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manderin
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posted March 29, 2014 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In Synastry s the Venus person always the one more into the other person? Even when there is a hard aspect to Venus?

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tgem
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posted March 29, 2014 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not necessarily, I believe it can be felt by both...especially is the orb is tight.

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posted March 29, 2014 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think if a woman's Venus aspects a man's Mars or Pluto, HE will be very much into her, because she will touch the core of his masculinity with her femininity.

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theunknown
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posted March 29, 2014 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I think gender doesn't neccessarily apply to only one side. Venus affects guys as well

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posted March 29, 2014 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I think if a woman's Venus aspects a man's Mars or Pluto, HE will be very much into her, because she will touch the core of his masculinity with her femininity.

Hogwash! One of my tightest aspects is his venus trine my mars. My Venus Semisextiles his Mars, too but gender is blurred especially in astrology when there are feminine and masculine aspects to all biological genders.

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posted March 29, 2014 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Well I think gender doesn't neccessarily apply to only one side. Venus affects guys as well

I agree, but apart from the general meaning (disregarding the gender), the masculine planets in a man's chart and the feminine planets in a woman's are felt differently, they relate to the specific gender and they are very stimulated when archetypes meet.

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posted March 29, 2014 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Hogwash! One of my tightest aspects is his venus trine my mars. My Venus Semisextiles his Mars, too but gender is blurred especially in astrology when there are feminine and masculine aspects to all biological genders.


Maybe you are right. Mars tends to be the "chaser" of Venus, disregarding the gender.

However, I don't think Venus is necessarily "into" someone just because it's the planet of love. There are different ways of being "into" someone: by feeling affection and warmth, sexually, in a possessive way etc. Men tend to feel very stimulated when their masculine planets are aspected by a woman's planets, but of course, it depends on the overall chart.

For example, a woman having her Pluto on the ASC might be very attracted to someone aspecting it with a love planet.

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posted March 29, 2014 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for manderin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm. I just noticed they have mars trine mars together... But no Mars/Venus contacts at all.

The only Venus contacts in their chart are:

His Venus Opposite her Sun, Venus, Mercury (and jupiter, but that orb is a bit wide)

The only positive Venus aspect is his Venus trine her ASC.

Her venus isn't touched at all except for being opposite his venus.

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posted March 29, 2014 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LoadedPistil     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have myMars/hisVenus trine, myVenus/hisMars semisextile, Mars/Mars trine, Venus/Venus quincunx....

...and I don't know what the hell is up with us right the second.

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posted March 29, 2014 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have to take the individual aspects into account. Hard aspects (conjunction, square, opposition and even quincunx) will be felt more than soft/harmonious aspects...especially if the orbs are tight!

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posted March 30, 2014 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I agree, but apart from the general meaning (disregarding the gender), the masculine planets in a man's chart and the feminine planets in a woman's are felt differently, they relate to the specific gender and they are very stimulated when archetypes meet.

Based in my own experiences, guys who are into me (like fall hard for me) have their venuses opposite my Asc or their moon conjuncting my nodes. (Their suns are aqua, sag and scorpio)

One guy with mars conjuncting my moon was definitely attracted to me but I don't think we view each other as anything more than casual flirts.


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posted March 30, 2014 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When the guy is Mars/Pluto and the girl is Venus and the aspect is a hard one - he is attracted but also aggressive, violent, possessive, out of control ... and JUST the sort of character who would throw acid in her face because she dumped him - or - shoot her through a bathroom door thinking she is an "intruder"... if you know what I mean.

This SURELY is not love.

Any aspect is felt by both people but they feel different things. Venus loves in a lovey dovey, sensual, charismatic way. Mars is not about love. Mars is about attraction/sex/physical energy.. so the Mars person has sexual (not loving) feelings.
This is just one aspect though. The Mars person could also have their Moon conjunct the others Moon - in which case the relationship can still be loving and affectionate - but it won't be due to Venus conj Mars.

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posted March 31, 2014 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
When the guy is Mars/Pluto and the girl is Venus and the aspect is a hard one - he is attracted but also aggressive, violent, possessive, out of control ... and JUST the sort of character who would throw acid in her face because she dumped him - or - shoot her through a bathroom door thinking she is an "intruder"... if you know what I mean.

This SURELY is not love.


Did you experience an exact venus/pluto opposition? It could be translated as love. Its a bit agressive and possessive, yes, but passionately affectionate too.

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posted March 31, 2014 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
When the guy is Mars/Pluto and the girl is Venus and the aspect is a hard one - he is attracted but also aggressive, violent, possessive, out of control ... and JUST the sort of character who would throw acid in her face because she dumped him - or - shoot her through a bathroom door thinking she is an "intruder"... if you know what I mean.

This SURELY is not love.

Any aspect is felt by both people but they feel different things. Venus loves in a lovey dovey, sensual, charismatic way. Mars is not about love. Mars is about attraction/sex/physical energy.. so the Mars person has sexual (not loving) feelings.
This is just one aspect though. The Mars person could also have their Moon conjunct the others Moon - in which case the relationship can still be loving and affectionate - but it won't be due to Venus conj Mars.


So let's say the one person got a lot of aspects to his/her venus but not any aspect to his/her mars, and the other person got a lot of aspects to his/her mars but not venus.. would the venus person be sexually attracted at all then? And would the mars person just want sex but nothing else?

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posted March 31, 2014 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think so.. My venus was trined by 5 of the planets in the love of my life's chart.

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posted March 31, 2014 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
So let's say the one person got a lot of aspects to his/her venus but not any aspect to his/her mars, and the other person got a lot of aspects to his/her mars but not venus.. would the venus person be sexually attracted at all then? And would the mars person just want sex but nothing else?

In similar vein, if two ppl only have venus contact then there's no sexual chemistry? What if there's no contact but the signs are compatible?

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posted March 31, 2014 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by theunknown:
In similar vein, if two ppl only have venus contact then there's no sexual chemistry? What if there's no contact but the signs are compatible?


sexual chemistry is not ruled by venus or any other sign, it comes about through attraction to another person and that can be a result of the ASC touching a personal planet, planets falling into an 8th house, angles, or an absence of venus contacts altogether, etc. it's way to simplistic to say venus is responsible for "love" or chemistry. there can be no venus contacts and love will still bloom, and there can be many venus contacts and nothing happens. you have to look at complete (natal and synastry) and not individual pieces

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posted March 31, 2014 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had Venus conjunct Jupiter DW once.
We also had Venus square Venus.

Apparently is in love with me, I mean at first it seemed like that at first sight but I knew I was not in love.

Idk maybe Venus does not have much to do with true love but more attraction.

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posted March 31, 2014 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutomercjup20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm what does it mean when a guy's Venus is squaring your ascendant (0'24) ....? anyone care to explain?

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posted March 31, 2014 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just find someone you'll have Moon conjunct Pluto with

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posted March 31, 2014 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@starmoon: thank you! I'll think more about this!

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Just find someone you'll have Moon conjunct Pluto with


So I either find someone born in 2068 or someone with Scorpio moon? no thanks!!!

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posted March 31, 2014 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for I'm so cappy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm so sorry. It would be much easier if you had my Moon

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