posted March 20, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
This question is for any girl who has a fire sun or mars Be honest here what do you really find attractive in guy for you to want them?

Im a scorpio sun and aqua rising and moon and im not a bad looking guy i can always get girls BUT i can never get you fire signs! lmaoo
im seriously so attracted to girls with a fire sun or mars!

i do have venus and mercury in sagittarius BUT i can never get one i have never had sex with one and this website just makes me want to experience it lmao is it my scorpio sun? it actually kind of bothers me that i can never seem to actually get one of them!

i usually always have good communication but other than that no luck is it because im small? im the pretty boy type nd im 5ft 6 so im average height. I feel like they are attracted to those bigger scruffy 6ft and up guys, i dont mean to offend anybody im just being honest.

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Yeah, because everything a Fire woman wants is to be on some dude's friggin check list.

Pleeeeease. I am not surprised Fire women don't like you, from the way you come across. Why should we?!

We're proud people, you don't "get" us easily. You have to put effort into it. No, your blank Scorpio stare will not do the trick for you. ACTUAL effort. Fire women like to be courted, like to be appreciated as women, as intellectual and spiritual beings also, we like for you to show some interest in our hobbies and whereabouts but not stalk us like some crazy low life. Make grand gestures, buy her 1000 roses or smth, sweep her off her feet! We're romantic but it has to be *special* and it has to be larger than life, like no romance has ever been!

Oh, and I don't know about other Fire women, but I'd better not sniff that you're only after sex, because.. goodbye! To me, that is offensive, I am so much more than a vagina. Like I said, we're not doormatsy and insecure and submissive like other women. Look for a Cancer or something. We're pretty friggin' impressive and when you talk to us, show us that you're aware of it. It's a privilege to be with us, you understand?

Aries Sun, Mercury and Mars conjunct
Sag Moon, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune
=probably the fieriest one on this board.

Can't you tell?

posted March 20, 2014 09:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:

I'm Sag Sun Mars Libra though.

My chart ruler is in Scorpio so maybe that's the attraction?

I know many girls that have mainly fire placements and a lot of them fall for water signs.
Tbh I thought it was the other way around and we were more attracted to water signs than they are to us.

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I'm Sag sun with Mars Libra too! With Scorpio Asc and Venus.

I can't deal with water signs. Air, earth, fire, great. Water, is a big no. I find them are stifling after a while. I have good water sign friends. But romantically, there is just something off.

Gabby mentioned being judgmental and I agree. Water signs get too critical and judgmental in the long term. Take care of your own house before you come telling me what to do in mine.

Others have said we like macho men? I like strong but quiet types. But not "macho". Don't like men who "talk a good game". I don't fall for that. Someone else mentioned "the romantic types". Yeah. I don't like that either.

They have to be open, honest, upfront, no games and no emotional wibbly wobbly types. Too much water makes them "mysterious" (um, yeah, I'll stick to that word) and I don't have time for that.

YES to big tall guys, quiet(ish), strong, dependable, stable, smart and sensitive though. I do like a well dressed guy but not someone who spends more time in the mirror or more time at the spa than I do.

We need the like button on this forum! I'd like Gabby & DM's posts. I think they are right on and much better said than me. There is nothing worse than having to fit into some check list!

posted March 20, 2014 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Yeah, because everything a Fire woman wants is to be on some dude's friggin check list.

Pleeeeease. I am not surprised Fire women don't like you, from the way you come across. Why should we?!

We're proud people, you don't "get" us easily. You have to put effort into it. No, your blank Scorpio stare will not do the trick for you. ACTUAL effort. Fire women like to be courted, like to be appreciated as women, as intellectual and spiritual beings also, we like for you to show some interest in our hobbies and whereabouts but not stalk us like some crazy low life. Make grand gestures, buy her 1000 roses or smth, sweep her off her feet! We're romantic but it has to be *special* and it has to be larger than life, like no romance has ever been!

Oh, and I don't know about other Fire women, but I'd better not sniff that you're only after sex, because.. goodbye! To me, that is offensive, I am so much more than a vagina. Like I said, we're not doormatsy and insecure and submissive like other women. Look for a Cancer or something. We're pretty friggin' impressive and when you talk to us, show us that you're aware of it. It's a privilege to be with us, you understand?

Aries Sun, Mercury and Mars conjunct
Sag Moon, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune
[b]=probably the fieriest one on this board.

Can't you tell?

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posted March 20, 2014 10:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Yeah, because everything a Fire woman wants is to be on some dude's friggin check list.

Pleeeeease. I am not surprised Fire women don't like you, from the way you come across. Why should we?!

We're proud people, you don't "get" us easily. You have to put effort into it. No, your blank Scorpio stare will not do the trick for you. ACTUAL effort. Fire women like to be courted, like to be appreciated as women, as intellectual and spiritual beings also, we like for you to show some interest in our hobbies and whereabouts but not stalk us like some crazy low life. Make grand gestures, buy her 1000 roses or smth, sweep her off her feet! We're romantic but it has to be *special* and it has to be larger than life, like no romance has ever been!

Oh, and I don't know about other Fire women, but I'd better not sniff that you're only after sex, because.. goodbye! To me, that is offensive, I am so much more than a vagina. Like I said, we're not doormatsy and insecure and submissive like other women. Look for a Cancer or something. We're pretty friggin' impressive and when you talk to us, show us that you're aware of it. It's a privilege to be with us, you understand?

Aries Sun, Mercury and Mars conjunct
Sag Moon, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune
[b]=probably the fieriest one on this board.

Can't you tell?

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and this is why i love fire women. blaze on baby!!!

posted March 20, 2014 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'm Sag sun with Mars Libra too! With Scorpio Asc and Venus.

I can't deal with water signs. Air, earth, fire, great. Water, is a big no. I find them are stifling after a while. I have good water sign friends. But romantically, there is just something off.

Gabby mentioned being judgmental and I agree. Water signs get too critical and judgmental in the long term. Take care of your own house before you come telling me what to do in mine.

Others have said we like macho men? I like strong but quiet types. But not "macho". Don't like men who "talk a good game". I don't fall for that. Someone else mentioned "the romantic types". Yeah. I don't like that either.

They have to be open, honest, upfront, no games and no emotional wibbly wobbly types. Too much water makes them "mysterious" (um, yeah, I'll stick to that word) and I don't have time for that.

YES to big tall guys, quiet(ish), strong, dependable, stable, smart and sensitive though. I do like a well dressed guy but not someone who spends more time in the mirror or more time at the spa than I do.

We need the like button on this forum! I'd like Gabby & DM's posts. I think they are right on and much better said than me. There is nothing worse than having to fit into some check list!

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I think you said it very well!!!
I can't stand macho guys, I want a real guy not one that's over compensating for his lack of inches(wherever it is he lacks them)
I don't get into romantic guys because flowers die and candy makes you fat!
If you want to be romantic surprised me, take a day off work just hang out n talk to me all day, listen to my crazy thoughts n have a real discussion with me about them, I mean where I can tell you thought about what I said not just parroted back to me something.
Be interested in me and not just how I make you look or how I relate to you.
Look at the pictures of me when I was an ugly lil kid and tell me I was so cute, look at pictures of my grandma that died that I loved so much and tell me you wish you would have known her!
Be boring with me and let me know even if all we are doing is the laundry and I'm wearing baggy sweats, messed up hair n no make up...you think I'm beautiful.

I'll feel loved so much more by simple things than I would by some grand gesture of you taking me out, showing me off n 'allowing' me to be your eye candy, to make you feel like a man. Thanks!

I've never met a scorpio that wanted his girl to feel wanted unless she fit into his stereotype of how he thought she should behave, he thought she should look n what he thought she talk about, even with him.

We are not your blow up doll you keep in the closet until you want us, we are ppl with feelings.
You will only be as important and special to a fire girl as you make her feel she is to you!

If you behave and respect us we won't wrestle you to the ground and put you in a headlock in front of your friends, but if you don't behave...we will! It doesn't matter if we are only 5'2 n 105lbs, we can do it because we are fire signs! I used to wrestle my brothers to the ground and they were both nearly 6ft tall, I'm 5'2.

Lucie, I love your point about being mysterious! Don't stalk us and act like it you being mysterious and cool! I had to live this out with a scorpio once!
We don't find this behavior charming or romantic, like a prince running after his maiden like a pisces might see it!
You slithering around dark alleys, following us when we are out with our friends, stalking our internet profiles, blocking calls to us and saying nothing when we answer, siting outside our houses and waiting to catch us doing something wrong doesn't equate to a loving gesture of your depth of emotion as a taurus might see it!

We would see that as an invasion of our privacy, as an act if aggression and a potential risk to our lives....we would probably buy a gun after we got the restraining order, then we would go to a shooting range n happily practice our new found hobby!
If you want to mess with fire signs you have to know we don't play, we are not emotional basket cases that love the head games water signs like to play.

We like room to breath, air feeds fire....
So obviously we don't like the jealousy or the accusations that will eventually smother our fire, for you, so leave it at home, if not maybe you should just stay home!

posted March 20, 2014 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Lmfao! See and that is why i like a fire girl i love that attitude i cant stand a wetback save me damsel in distress haha! ! But i see what you mean iv always been a more introverted person but that hasnt been me in the

past 3yrs im now older and more confident with myself and thats when iv been getting along so well with fire girls and just having maddd fun with them BUT im in a relationship for 3 yrs and im not the cheating type so i

obv never make any moves but i feel that the way i am now i can definitely attract, keep up and have fun with you fire girls hahahaaa and the judging part psshhhhhh im all about freedom i never judge my girl or anybody for

that matter i just love to have fun i think maybe since my sun has progressed to sagittarius 3yrs ago it has really lightened up my scorpio ways

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posted March 20, 2014 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I deff agree with you lmao im probly the most blunt scorpio that i know! I hate mind games and would rather just say or do it ! Im not super scorpio tho jst my sun and pluto in 9th house scorpio one of my friends who has a lot of scorpio is just craZy secretive i think my merc in sag makes me very blunt and not up for mind games

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posted March 20, 2014 01:40 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I'm Sag sun with Mars Libra too! With Scorpio Asc and Venus.

I can't deal with water signs. Air, earth, fire, great. Water, is a big no. I find them are stifling after a while. I have good water sign friends. But romantically, there is just something off.

Gabby mentioned being judgmental and I agree. Water signs get too critical and judgmental in the long term. Take care of your own house before you come telling me what to do in mine.

Others have said we like macho men? I like strong but quiet types. But not "macho". Don't like men who "talk a good game". I don't fall for that. Someone else mentioned "the romantic types". Yeah. I don't like that either.

They have to be open, honest, upfront, no games and no emotional wibbly wobbly types. Too much water makes them "mysterious" (um, yeah, I'll stick to that word) and I don't have time for that.

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I also have Venus, Mars and Moon conjunct in Libra so unlike you I do love the romantic type I need that in my life.

But I agree I don't like the macho types at all. They're all talk.

My experiences with Scorpios just feed my needs and I think I got them and had a good "handle" on them. I hate games but Scorpio games are romantic in my eyes.
But again that's a stereotype and I'm sure your experiences with watery signs are just as valid and true as mine. I love a challenge so mysterious suits me just fine.

But I get ya. I had an experience with a Pisces guy I wouldn't brag about at all lol.

I guess my Scorp guy was worth the hassle underneath the surface was a very honest big hearted person.

The games are just to lure you in at the start.

posted March 20, 2014 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:

I went out on 1 date with a scorpio guy, I had a meeting with my editor at my house 2 nights later to go over suggestions he had...I told this scorpio I couldn't talk because I had to work. He proceeds to call 23 times in the 3 hours my editor was here to tell me I was not working I was sleeping with this guy at my house, who was an overweight, highly unattractive 70 something guy! N id not even kissed the scorpio!! He was so strange!! My ex had a gem sun and scorp moon n when I left him I had get to a restraining order!
I'm sure their are decent scorpios...I just have met them! Lol

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I went on a date with a Scorpio and he told me what to wear including what color nail polish.....

Also, I had a guy from high school who friended me on Facebook. We chatted a bit. You know catching up. He told me that he still drives by my mother's house and has been writing me letters since high school and did I want him to type them up for me and send them via email.... I left HS +/-20 years ago..... Yup... Scorpio.

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:

I also have Venus, Mars and Moon conjunct in Libra so unlike you I do love the romantic type I need that in my life.

But I agree I don't like the macho types at all. They're all talk.

My experiences with Scorpios just feed my needs and I think I got them and had a good "handle" on them. I hate games but Scorpio games are romantic in my eyes.
But again that's a stereotype and I'm sure your experiences with watery signs are just as valid and true as mine. I love a challenge so mysterious suits me just fine.

But I get ya. I had an experience with a Pisces guy I wouldn't brag about at all lol.

I guess my Scorp guy was worth the hassle underneath the surface was a very honest big hearted person.

The games are just to lure you in at the start.

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Romance is lovely if it's not coming from the player types. It's sweet. But I don't need that. I guess it's a bonus if you get it.

I like some water. I have a lot of Scorp influence. I have tried... But OMG... LOL

posted March 20, 2014 04:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I went on a date with a Scorpio and he told me what to wear including what color nail polish.....

Also, I had a guy from high school who friended me on Facebook. We chatted a bit. You know catching up. He told me that he still drives by my mother's house and [b]has been writing me letters since high school and did I want him to type them up for me and send them via email.... I left HS +/-20 years ago..... Yup... Scorpio.

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posted March 20, 2014 04:24 PM            

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I went on a date with a Scorpio and he told me what to wear including what color nail polish.....

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Lol that is so soo true, lived together with one for some years.. imagine that!

posted March 20, 2014 04:31 PM            

I like sensitivity but not over sensitivity

I hate being told what to do- I make up my own mind.

posted March 20, 2014 04:35 PM            

Take off that damn coat and chop some fire wood.

I dated one Cancer. Never again. Same thing. Too scared to get your nails dirty.

Dating a Pisces now. He's not too absorbed in his looks. He likes to cook, but even though his early ascendant is in Gemini (Joe Namath. OMG. Did you see that fur at kickoff?! ) he's more Taurean which I'm gaga for.

Scorpio men have small frames. I prefer the wide hips of a Taurus. Or the shoulders of a Capricorn. Or the austere brow of an Aries. Something with some hair on it. I'm very much into hips and thighs. #creeplife

posted March 20, 2014 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Im suprised you really feel so put off from scorpios considering you have a scorpio moon lmao i feel like nobody can understand the depth of a scorpio better than a fellow scorpio but i guess not hahaa

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And Scorpio men come after me allll the time.
I like my men hairy, brute and burly or tall. I DO get along with them very well. Just not attracted to them. My father was Scorpio Sun. My BFF's step father is Scorp.

But them silk shirts my father used to wear like The Rock... SMH. I just canNOT.