posted March 29, 2014 12:13 PM            

What are your experiences? Maybe Sun in Aquarius can relate too? Or any strong Aquarian chart.

posted March 29, 2014 12:34 PM            

I have never been in love. I am always infatuated and depending on the other person's magnetism, I will remain infatuated for a period of time before getting bored. I have managed to not get "bored" for 5 years once upon a time...

I NEED someone with an intellect that is ever changing. Every day is a new day and we can talk about everything between the shades of green on the grass to politics in Angola. Once and IF that conversation diminishes, our time is over. Sad but true.

I also HATE repetitive behavior and thoughts and I HATE knowing that someone is trying to control my thoughts by 1: putting words in my mouth. 2: passive aggressiveness. 3: needy behavior. 4: Martyrdom. I smell this and we are doomed.

Also, don't lie to me, ever. I will not forgive you despite the fact that I still speak to you in a friendly manner.

Don't try to pry my brain open. I will despise you.

Don't try to figure me out when I tell you, black on white, how I work.

Don't critique the way I dress!!!!

Do NOT, I repeat NOT, question my relationship with my friends!!!!!!

Do not ask me why I need my freedom because I will look at you, cringe, and walk out the door.

posted March 29, 2014 12:37 PM              

But she has Venus in Pisces so she's such a lover

Well until you betray her.
Her scorpio moon conjunct pluto could sense when her boyfriend was lying to her and she just frosted out and closed her heart to him.

posted March 29, 2014 12:52 PM            

"I m Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Cancer person. Though I've never been in a relationsip but still I'll try. Well I actually never have been in relation cause haven't found the "right one". I want a man who is mature and athletic and smart and wealthy(may be Cap sun is in work!).
I want someone who'll truly love me and will provide me with financial and emotional security!
I also want older person; ideal age gap would be 15-25 years! I don't have any problem if he is a divorcee and has kids; from another race,ethnicity and country; I actually want to experience this kinda relation!
Now if I ever come in a relationship it'd be because we are compatible and in love and are soulmates ;that's what I'll really think!
If a person ever tries to smother me, I start running so that person should believe in some independence and space!
He shouldn't be extremely insecure and possessive though at times I'd love it!"

"Well if you become our friends first; really good friends and gain our trust; we most probably will go on a date with you!!! Once we are sure that anyone is worth our time then we'll definitely go with people! And plus we are very fun!!! You'll have an amazing time with people having this aspect as they are eccentric and secretive but love socializing! But even when we seem to have a lot of friends, we "don't really have friends!" and we can we very unpredictable!"

posted March 29, 2014 03:13 PM            

I have had a couple of crushes. I have fallen in love once. It is really hard for me to fall in love. I was friends with this person for a few months before we started dating. I fell really hard. But, as someone said, we need to be able to keep communicating about different things. Repetitive topics are fine if they're important. But after a while, I will get bored, and I will move on. I need someone who is constantly changing and growing as a person while still retaining their basic essence and individuality.

I often tend to feel as though people don't understand me. I don't think I am misunderstood; I think I am un-understood, if that makes sense. I want someone who will at least accept me, but hopefully love me, for who I am. And I will be faithful and loving forever.

So yes. It's hard for us to fall in love, but when we do, we fall hard and become completely devoted.