posted March 27, 2014 09:53 AM            

My best friend is an Aquarius (Gem Moon), I'm Libra (Lib Moon too), and I see that he's more social and all over the place compared to me.

Libra's can stay attached to one person and hangout without a problem, However I realize with my Aquarius best friend, he jumps from one person to another... Quite annoying! So I have I hard time socializing with him.

But anyways, back to the question: How does Libra relate to Aquarius?

What do you all think?

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posted March 27, 2014 10:05 AM            

But then again, his Sun is Aquarius, Aquarius Suns are aloof.

posted March 27, 2014 10:14 AM            

to answer your question, i think you should let your aqua friend do his thing and not be so "clingy" (cant really think of a better word to use). just let go of the social partner thing.
if i were in the mindset of an aqua it would probably be; "if im in a social setting, why would i only talk to one person? that doesnt make any sense!"
i have plenty of friends with heavy libra influences like you, and i notice the same thing; they can be a bit stifling to people who like to roam around in public settings.

one of my closest friends at school is a libra and i notice it with him too. with my loud arian self, i am always talking to everybody. hes constantly on the lookout to see whos hearing or if im out talking to anyone and everyone, i notice hes only talking to one person at a time.
sorry if anything i said offended you (this is my libra asc coming out) lol.

posted March 27, 2014 10:31 AM            

Considering the fact that I have Venus in the 8th trine Jupiter in the 12th exact, I can be very generous and I'm willing to give a lot! And I do a lot for others and tend to think I'll get something in return... And when I don't I get mad.. I shouldn't do that though lol

posted March 27, 2014 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:
No, you didn't offend me at all :-) I actually appreciate your feedback and honesty! I try to give him space, A LOT of it too. But it's like he's supposed to be my best friend and he's barely there for me, but I do a lot for him though.. So that's why I get mad about his aloofness.

Considering the fact that I have Venus in the 8th trine Jupiter in the 12th exact, I can be very generous and I'm willing to give a lot! And I do a lot for others and tend to think I'll get something in return... And when I don't I get mad.. I shouldn't do that though lol

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hmm well maybe you should talk to him? and yeah i missed your post about the double air he has. probably extra aloof. luckily my best friend has moon in virgo, so it grounds him. weve definitely had our share of this; i have lots of planets in pisces too so im giving a lot, and sometiems he doesnt give back as friends should do. ive brought it up and thats helped. try that

posted March 27, 2014 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Cuteleo85:
I don't find them loyal or devoted enough...and again that's huge to me.

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posted March 27, 2014 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by CatMote:
hmm well maybe you should talk to him? and yeah i missed your post about the double air he has. probably extra aloof. luckily my best friend has moon in virgo, so it grounds him. weve definitely had our share of this; i have lots of planets in pisces too so im giving a lot, and sometiems he doesnt give back as friends should do. ive brought it up and thats helped. try that

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posted March 27, 2014 10:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:
No, you didn't offend me at all :-) I actually appreciate your feedback and honesty! I try to give him space, A LOT of it too. But it's like he's supposed to be my best friend and he's barely there for me, but I do a lot for him though.. So that's why I get mad about his aloofness.

Considering the fact that I have Venus in the 8th trine Jupiter in the 12th exact, I can be very generous and I'm willing to give a lot! And I do a lot for others and tend to think I'll get something in return... And when I don't I get mad.. I shouldn't do that though lol

Like you said, Libra is about fairness.. So I don't like how I'm always the giving one and the Aquarius is the one who does nothing...

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I can see where you're coming from. I'm all about loyalty and having people show me they care, which is why I've learned those signs don't work for me it would also depend on the rest of his chart to be fair.

My bf is a libra rising Capri (libra moon, virgo venus) I do see a lot of his libra now, but he's very reserved too, which is probably his Capri and Virgo influence. It took a little to get to see his libra side; I didn't at first. If I were you, I would analyze the rest of his chart more if you haven't already...you may find other crucial details.

posted March 27, 2014 10:52 AM            

I kid. I kid.

posted March 27, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Cuteleo85:
I can see where you're coming from. I'm all about loyalty and having people show me they care, which is why I've learned those signs don't work for me it would also depend on the rest of his chart to be fair.

My bf is a libra rising Capri (libra moon, virgo venus) I do see a lot of his libra now, but he's very reserved too, which is probably his Capri and Virgo influence. It took a little to get to see his libra side; I didn't at first. If I were you, I would analyze the rest of his chart more if you haven't already...you may find other crucial details.

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posted March 27, 2014 11:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:
I'm thinking it's his Gemini moon that causes him to socialize the way he does... I realize that all Gemini moons can't stay with one person for a long time, they need to get moving at all times!

But then again, his Sun is Aquarius, Aquarius Suns are aloof.

Recently he got me mad by saying 'Are you sure you want to major in Psychology? Because you aren't a people-person'....

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posted March 27, 2014 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:

He has a Stellium in Aquarius and a Mars in Libra and his Moon in Gemini. I have a Libra stellium and a few dominant earth influences. He also has way too many trines! Too much of a good thing can also be a bad thing. As a matter of fact, I realize that people with too many natal trines are quite lazy and don't have their lives together, to be honest, all my best friend does is play video games all day. I'm a Capricorn ascendant, and it squares my Sun and Moon, So I'm assuming that's why I don't socialize like a typical Libran. But I'm once again confused because Libra is the MOST dominant sign in my natal chart. My 9th house is crowded with Libran placements.

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It's so funny you and my bf almost have the same chart from what you're saying lol if you're anything like him, you don't socialize like a libra at all...at least not at first. He does very well when he's out though...just hides his emotions a little at first. Having said that, he does hate it when people ask for things, but never give back. I don't know how old you are, he's not that young anymore, so now he's just learned to pick and choose who's deserving and who isn't. He always says in the past people used to take advantage of him a little....he just changed I guess.

posted March 27, 2014 01:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:
I know that because they are air signs they are both compatible, but I mean in personality characteristics.. How do they relate to each other?

My best friend is an Aquarius (Gem Moon), I'm Libra (Lib Moon too), and I see that he's more social and all over the place compared to me.

Libra's can stay attached to one person and hangout without a problem, However I realize with my Aquarius best friend, he jumps from one person to another... Quite annoying! So I have I hard time socializing with him.

But anyways, back to the question: How does Libra relate to Aquarius?

What do you all think?

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I think your irritation may come more from your Capricorn Asc interaction with your friend's Gemini Moon than anything else.

Moon signs do count- a great deal. I think it is your friends Gemini Moon that causes him to be "all over the place".

I know a Virgo Sun, Gemini Moon person and his Gemini Moon gets judgment from my Sun in Sag, Cancer Moon and Taurus Asc. I just find the guy really annoying sometimes. He is also "all over the place".

Generically Libra is said to be compatible to Aquarius for the following reasons;

1. Both are air signs and so, they tend to view things from an intellectual perspective, And this is what they both favour and connect on.

2. Both tend to love debate, verbal sophistication and are fascinated with the exchange of ideas.

3. Both love people. Libra likes to look at how people relate and enjoys it when people come together. Aquarius likes to explore the mind of an individual and enjoys people from all walks of life.

4. Neither are particularly emotional/ moody or let emotions cloud judgement. They pride themselves on being rational and objective.

posted March 28, 2014 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I've always wondered this. Both are sooo different. Aquas seem so Capricorn to me and I don't mind them. I'm not a big Aqua fan though honestly, I can't stand the aloofness. It's very off-putting and something that I've never understood. I'm a very social, outgoing person and it saddens me when others aren't.

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That's because you're Venus is in Scorpio and it being square an Aquarian Sun in at least the sign (if not aspect under a certain orb) is not a winning combination.

posted March 28, 2014 05:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Libracorn:
[B]No, you didn't offend me at all :-) I actually appreciate your feedback and honesty! I try to give him space, A LOT of it too. But it's like he's supposed to be my best friend and he's barely there for me, but I do a lot for him though.. So that's why I get mad about his aloofness.
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