posted March 24, 2014 09:54 AM            

I've really noticed double standards though. Is this common?
It seems like they want to be chased and only do things on their own terms. One will call me regularly but won't answer if I call. But God forbid I don't answer her call. I can tell she's annoyed. And takes days to get over it.

The other girl will only meet up on her terms and if she suggests it.

It's getting annoying. I'm all about fairness and it's not getting reciprocated.

posted March 24, 2014 01:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Ok I have two very close friends, both Libra females. Same birthday!
We get on really well. We connect on a deep level and really get each other. Maybe due to my Libra Moon?

I've really noticed double standards though. Is this common?
It seems like they want to be chased and only do things on their own terms. One will call me regularly but won't answer if I call. But God forbid I don't answer her call. I can tell she's annoyed. And takes days to get over it.

The other girl will only meet up on her terms and if she suggests it.

It's getting annoying. I'm all about fairness and it's not getting reciprocated.

Obviously I've noticed double standards with plenty of people other than Libra but it really stands out as more of a problem with these two Libra ladies. Any one else notice this? Is this a libra thing?

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posted March 24, 2014 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Ok I have two very close friends, both Libra females. Same birthday!
We get on really well. We connect on a deep level and really get each other. Maybe due to my Libra Moon?

I've really noticed double standards though. Is this common?
It seems like they want to be chased and only do things on their own terms. One will call me regularly but won't answer if I call. But God forbid I don't answer her call. I can tell she's annoyed. And takes days to get over it.

The other girl will only meet up on her terms and if she suggests it.

It's getting annoying. I'm all about fairness and it's not getting reciprocated.

Obviously I've noticed double standards with plenty of people other than Libra but it really stands out as more of a problem with these two Libra ladies. Any one else notice this? Is this a libra thing?

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posted March 24, 2014 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Lol, that is libra's passive agressiveness right there. They can be a bit flakey and indecisive at times, I often don't know what they want because it seems like they don't know what they want either. I find it hard to get them to tell me what they are feeling because they will supress it and the result is just passive aggressiveness. I see them to be the one sign that really finds it difficult to deal with their ugly side that they want to pretend that they don't have. It's like damnit, just talk to me! tell me what's wrong but they wont.

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Oh this is right on the money.

posted March 24, 2014 02:05 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I don't think so, having known quite a few Libras.
The worst that I've encountered was a Taurus (just one) and a sag.
It must be something other than sun sign.

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I'm sure there is more to it than just sun sign.
I'm not sure what to look for though.

posted March 24, 2014 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
How popular are these two women?
TBH what you are describing here sounds like how popular people who have busy calendars act. They have so much going on, everyone is on a schedule with them. They "make time" for you.

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Well, they are well liked and they tend to fit in well with everyone.

I have other friends who are busy too though and there are no double standards there.

It's not just the "making time" either. It's more about expecting more from me than they are willing to give themselves.
I mean, I do understand that people are busy and don't always have time but at the same time they can't expect you to jump whenever they are free.

posted March 24, 2014 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Well, they are well liked and they tend to fit in well with everyone.

I have other friends who are busy too though and there are no double standards there.

It's not just the "making time" either. It's more about expecting more from me than they are willing to give themselves.
I mean, I do understand that people are busy and don't always have time but at the same time they can't expect you to jump whenever they are free.

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posted March 24, 2014 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
It's passive aggressiveness yes but no where near on the level as Geminis. They take it to a whole new level. I'm sure if you have a serious talk with them and ask the one what's going on and that you don't like what she's doing she'll stop. It's all about the approach and making them aware of what they're doing and their level of fairness. No one is a mind reader, you have to tell them. You can't expect people to fix anything without knowing what they're fixing.

Libra sun, moon, mercury and ascendant

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Yep I feel that they are approachable but because we have never had to address anything before I'm not sure.
So far they've been the most smooth sailing friendships I've had.

posted March 24, 2014 02:20 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Heartsong11:
[b] Well, they are well liked and they tend to fit in well with everyone.

I have other friends who are busy too though and there are no double standards there.

It's not just the "making time" either. It's more about expecting more from me than they are willing to give themselves.
I mean, I do understand that people are busy and don't always have time but at the same time they can't expect you to jump whenever they are free.

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posted March 24, 2014 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Whats your Sun sign? Also depends on what else these women have in their chart, not all Libras are the same. More of one element in chart will change the personality.

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I'm Sag Sun, Mercury, Uranus and Neptune
Libra Moon Mars and Venus
Scorpio Saturn Pluto
Cap Asc

One is:
Libra Sun
Sag Moon
Cap Uranus, Neptune and Saturn
Virgo Venus and Merc
Gemini Mars

Other is:
Libra Sun and Moon
Scorpio Saturn, Pluto and Venus
Sag Neptune, Mars and Uranus

Don't know if that tells you more.

posted March 24, 2014 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Heartsong, where is Libra One's moon? Is it close to Uranus or Neptune in your chart?

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Yep. Well it conjunct my Merc, Neptune and is sextile my Venus.

posted March 24, 2014 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
It seems like they want to be chased and only do things on their own terms. One will call me regularly but won't answer if I call. But God forbid I don't answer her call. I can tell she's annoyed. And takes days to get over it.

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Sounds Scorpio to me, they can really hold a grudge when a script doesn't work out like they want it to. I could see a Leo princess being that way, too. Unevolved, of course.

posted March 24, 2014 11:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Heartsong11:
Yep. Well it conjunct my Merc, Neptune and is sextile my Venus.

But no aspect to Uranus. I think that's prob a good thing though isn't it?

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posted March 25, 2014 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by StubbornOne:
Most Librans I know are pretty fair, but have met a few with some horrible double standards, including a Venus in Libra. They'll have some big philosophical argument when they do something bad, or when it comes down to it they'll throw their "fairness" away and go "I don't care, I do what I want". But it's just those few =) Most of them seem to give others the benefit

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Ha ha woopsy. I've done this. I have venus in Libra.
When I was immature though.
Now not so much. I hope,

posted March 25, 2014 02:51 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I've read Neptune can water down planets and luminaries when aspecting. Maybe you are feeling this in your synastry with Libra One?
It seems like there should be more happening and then when it doesn't, you feel disappointed? This sounds more like Neptune than Uranus.

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Thanks Starlight.
I read something about confused emotions with this aspect.
Yours sounds right.

Thought it would be more the moon person that feels this way though? Maybe she does but hides it well.

posted March 25, 2014 02:53 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Sounds Scorpio to me, they can really hold a grudge when a script doesn't work out like they want it to. I could see a Leo princess being that way, too. Unevolved, of course.

But Libra, not so much...at least not because of their sun.

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