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Topic: Mercury in Virgo - So hard on myself
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fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 07:47 PM
I am so critical of myself with mercury in virgo. Does anyone with this placement find they have difficulty with being critical of oneself? IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1329 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 26, 2014 08:10 PM
I don't have Mercury in Virgo, but I think this behavior in general is a Virgo trait. I've seen similar threads about being self critical on here from Virgo Asc, and Moons too. As a Virgo Sun I am like this and I can literally be my own worst enemy in that regard. Like, if someone where to point out a flaw or mistake about me, it wouldn't even phase me because it's a guarantee that I was already aware of it and have thought and critiqued it to the nth degree. I'm literally at a point now where I'm trying to become more conscious of when I think negatively about myself and instead correct it with positive thoughts. Do you have any hard aspects to Saturn to any of your personal planets?
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fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 08:14 PM
Saturn semi-square sun, moon, mercury, and square Uranus (not a personal planet but Uranus is the ruler of my chart with my aquarius rising). I also have Saturn opposite my Asc. Just out of curiosity, do all these aspects make me more like a Capricorn? IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 160 From: Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 08:23 PM
Yes I have Mercury in Virgo and am also Virgo sun (although these aren't conjunct), but both in 11th house. It makes me rather self-critical when it comes to social situations or communication (eg I used to do journalism/writing and was always editing my material to the point where my bosses said they actually preferred the freshness of the original article). My Mars and Venus in Leo in the 10th by contrast makes me quite gregarious and expressive in performance situations. Weird contradiction that. IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 08:29 PM
I have a Virgo south node and I can be very self-critical, but I blame it on my 12th house though.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1301 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 26, 2014 08:31 PM
Mercury in Virgo... 12th house Conjunct Virgo Mars, square moon (ouch!) trine Jupiter I'm harder on myself than anyone really understands or knows about. There's much more below the surface than what anyone sees. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 749 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 08:33 PM
Mercury in Virgo here. Yes, I do experience self-criticism a lot, especially when it has to do with writing or vocal communications (Mercury in the 3rd). For me, everything I say has to make sense and my writing should always look neat and beautiful. I have major writing OCD.It's not just that though. I am also very hard on myself because I have Mars opposite Saturn. ------------------ Gemini Rising Sun in Leo Moon in Cancer Mercury in Virgo Venus in Virgo Mars in Libra "You were born a lion. Don't die a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1329 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 26, 2014 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by fauxcoat: Saturn semi-square sun, moon, mercury, and square Uranus (not a personal planet but Uranus is the ruler of my chart with my aquarius rising). I also have Saturn opposite my Asc. Just out of curiosity, do all these aspects make me more like a Capricorn?
They make you more Saturnian, have you ever looked at your pullen chart on Astro? It's a nice way to look at your dominant planets, signs, elements, etc. And the Saturn aspects are probably making it harder too - can cause a low self esteem. I asked if you had any hard Saturn aspects because I have Sun/Saturn opposition and Mercury quincunx Saturn. IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 30 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 08:47 PM
Venus/Saturn can also make one self-critical...IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1329 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 26, 2014 08:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: Venus/Saturn can also make one self-critical...
Yup, with all hard aspects to Saturn to a personal planet. No fun at all.
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fauxcoat Knowflake Posts: 352 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 09:08 PM
Is a semi-square a hard aspect?IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 624 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 26, 2014 09:10 PM
Extraordinarily critical. Mercury square Uranus doesn't help, either.------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 1329 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted March 26, 2014 09:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by fauxcoat: Is a semi-square a hard aspect?
In my understanding, yes IP: Logged |