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Topic: People who can't let go..
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ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 09:54 PM
  
People who have a hard time moving on when a relationship has ended.. Are there any placements or aspects that would indicate this? I always have a hard time moving on, no matter if we dated a few weeks or months. It seems like it takes me forever!IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted March 30, 2014 10:04 PM
Scorpio placements. Taurus placements. Cancer placements. (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars) Venus-Pluto hard aspects. Moon-Pluto hard aspects. Sun-Pluto hard aspects (not as intense as Venus or Moon to Pluto). Any hard aspects to Saturn and personal planets. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 10:20 PM
I agree with taurus placements making it hard to let go, i've witnessed that myself. My moon is in the 2nd house but I don't know if that makes it like a taurus moon.. I also have sun sq pluto, sun conjunct saturn and mars in cancer. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted March 30, 2014 10:25 PM
Cancer!IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted March 30, 2014 10:30 PM
Idiots and psychopaths...IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted March 30, 2014 10:32 PM
All Water and Earth signs, Moon/Venus, Moon/Neptune, Pluto in 7th, there is a lot of aspects and configurations for this. Synastry too, if you have a deep synastry, lots of Venus/Pluto, Saturn/Neptune, Venus/Saturn, North Node contacts etc. it's going to be hard to let go...
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ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 10:34 PM
@happyaskings Well i'm neither of those. But thanks for the opinion. I kill with kindness  IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 30, 2014 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
@happyaskings Well i'm neither of those. But thanks for the opinion. I kill with kindness
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happyaskings
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posted March 30, 2014 11:02 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
@happyaskings Well i'm neither of those. But thanks for the opinion. I kill with kindness
I wasn't talking about you specifically lol I was basing it off people I've dated that weren't able to let go. Usually earth and water although one was all fire. I have a lot of water but don't have an issue with moving on. Relationships end for a reason and love always makes its way back around. I can recall things like it was yesterday though and sometimes I'll still get angry over **** I remember happening 3 years ago, blame it on the scorpio moon. Still it has nothing to do with letting go of a person or relationship, that always happens pretty quickly for me. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 30, 2014 11:03 PM
My moon is sandwiched between Pluto and Saturn in Scorpio (Pluto in Libra). Once I let go, it's for good. Couldn't care less if I never saw you again. I don't have Sun/Pluto. It's hard for me to let go, but after about a month, I'm done. Maybe that's not hard for some people, but time seems to pass slowly for me. ------------------
Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 11:25 PM
@happyaskings Lol I apologize for taking that personally I just know people automatically think i'm crazy when I tell them this. And i'm mostly fire and air so even i'm confused as to why I get stuck on people. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 11:31 PM
@Loadedpistil If you think one month is a long time I will not even hint what is a long time for me! Lol I feel so ashamed..IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted March 30, 2014 11:32 PM
Yeah...Pisces Sun in 8th conjunct BML.
Venus in Aries opposite Pluto in Libra.Not lettin' go unless I say it's time.
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ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 11:35 PM
I've been going through a pluto sq venus transit for the last few years. Maybe thats partly to blame?? :/IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 30, 2014 11:43 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
Yeah...Pisces Sun in 8th conjunct BML.
Venus in Aries opposite Pluto in Libra.
Not lettin' go unless I say it's time.
So it's hard for you unless you're in control of the breakup? That's how it is for me.IP: Logged |
doubletaurus
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posted March 30, 2014 11:53 PM
Taurus and Scorpio anything IMO. I have a taurus moon and sun and I find since things hard to let go. I'll dwell on it forever as if time never passes. Thank goodness for airy Venus and mars?Pisces can really linger as well. They get lost in their world. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil
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posted March 30, 2014 11:54 PM
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Originally posted by ash20:
@Loadedpistil If you think one month is a long time I will not even hint what is a long time for me! Lol I feel so ashamed..
My ex was still chasing me down 4 years later. When I say done, I mean done AND he was annoying me by asking the same question 10x when he called. I realize I make people sensitive nervous, but I was done.  Annoying me isn't going to help. Let me look at those aspects. BRB
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His moon was on my North Node and IC
His Asc square my NN
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Cancer Sun, Pisces Asc, Gemini Rising
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Leo ♌️ Sun, Venus (2nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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happyaskings
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posted March 31, 2014 12:07 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
@happyaskings Lol I apologize for taking that personally I just know people automatically think i'm crazy when I tell them this. And i'm mostly fire and air so even i'm confused as to why I get stuck on people.
One of the guys that couldn't move on after we broke up was an Aries sun, Leo moon, Aries venus, Gemini mars....I think all the fire makes ya'll pretty passionate, to be honest. So that might mean you struggle with letting go because you hold o to the "passion" plus that Leo moon meant he put me on a pedestal and thus considered me "the one".....he was still calling me 2 years after things ended. Scary  IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 31, 2014 12:21 AM
I know a few taurus moon people & sometimes I feel bad for them. They can't let go of anything! I think it's more out of thinking they may need whatever it is later on. I like men with this placement but usually they have one ex they never can get over.IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 31, 2014 12:31 AM
Loadedpistil I think my moon has been conjunct some of my guys north node but I thought it would be the planet person who moved on first. And I would never keep bugging an ex for years! Lol i'd rather suffer in silence ... I do have some dignity left IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted March 31, 2014 12:35 AM
Takes me around 3-4 years, usually. Plenty of water, Taurus SN in 7th house opposite Pluto. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 31, 2014 12:39 AM
@happy I have an aries venus too and it kinda sucks. We are very passionate and we go after what we want but sometimes we don't know when to stop pursuing IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted March 31, 2014 12:44 AM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Scorpio placements. Taurus placements. Cancer placements. (Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars) Venus-Pluto hard aspects. Moon-Pluto hard aspects. Sun-Pluto hard aspects (not as intense as Venus or Moon to Pluto). Any hard aspects to Saturn and personal planets.
90% of this is me, I'm glad you said it. I always feel crazy for lingering like I do on things that have ended. I have… Sun, Mercury, Venus all square Saturn.
Moon trine Saturn and Moon opposition Pluto
Taurus Moon.
Venus in Aries… I've heard of other Arians doing this too and it reminds of some generally sad Oscar-nominated movie (or hey, even a Disney movie) where the kid goes up to the parent not knowing they're dead and tries waking them up. Like, the kid just doesn't get it and you dread the moment in the movie they do and they start to wail. !!! But I'm also believer it's a choice, and you have to force yourself to do things too. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 31, 2014 12:49 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Takes me around 3-4 years, usually. Plenty of water, Taurus SN in 7th house opposite Pluto.
Do you still date during that time?IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted March 31, 2014 01:01 AM
I do realize I can't blame it all on astrology.IP: Logged |
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