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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2014 11:35 PM
Am I the only one who feels really awkward when someone says something sentimental or romantic? IDK what it is.. Im totally fine with intimacy and everything but the cheesy romantic lines kind of ruin it for me.. Like if a girl is all "hold me" i usually give a flippant answer and they get ****** off. Is this an aqua thing?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8122 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 29, 2014 11:37 PM
It could be an Aqua thing. Why don't you just hold her when she says that? IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon Newflake Posts: 22 From: Moon, Milky Way Registered: Feb 2014
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posted March 29, 2014 11:48 PM
Aquarian thing.IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 1586 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 29, 2014 11:49 PM
Haha could be an aqua thing. Idk to me "hold me" isn't even that cheesy. Now, this is something that would make me uncomfortable or even send me running: "Hold me in your arms. Let me feel your beating heart. We should always be together. I don't want to leave you." I'd totally pay to see your reaction if a girl told you that lolol IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2014 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: It could be an Aqua thing. Why don't you just hold her when she says that?
I do.. I just have to make an attempt to let the serious out of the room. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1350 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 29, 2014 11:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: It could be an Aqua thing. Why don't you just hold her when she says that?
Yeah, that example at least I think is just telling you that she wants to be close. To me... I mean she's being sincere so I'd say what's the problem? I'm all about sincerity. It's pretty obvious sometimes when some guys are saying things JUST to be sweet and I just think, "cooooome onnnn ..is she seriously going to buy that cheesy crap?!?"
I just don't say something unless I mean it. That's pretty much my only "rule". My Virgo best friend is absolutely FULL of cheesy stuff with women and they eat it up. They HAVE to know it's just some crap but must think it's cute I guess. Could be an aqua thing... Idk. I dated an aqua, not TOO seriously... A couple months and we were friends for a while before and after. She really didn't say anything like that either. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 29, 2014 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: Haha could be an aqua thing. Idk to me "hold me" isn't even that cheesy. Now, this is something that would make me uncomfortable or even send me running: "Hold me in your arms. Let me feel your beating heart. We should always be together. I don't want to leave you." I'd totally pay to see your reaction if a girl told you that lolol
Its more the way it is said... Ya know the whole soft quivering voice women have when they say that stuff,thats what i mean. i dont mind romance at all, but it has to be lighthearted.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8122 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 12:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Yeah, that example at least I think is just telling you that she wants to be close. To me... I mean she's being sincere so I'd say what's the problem? I'm all about sincerity. It's pretty obvious sometimes when some guys are saying things JUST to be sweet and I just think, "cooooome onnnn ..is she seriously going to buy that cheesy crap?!?"
I just don't say something unless I mean it. That's pretty much my only "rule". My Virgo best friend is absolutely FULL of cheesy stuff with women and they eat it up. They HAVE to know it's just some crap but must think it's cute I guess. Could be an aqua thing... Idk. I dated an aqua, not TOO seriously... A couple months and we were friends for a while before and after. She really didn't say anything like that either.
Haha, maybe you should try being "cheesy" DF? Your friend has success and maybe Barbie longs to hear romantic sweet nothings from time to time? Don't overdo it though haha. It can start to sound really fake. I know first hand Venus in Virgo can be unbelievably unromantic though because my friend had this and she had a romantic temperament but there was no way anything romantic would ever come from her mouth, not even an "I love you" to anyone ever. I can't even imagine her telling someone that. Totally unromantic in words in action but yeah, she did have that romantic temperament where she liked everything to be wonderful and perfect all the time and longed for peace of mind, balance, that sort of thing. She did send me lots of presents and gifts once she joined the military and moved away. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1350 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 12:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: Haha, maybe you should try being "cheesy" DF? Your friend has success and maybe Barbie longs to hear romantic sweet nothings from time to time? Don't overdo it though haha. It can start to sound really fake. I know first hand Venus in Virgo can be unbelievably unromantic though because my friend had this and she had a romantic temperament but there was no way anything romantic would ever come from her mouth, not even an "I love you" to anyone ever. I can't even imagine her telling someone that. Totally unromantic in words in action but yeah, she did have that romantic temperament where she liked everything to be wonderful and perfect all the time and longed for peace of mind, balance, that sort of thing. She did send me lots of presents and gifts once she joined the military and moved away.
Hahahaha I do. My Leo gets going. I wonder what her other placements are...? Sun, etc. Plus my Venus square Neptune which might add a littler dreamy romantic touch wouldn't it? Your friend sounds pretty stiff. My dad had Scorpio Venus like Barbie but he never said, "I love you" His wife said she only heard it a few times in 35 years though he showed his love in other ways. He just wouldn't say it. So it just depends I guess. He was sag sun, cancer moon, Scorpio Venus and Gemini Mars. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 8122 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 12:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Hahahaha I do. My Leo gets going. I wonder what her other placements are...? Sun, etc. Plus my Venus square Neptune which might add a littler dreamy romantic touch wouldn't it? Your friend sounds pretty stiff. My dad had Scorpio Venus like Barbie but he never said, "I love you" His wife said she only heard it a few times in 35 years though he showed his love in other ways. He just wouldn't say it. So it just depends I guess. He was sag sun, cancer moon, Scorpio Venus and Gemini Mars.
She has Cancer moon, Mars Capricorn, Libra sun, Sagittarius rising, Jupiter in Libra conjunct sun. Maybe it's the trine from Venus to Mars because she has always been into the military and theology and she writes many papers on how Buddhism's eight fold path can include military service as a right action.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9731 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 01:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: but the cheesy romantic lines kind of ruin it for me..
No I feel that. Like sometimes it feels like they're try to force something. Like if an intimate situation happens like for example you drop something and you both reach out to grab it and your hands meet and their like YOUR SO BEAUTIFUL ETC. It's like LOL SHUT UP I mean what I find romantic http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xhqn-jRgyCg fun situations like this with the person you love.
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Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 439 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 01:13 AM
I am so relieved that I don't have too much fixed energy! My only 2 fixed planets are in mutable houses which neuts all that narrow mindedness. I can do cheesy, I can do fun, I can do crazy or the heavy emotional stuff too. It just has to be real, that's my only demand. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9731 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 01:21 AM
Yeah I think it has to be in the moment. Otherwise I'm like chill yoooooo.I like to do little cute things but I don't like randomly being like. YOU COMPLETE ME- YOU'RE MY SOULMATE.. I think it's my pluto singleton in scorpio. I'm pretty real about my emotions and feelings. I genuinely have to be in an emotional mood.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 01:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: I am so relieved that I don't have too much fixed energy! My only 2 fixed planets are in mutable houses which neuts all that narrow mindedness. I can do cheesy, I can do fun, I can do crazy or the heavy emotional stuff too. It just has to be real, that's my only demand.
Good for you! I have stamina.. All the girls are like "d*mn daddy, how do you last that long?"
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9731 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 01:33 AM
LOL Nobody calls you daddy... Maybe when you got that $$$$$$$$$ IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 01:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: LOL Nobody calls you daddy... Maybe when you got that $$$$$$$$$
Sun conjunct saturn ftw! What makes you think that? Lots of girls are into that stuff, its called daddy issues.
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swampys Knowflake Posts: 763 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 02:00 AM
Whatever! NO WAY! I say stuff like 'hold me' any chance I get! IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 02:24 AM
Love is suppose to make you look stupid, if you can't do cheesy or romantic you're going to have a hard time getting the love thing going, just saying...glad I have Pisces influence, although I'm a Gemini Moon I don't mind romantic, soft romance, in fact I think it's cool...IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1350 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 02:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: Love is suppose to make you look stupid, if you can't do cheesy or romantic you're going to have a hard time getting the love thing going, just saying...glad I have Pisces influence, although I'm a Gemini Moon I don't mind romantic, soft romance, in fact I think it's cool...
Haha... Similar for me. I also have Gemini moon and venus/mercury/mars in 12th... Pisces house (mine in virgo) IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad Knowflake Posts: 439 From: The Harvest Registered: Mar 2014
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posted March 30, 2014 02:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Good for you! I have stamina.. All the girls are like "d*mn daddy, how do you last that long?"
Still not interested. ------------------ ~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 1350 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 03:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: [b]I am so relieved that I don't have too much fixed energy! My only 2 fixed planets are in mutable houses which neuts all that narrow mindedness. I can do cheesy, I can do fun, I can do crazy or the heavy emotional stuff too. It just has to be real, that's my only demand.
Good for you! I have stamina.. All the girls are like "d*mn daddy, how do you last that long?" [/B][/QUOTE]Are they relieved that it's over? ... Like, "damn that was the longest 3 minutes of my life." I kid.... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 8889 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 30, 2014 03:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dancing Maenad: Still not interested.
I dont recall asking if you were. But ok lol IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10475 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 30, 2014 04:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Am I the only one who feels really awkward when someone says something sentimental or romantic? IDK what it is.. Im totally fine with intimacy and everything but the cheesy romantic lines kind of ruin it for me.. Like if a girl is all "hold me" i usually give a flippant answer and they get ****** off. Is this an aqua thing?
Not even saying something "cheesy and romantic" i'm turned off by most talking at all. Especially like my last ex who used to use my name. It's like......can you just....not?......not do that please? k. thanks. let's start over. Everything just went super fake when you said that. Please just don't talk at all. It's distracting. And it's not even that it's interfering with some sort of fantasy about someone else i'm having, I just don't want to hear you moaning my name unless you are dying or something. It's weird and it freaks me out, not to mention makes me lose focus and kills the mood. I'd rather focus on pleasure and not get too many other senses (hearing) mixed in there at the same time....to take away from it. Taurus sun female
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birdsong Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted March 30, 2014 04:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Am I the only one who feels really awkward when someone says something sentimental or romantic? IDK what it is.. Im totally fine with intimacy and everything but the cheesy romantic lines kind of ruin it for me.. Like if a girl is all "hold me" i usually give a flippant answer and they get ****** off. Is this an aqua thing?
Lol I don't know. Maybe it's my venus in pisces, but i'd feel so sad if he refused to hold me when I needed it. Cheesy or not Where's your Venus Aquaguy? IP: Logged |
T Knowflake Posts: 10475 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 30, 2014 04:30 AM
oh i thought we were talking about during sex IP: Logged |