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Topic: What does it feel like to be in love to you?
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I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted March 27, 2014 02:35 PM
  
And what are your Moon and Venus doing? I'm also interested in physical sensations. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
fairaqua
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posted March 27, 2014 02:52 PM
My moon is being an Aries in the 8th house and my Venus is a Aquarius in the 6th houseEmotionally love to me is security. I want to feel safe on every level
I can sit in quiet and not have to banter on with small talk to feel comfortable.
Yes, I do like to get chatty sometimes, but we can have a comfortable silence.
When I physically feel real true love, someone I would lay my life down for, I feel it below my sternum area (between the bottom my my ribs) and around my collar bone
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted March 27, 2014 03:03 PM
When I was young I had crushes and I was so shy I never wanted anyone to know I had a crush on them and was scared of the one I liked so I avoided them and just looked when they were distracted. I ignored them and avoided all direct communication. When they were around I became withdrawn and froze, wouldn't talk or look at them.
So that's what love is like for me, with moon in Taurus and Venus in Leo.
I was too timid to approach the one I liked. I don't experiences crushes like that now and I am kinda glad because I didn't really like having crushes. I felt weakened by them and I like to think of myself as emotionally and psychologically strong.Maybe it's the square to Venus from Saturn and the opposition to the moon from Neptune? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted March 27, 2014 03:08 PM
I have a Scorpio stellium in my 6th house (Sun, Mercury retrograde, Venus, Jupiter, and Pluto all in Scorpio) and my moon in libra is in my 6th house as well. I have only been in love once so I don't even know if that was love, but it lasted for 7 years on and off and we had a Scorpio stellium in our composite a long with a lot of other "true love" aspects so maybe it was. Anyway, back to the question haha When I'm in love I want security, communication, and lots of sex. And loyalty of course, but that goes a long with security. When I'm in love it feels larger than life. Every time I think about that person, I feel unstoppable and filled up with happiness. My Scorpio Sun, Venus, and mercury is also the cause of my paranoia and suspiciousness even when sometimes, there's no reason to be.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 27, 2014 03:28 PM
lolHonestly I wouldn't recommend it... It depends though. If you ever loved someone so much it hurts you would understand my reasoning.
Generally it's like messing around with drugs.
It's a big distraction that may never have a good ending in the long run. If you are craving love I'd say take cold showers get some hobbies and you'll eventually find a stable relationship and slowly build up a bond with someone and be able to love them. This is the ideal mature relationship but I have to admit that sounds so boring zzzzzzzzzzzzz but what I don't understand is how people get over love.. I mean you never get over it but you try and move on maybe..
If they like get married to someone else than they are really lying to themselves because can you honestly love that person the same way?
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pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 03:42 PM
I hate to feel and be deeply in love..
It makes me feel weak, act stupid, become demon and lots of other great things :/..I turn in to wild cat with foam ..I hate it but the man usually thinks that my scratching and wildnes is oh`so sexy..do not know. On one side i need and crave for love but on the other I am scared of the same cos it can, and usually does, hurt as hell. Venus in Cancer ( third) square Pluto in Virgo ( 6th) and opposition ( Pluto) Aries Moon in 12th IP: Logged |
dadoo
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From: Mercury
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posted March 27, 2014 03:46 PM
If it's hopeless from the start (for instance someone who'll never even know I exist) I just bloom.
I feel amazing, I work hard x 4, everything feels lighter and sunnier, I'm full of projects. If it's actually something that has a potential future, I'm worried, extra-careful, a little bit paranoid on the side too.
And super shy. My stomach weighs tons and I can't breathe in the dreaded presence of my interest object. I tend to care a lot though. If they have a big event in their professional life, for instance, I'll most probably be the one not sleeping the night before. My Aries Venus is opposed Pluto (wide orb), and my Leo Moon is sextile Pluto (tight orb), trine Neptune exact. No trine between Venus and Moon. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 03:54 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
...... My stomach weighs tons and I can't breathe in the dreaded presence of my interest object...
ahahaha, I was once not able to walk knowing that he, my desired man, was looking at me..I was stumbling like If one of my "beautiful" legs were shorter and counting the steps I make while sweating..nightmare! It happened also that I cant drink my drink in front of my "special" ..I simply cant swallow or the fluid runs somehow out my mouth..crazy...for that reason I actually treat them bad and try to avoid being near which again they think is my luck of interest...ahaha, damn! but true. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted March 27, 2014 03:59 PM
I feel warm, content, stable and excited/happy all in one. For someone fairly independent, strong and almost masculine in attitude I can be pretty wet and like putty in their hands when uncontrollably in love. My moon (in Aqua) is exactly opposite Venus (in Leo) with Neptune in Scorpio forming a T-square. I have to work hard at this dynamic, basically attend to my spiritual needs first before I can achieve GOOD love relationships that also satisfy me emotionally, not just physically or egotistically. When it's all working well it's wonderful, when it's not it's horrible. IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 321
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 27, 2014 04:02 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
ahahaha, I was once not able to walk knowing that he, my desired man, was looking at me..I was stumbling like If one of my "beautiful" legs were shorter and counting the steps I make while sweating..nightmare! It happened also that I cant drink my drink in front of my "special" ..I simply cant swallow or the fluid runs somehow out my mouth..crazy...for that reason I actually treat them bad and try to avoid being near which again they think is my luck of interest...ahaha, damn! but true.
Ha ha, I hear you! I'll drink but with that horrible gulp sound 
I don't mistreat them though, I just GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE.
If forced to stay, think I must look like the most pluto-saturnian, heaviest person ever, 800kg per square centimeter of soul or something.
Which is the weirdest thing for me considering I have an air Grand Trine...  IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 04:35 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
If forced to stay, think I must look like the most pluto-saturnian, heaviest person ever, 800kg per square centimeter of soul or something.
Which is the weirdest thing for me considering I have an air Grand Trine...
ahahaha, yes SUPER NATURAL look ( but not) lol...Dadoo are you Gemini Sun? you are Venus 180 Pluto, I am Venus 90 Pluto Maybe thats why we feel that immense amount of energy we hardly can control? Once I was in a coffee shop reading the huge daily newspaper when the guy I was crazy about came in. In stead to put my newspaper down and give him my full attention ( he was crazy about me as well) I simply continued " reading" for the full next hour..actually I was hiding behind the newspaper ya know . Finally, after an hour, he approached me totally angry and with the lighter in his hand telling me that if I dont put the NP immediately down he would inflame, light on, first the newspaper then me...ahahah..That much about being, acting COOL when in hot AMOR! IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 321
From: Mercury
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posted March 27, 2014 05:12 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:Dadoo are you Gemini Sun? you are Venus 180 Pluto, I am Venus 90 Pluto Maybe thats why we feel that immense amount of energy we hardly can control?
Pisces Sun, Gemini rising.
I also have Pluto trine Mercury (chart ruler).
I have no way to escape from myself  quote:
Originally posted by pocaloca:
Once I was in a coffee shop reading the huge daily newspaper when the guy I was crazy about came in. In stead to put my newspaper down and give him my full attention ( he was crazy about me as well) I simply continued " reading" for the full next hour..actually I was hiding behind the newspaper ya know.
I so know. You have no idea lol  quote:
Originally posted by pocaloca:
Finally, after an hour, he approached me totally angry and with the lighter in his hand telling me that if I dont put the NP immediately down he would inflame, light on, first the newspaper then me...ahahah..That much about being, acting COOL when in hot AMOR!
Wow you're lucky he actually came to talk to you!!
Usually they just think I hate them or at least that I'm not that interested.
Thing is, we don't have much of a choice do we?
I get soooo intense I'm too heavy for myself.
I guess that's why Scorpios are so surprised I'm not afraid of their energy. Ha!! IP: Logged |
aah08
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From: Campeche,Mexico
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 27, 2014 05:15 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
When I was young I had crushes and I was so shy I never wanted anyone to know I had a crush on them and was scared of the one I liked so I avoided them and just looked when they were distracted. I ignored them and avoided all direct communication. When they were around I became withdrawn and froze, wouldn't talk or look at them.
So that's what love is like for me, with moon in Taurus and Venus in Leo.
I was too timid to approach the one I liked. I don't experiences crushes like that now and I am kinda glad because I didn't really like having crushes. I felt weakened by them and I like to think of myself as emotionally and psychologically strong.Maybe it's the square to Venus from Saturn and the opposition to the moon from Neptune?
I'm exactly the same!!!=0000000000
but my moon is in Virgo and Venus is in Libra but yes, as you described it, is exactly how i am...
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pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 05:25 PM
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pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
Wow you're lucky he actually came to talk to you!!
Usually they just think I hate them or at least that I'm not that interested.
The same here..this Greek man was an exception and very honest -funny in reactions to my "coolness" ..I actually started to laugh when he came ready to ignite my newspaper. quote:
Thing is, we don't have much of a choice do we?
I get soooo intense I'm too heavy for myself.
I guess that's why Scorpios are so surprised I'm not afraid of their energy. Ha!!
100 percent same situation darling!! ..and let me tell you,I am also usually the target of Man with strong Scorpio placement, they smell the trouble and drama-rama ahaha..They somehow dig my( our) energy and awkwardness.,,others usually get very fast, very discouraged IP: Logged |
plutomercjup20
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posted March 27, 2014 05:55 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
When I was young I had crushes and I was so shy I never wanted anyone to know I had a crush on them and was scared of the one I liked so I avoided them and just looked when they were distracted. I ignored them and avoided all direct communication. When they were around I became withdrawn and froze, wouldn't talk or look at them.
So that's what love is like for me, with moon in Taurus and Venus in Leo.
I was too timid to approach the one I liked. I don't experiences crushes like that now and I am kinda glad because I didn't really like having crushes. I felt weakened by them and I like to think of myself as emotionally and psychologically strong.Maybe it's the square to Venus from Saturn and the opposition to the moon from Neptune?
Woahhhhh that's me!!! That's exactly how I am!!! Hahaha AND I have venus(sag) square Saturn(Pisces) too so maybe its a venus square Saturn thing! But yeah it sucks because those crushes never like me back ....very "unrequited love" kind of thing hence I've never had a boyfriend , well that's basically Venus square Saturn for you  IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted March 27, 2014 05:57 PM
Kerosene, just dump him already  SSS, so you've never been in love? ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted March 27, 2014 06:09 PM
I've had crushes on guys but they don't have them on me and the ones who do I don't have a crush on.
For me, having a crush is like being in love.IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag
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posted March 27, 2014 06:30 PM
Moon in 11th inconjunct Saturn 4th, trine Neptune and Uranus in 3rd.Venus in aqua 4th conjunct Saturn, trine Jupiter, trine mercury. I guess a true feeling of love comes from being with friends, even though I don't feel truly loved intensely by one person or ever feel like I'll be, I find surrounding myself with groups I feel a sense of love, I'm kind of like a hippy  Opening up is hard for me, I need a lot of self love then I'm ready to put myself out to a group. Love is complicated to me. As for one to one, I've always been disappointed by it, it's said that Pisces liliths are often disappointed by love and this is true, I fall easily and then heartbreak. Also guys who liked me I never liked back, or guys I liked never liked me, or if we both like each other some weird circumstance keeps us apart. IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 06:31 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I've had crushes on guys but they don't have them on me and the ones who do I don't have a crush on.
For me, having a crush is like being in love.
Wow...that also sucks Starlinghts..Thank you for the honesty though ..How is your Venus aspected? what do you think can cause that? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
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posted March 27, 2014 06:32 PM
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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Wow...that also sucks Starlinghts..Thank you for the honesty though ..How is your Venus aspected? what do you think can cause that?
Probably Venus square Saturn, lol. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted March 27, 2014 06:52 PM
Physically, I feel more alert, on point, focused and interested. I look at a love relationship like a project that will go on for a long time.My Venus is in Gemini 3rd House, opposite Uranus and Saturn. My Moon is in Capricorn 10th House, conjunct Uranus by declination. Venus rules my 7th house with Pluto in it and I do feel like inspecting every little detail and I expect they're doing the same to me. My Moon rules my empty 4th House. My Moon is inconjunct Venus and I've come to learn that these two planets have a sacrificial affect on each other. Venus, representing my partners and also how I relate to others, frees my Moon and I open up my inner self only with partners. So I will cry in front of partners, not in front of family, for example. I have also sacrificed family for relationships by moving away from my family to be with a partner. When I stop and think of the love I have with a partner I get this warm feeling in my heart and I just can't help but smile. It makes me feel like I'm very light, like I might bump my head on the ceiling if I'm not careful. Basically, right where mystics say your heart chakra is, you feel it right there. You'll know it when you feel it. You might be thinking "I'm gonna throw up." It's just the energy from your heart flowing up to your throat chakra, same kinda feeling as the upchuck reflex. That's why you get a jolt from the heart chakra and then you want to SCREAAAAM out all the energy! =D IP: Logged |
pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Probably Venus square Saturn, lol.
ahahaha..Imagine combo Venus conjuncts Uranus ( scared of commitment) , square Saturn (unrequited love) opposite Pluto ( untamed, destructive love-passion) @StarlightSmileSupreme ...madonna mia!! So, you, me..we should just shut up and live the little misery we have ( kiss) IP: Logged |
Marandana
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posted March 27, 2014 07:47 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
When I was young I had crushes and I was so shy I never wanted anyone to know I had a crush on them and was scared of the one I liked so I avoided them and just looked when they were distracted. I ignored them and avoided all direct communication. When they were around I became withdrawn and froze, wouldn't talk or look at them.
So that's what love is like for me, with moon in Taurus and Venus in Leo.
I was too timid to approach the one I liked. I don't experiences crushes like that now and I am kinda glad because I didn't really like having crushes. I felt weakened by them and I like to think of myself as emotionally and psychologically strong.Maybe it's the square to Venus from Saturn and the opposition to the moon from Neptune?
I'm exactly like that, too.
But yeah, at the same time all my crushes have been "unrequited love" every single one of them, I think they don't even know I exist, I've had really bad luck in love stuff Venus in aqua (3rd house) conjucts mars in cappy (3rd house as well)
Leo moon (10th house) squares pluto in scorpio (1st house)
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pocaloca
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posted March 27, 2014 08:21 PM
I think Moon square Pluto is more like emotionally draining , deep suffer not reflected on the outside while Venus square , oppose Pluto becomes nasty , mean and destructive, scared to show affection but in the same time playing, showing the pseudo tough features...am I right on that one?IP: Logged |
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