posted March 25, 2014 07:49 PM            

Of course every breakup is awful and sad... but with Uranus in close aspect to your Moon, how do you feel when it's over? Is there a part of you that feels a bit jubilant... because you are freeeeeee?

posted March 25, 2014 08:09 PM            

It depends on how "involved" I am with that person.

I'm earth dominant, not exactly free spirited lol but I detach quite easily.

IME, after a break up I was not like "WOOOOHOOO OH YES", but I did feel "lighter" - like a heavy weight was lifted off my chest. Mostly it was because the other people were unhappy with me so once the relationships were broken I felt a whole lot better.

posted March 25, 2014 08:34 PM            

I understand that immediate "relief" that Moon Uranus (Moon sextile Uranus, specifically) seem to feel after a breakup. Yes, "lighter" and unburdened like a weight is gone.

But if you think you've found the one it must still be devastating... How did you get over your last breakup, barbiegirl?

posted March 25, 2014 09:01 PM            

I can definitely agree to being able to move on fast after a break-up IF there really wasn't any connection (we didn't have deep feelings for you). Even if they break up with me or end things it doesn't really affect me.

And yes I feel free (especially if there wasn't anything deep there) because at that point I was probably tired of the person too. I get antsy if someone texts/calls/tries to spend time with me 24/7 so if a relationship ends with a person like that I feel like I can finally breathe lol.

posted March 25, 2014 09:11 PM            

When I break up it means that I'm at the end of my limits (or the other person is at their limits). There is just simply nothing I can think or do that would change my mind or the situation. So I guess that's why I don't think much after a break up - I do all the thinking prior to the break up.

posted March 25, 2014 09:12 PM              

Then I had hoped that things would work out with the second guy and they didn't. Although I did want things to workout with him and wanted to "win" him I guess you could say, and eventually got over him as well. The guy after him I really did like. We had fun together and his looks were huge. But then I found out he had a girlfriend and was cheating on her with me and so I tossed that one out of the window. They were devastating yes but more so because of the hurt that they've caused me.

posted March 25, 2014 10:01 PM            

My first love and first break up affected me a lot, most likely due to my Moon in Pisces, but I did feel a loss due to boundary issues. After maturing a lot more, breakups no longer affect me the same way and I realize that there's a reason for the end of something to open the doorway for something newer to come into my life.

posted March 25, 2014 10:59 PM            

I have Pluto opposite Venus, so it can cancel out my Uranus placements in that sense...I will hold onto even the most casual relationships with my claws dug in.

Unless I'M the one who says it's time to end it, and then I'm done, of course. Very thoroughly and completely done, without much looking back (except in rare instances).

My husband, with his Aqua Mars (opposite his Leo Sun) seems to be done when he's done, from what I gather of his past relationships.

However, he does have a Capricorn Moon and Venus sextile Saturn, so there have been a couple of exceptions (his first girlfriend and myself apparently, as we separated for a brief period during the first year of our relationship, and he and his high school girlfriend separated once or twice).

posted March 26, 2014 01:35 AM              

I can cling to it. Kind of do the Pluto thing and be stubborn about fully letting go, yet, in no way whatsoever wanting to go back.
The free feeling comes too. Free from stress and having to worry about someone else but me.

posted March 26, 2014 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

It's really effortless. What I've expected of both her and myself is completely natural

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posted March 26, 2014 03:07 AM            

I have only experienced 1 person, my first love, that was hard to get over… I was single 3 years after that but with lots of flirts… I have never "really" been single in my life. I have so much going on always…
Scorpio venus in 5th house conjunction pluto and trine jupiter. I also got moon bi-quintile venus. It's like I just can't be single, but can't be in a relationship either.

posted March 26, 2014 05:18 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I have the trine, but also lack water. (Uranus the only one in a water sign)

I can cling to it. Kind of do the Pluto thing and be stubborn about fully letting go, yet, in no way whatsoever wanting to go back.
The free feeling comes too. Free from stress and having to worry about someone else but me.

That said though... I see that it wasn't even what I thought. (Venus square Neptune)
Currently, I ACTUALLY have what I've been waiting for, instead of trying to make happen.
It's really effortless. What I've expected of both her and myself is completely natural.

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Does it hurt or affect you at all?

...it seems the general consensus is that Moon Uranus moves on pretty quickly and easily from a breakup

posted March 26, 2014 06:00 AM            

He just left, didn't say a word, could be dead by now. I feel like I'm still being controlled by the relationship because he's given me absolutely ZERO closure.

posted March 26, 2014 11:09 AM              

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Originally posted by rorrr:
Does it hurt or affect you at all?

...it seems the general consensus is that Moon Uranus moves on pretty quickly and easily from a breakup

I'm asking regarding a serious one, a love relationship

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I can't explain it. lol

A very very loving and serious relationship?
Yeah, I do feel hurt.
Yet, I wouldn't go back. I start moving on instantly.

posted March 27, 2014 01:18 AM            

Depends who initiated the break up and the cause of the break up. If it's me. Yes I feel free and there is no chance of me getting back with that person again.

If it's him, say because he met someone else, I would feel hurt, but yes would feel free,again no chance of getting back with the person.

posted March 27, 2014 02:34 AM              

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I have moon trine uranus, 2 degrees.

Depends who initiated the break up and the cause of the break up. If it's me. Yes I feel free and there is no chance of me getting back with that person again.

If it's him, say because he met someone else, I would feel hurt, but yes would feel free,again no chance of getting back with the person.

If it's external influences and he allows them to break us apart. No. I will feel very hurt and it wouldn't be easy to forget and move on. However I will still not get back with the person.

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posted March 27, 2014 03:43 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I can't explain it. lol

A very very loving and serious relationship?
Yeah, I do feel hurt.
Yet, I wouldn't go back. I start moving on instantly.

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Yeah me to, i "celebrate" it with a night of heavy drinking alone and then i don't give it annother tought. Moon square uranus.

posted March 27, 2014 07:11 AM            

I know no matter how much Uranus influence somebody has, we all have emotions and even the most Uranian among us can experience hurt feelings.

posted March 27, 2014 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I have Moon square Uranus. I can detach pretty easily, but I do tend to dwell. One thing I will say though is that I just cannot go back to someone whom I used to be with, whether I broke it off or they did.
If I truly loved somebody, it'd be a lot harder, despite what a Moon-Uranus square suggests.

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I think this is interesting… when I thought back on all the people I've dated, I never went back to an ex ever:S
But one thing that I always thought about with exes is that I think it is such a shame to spend a lot of time with a person, maybe even for several years and then break up, and never look back?
I actually do miss the people I used to be with, not because I would want to date them again, but just because I actually spend so much time and really opened up to them, and now they are just gone…. I don't really like that