, Pluto is charmed by the Sun's light and decides to give him a chance. But after a while, Pluto wants more intimacy and time spent together and the Sun wants to keep it light. Eventually Sun wants to move away and Pluto's little black heart is torn to pieces. I have rarely experienced such hurt, bitterness, anger and desperation as when a Sun moves away from my Pluto. For the record I am talking about hard aspects, but any share of experience is welcomed. ------------------
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cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1743
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 17, 2014 09:01 AM
It kinda equates to a little too late. Sun wants it when it wants it and pluto drags it out. Sun person will put it on the back burner and turn to other things to stay preoccupied. that is when pluto sees and then comes to the realization that they know what they want....sun square pluto synastryIP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 251
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 17, 2014 09:04 AM
You were the Sun?Yeah, I guess I've had a similar scenario when I was the Sun. 2 older guys with their Pluto opposite my Sun bailed out on me when I asked them out. I scared the sh# outta them. ------------------
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cappy1277
Moderator Posts: 1743
From: philadelphia,pa
Registered: Jul 2009
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posted March 17, 2014 12:48 PM
Yep I am the sun.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: Pluto with DeepFreeze
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 12:56 PM
We have it double whammy. Obsession I feel isn't the correct term with us. It's more of just this powerful wanting of each other on really deep levels. I'd say we've both charmed each other. We both want and desire the same things. I've never experienced what I have with him and I can honestly say that I'm not sure I'll be able to live through it if anything bad were to happen. No ones pulled away yet. Our bond get stronger and stronger each day it seems. Maybe because of the double whammy ? I'm not sure. Both hard and soft aspects. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 17, 2014 01:54 PM
I have it with someone but both of us have it natally too so it's kinda natural to probe ppl.IP: Logged |
sis
Knowflake Posts: 159
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Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 17, 2014 03:36 PM
The last 2 guys I had an affair with; we had it. As a matter of fact I have it with my very close pals as well. In love affairs; Let's call the first one A guy; with him I was madly obsessed. But for a long time he did not let me go as well. At the end, I was the one left with a broken heart but I blame Venus square Saturn for it. On the other hand, last month, we ran to each other and I could tell that if he was not married he would have jumped on me. the second one B guy; push & pull affair. It has been 4 years, we are not getting anywhere. I don't think I am obssesed with him. When I wanted more he was not responsive. So I tried to push him away but he is always looking for a hole to sneak back into my life. Even though he has a girlfriend now, he wants to have sex with me. I refused him several times but oddly that does not stop him. I verbally attack him a lot that does not stop him. I went on a long journey and as if he smelled my return, he called me again and asked to see me... That was 3 days ago... I don't understand him at all... I am the sun, they are pluto. ( sun square pluto ) IP: Logged |
ash20
Knowflake Posts: 283
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 09:37 PM
Ive had the double whammy.. Sun sq pluto & sun opp pluto. I think we both kinda stalked each other at different times. He pulled away first and I tried to get him back then I stopped caring and he tried to come back lol IP: Logged |
ash20
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted March 17, 2014 09:40 PM
For me it was kind of a 'I dont want you but I cant stand to see you with someone else' kinda thing with the dw. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 251
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 01:12 AM
Yeah, there is a push and pull quality to this aspect. In all the relationships I had with this, there was some sort of break after the initial spark, sometimes years! Usually months. Then Sun comes asking for a chance and in my stupidity I give it to him. :/I think, even though both partners might be suffering, the Pluto pain is just so raw. When it first hit me I was so unprepared, I'm too much of a fire girl to be so emotional. Surprise, surprise. ------------------
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Insilver
Knowflake Posts: 87
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Registered: Mar 2012
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posted March 18, 2014 01:49 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Eventually Sun wants to move away and Pluto's little black heart is torn to pieces. I have rarely experienced such hurt, bitterness, anger and desperation as when a Sun moves away from my Pluto.
I LOVE this description. I am usually the Pluto as well and though I enjoy that role, it can really effing hurt. Seems very very few potentials get it or have the stones not to run.
Of course a decent amount of natal Pluto helps. A friend I have, my Pluto hits his tight Sun/Moon/Merc/Venus stellium closely. I scare and fascinate him at the same time. Lol. He may, or may not, have that same effect on me.
Haven't decided yet. Seems my Sun trines his Pluto, interesting.
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Doreen
Knowflake Posts: 386
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted March 18, 2014 03:52 AM
Would Venus square Pluto be similar? IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 251
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 18, 2014 04:28 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Doreen:
Would Venus square Pluto be similar?
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/002063.html IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 7738
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted March 18, 2014 09:12 AM
I've never found Sun/Pluto conjunction in synastry very significant, personally.
I've had it many times with different people, me being the Sun, and the Pluto, and nope. There can be some attraction but not the deep wrenching type. I don't know, maybe it's just me. *shrug*However I can say that the Pluto person in the *conjunction* is usually the one who feels the Pluto energy more. Well, I guess there are exceptions, as always. IP: Logged |
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