posted March 31, 2014 10:54 AM            

I'm a Virgo and never (as far as I'm aware) even dated a Saggitarius, just the once with a Pisces (very passionate but imploded pretty quick). The only mutable sign that I had more attraction for was Gemini (usually Gemini's cusping Taurus). Although they were good fun and we related on many levels, I knew in my heart they weren't right for me as a husband.

I think the mutable aspect for me just led to frequent blow-hot, blow-cold on both sides and a feeling of not really knowing where you stood with each other.

posted March 31, 2014 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
I wouldn't say that mutable signs are inherently a great match, unless they have other easy aspects elsewhere in their charts.

I think the mutable aspect for me just led to frequent blow-hot, blow-cold on both sides and a feeling of not really knowing where you stood with each other.

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posted March 31, 2014 01:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
I think the mutable aspect for me just led to frequent blow-hot, blow-cold on both sides and a feeling of not really knowing where you stood with each other.

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posted March 31, 2014 03:46 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Sags and gems make great couples and friends

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This is often the case.

posted March 31, 2014 04:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:

I'm a Virgo and never (as far as I'm aware) even dated a Saggitarius, just the once with a Pisces (very passionate but imploded pretty quick). The only mutable sign that I had more attraction for was Gemini (usually Gemini's cusping Taurus). Although they were good fun and we related on many levels, I knew in my heart they weren't right for me as a husband.

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posted March 31, 2014 05:30 PM            

i favor mutable peeps in friendship as well. especially saggis. and come to think of it, i have some super great virgo friends as well.

posted March 31, 2014 05:38 PM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
Where is your Mercury??

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Mercury is in Virgo too. Why do you ask dadoo? Because of the affinity with Gemini's?

posted March 31, 2014 05:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Mercury is in Virgo too. Why do you ask dadoo? Because of the affinity with Gemini's?

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Well yes, I was a bit surprised that of all mutable signs, a Virgo would pick Gemini over Pisces, as it is square and earth/air.
I thought it would be an easier match with a Leo or a Libra Mercury.

posted March 31, 2014 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
Well yes, I was a bit surprised that of all mutable signs, a Virgo would pick Gemini over Pisces, as it is square and earth/air.
I thought it would be an easier match with a Leo or a Libra Mercury.

My Virgo friend had the choice between a Gemini guy and a Pisces guy and she ended up marrying the Gemini guy too, so it's not just you.

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I think more likely it's my Libra Ascendant that attracted the Gemini's (and vice versa). I'm still friends with one of my long term Gemini boyfriends, I actually really appreciate his witty sense of humour much more than I did back then (which was almost 20 years ago! yikes!). I like Gemini's ease and witty charm in social situations. As friends they are great, but we can get on eachother's nerves as boyfriend/girlfriend. I always remember the second date I went on with my Gemini bf, we went to some jazz club with lots of people in the audience. He was paying more attention to scouting the crowd than me. That really irritated me. I'm not really a people watcher but I think Geminis are.

posted March 31, 2014 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
I think more likely it's my Libra Ascendant that attracted the Gemini's (and vice versa). I'm still friends with one of my long term Gemini boyfriends, I actually really appreciate his witty sense of humour much more than I did back then (which was almost 20 years ago! yikes!). I like Gemini's ease and witty charm in social situations. As friends they are great, but we can get on eachother's nerves as boyfriend/girlfriend. I always remember the second date I went on with my Gemini bf, we went to some jazz club with lots of people in the audience. He was paying more attention to scouting the crowd than me. That really irritated me. I'm not really a people watcher but I think Geminis are.

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posted March 31, 2014 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Hi Jo B,

What decan is your Libra Ascendant in?

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Ummm, I didn't really know what a decans was so I had to look it up. lol

It's in the third decans I believe 20-30 degrees - which is apparently ruled by Mercury (for Libras). Hmmm. Maybe that explains the connection with Gems too.

Oh and my Mercury in Virgo is in the first decans, which is also ruled by Mercury.

posted March 31, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Primarose220:
Do you know any Leos and Virgos who have argued alot and or got along. If so why do you think of this.

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My parents. They are both. They have really great chemistry together, but can also get into a lot of arguments. The reason for argument on an objective plane would be that Leos hate criticism and Virgo is the most critical of all signs. Other reasons are that Leo is generally a subjective thinker, whereas Virgos are more objective in their approach. Leos, believe it or not, like to keep harmony and peace. Virgos are honest, whether this disrupts harmony or not. Leos need respect; Virgos are very direct and can sometimes infringe the boundaries set by the Leo unknowingly.

The reasons they get along are much more vague. I think that it's the opposite energy. Because they're so different, they actually help to "complete" on another. They're both incredibly compassionate, kind, and generous. They love helping people. After getting past petty differences, they have very similar views. They both like to explore. They both like communication. I'm not perfectly sure why, but this combination tends to work a lot of times.

posted March 31, 2014 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by KingofCups:
My parents. They are both. They have really great chemistry together, but can also get into a lot of arguments. The reason for argument on an objective plane would be that Leos hate criticism and Virgo is the most critical of all signs. Other reasons are that Leo is generally a subjective thinker, whereas Virgos are more objective in their approach. Leos, believe it or not, like to keep harmony and peace. Virgos are honest, whether this disrupts harmony or not. Leos need respect; Virgos are very direct and can sometimes infringe the boundaries set by the Leo unknowingly.

The reasons they get along are much more vague. I think that it's the opposite energy. Because they're so different, they actually help to "complete" on another. They're both incredibly compassionate, kind, and generous. They love helping people. After getting past petty differences, they have very similar views. They both like to explore. They both like communication. I'm not perfectly sure why, but this combination tends to work a lot of times.

As a side note, they do have compatible Moons. My mom, a Leo, has a Gemini Moon. And my dad, the Virgo, has a Leo Moon. Their Ascendants clash also, however. My mom has a Scorpio Ascendant, and my dad a Leo Ascendant. Yes, both are stubborn.

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I like this analysis too. I seem to find "completion" more with my neighboring signs too, Libra and Leo (increasingly Libra these days). But I find Libra men touchy if they aren't getting their own way, lots of cardinal energy which I cannot always satisfy as a chilled mutable Virgo. haha. And I often have ego clashes with Leos. But I like them in my life because they bring a sense of security and protection emotionally (esp. Leo) in a light-hearted way. I really appreciate Libras and Leos when we're getting along great!

posted March 31, 2014 07:20 PM            

I also have to say that I get along REALLY well with Pisces. I get along reasonably well with Capricorn as well. But even with a huge Aquarius influence, most of my friends (by most, I mean actually over 50%) are Pisces. They offer a much more emotional view of the world, and I like their philosophical natures.

They say that each sign, in order, one after the other, is a higher level of personal development than the one before it. Perhaps all signs get along really well with the sign after it because the next sign represents all that the preceding sign is not. So basically, Aries gets along well with Taurus, Taurus with Gemini, Gemini with Cancer, and so on. And if you think about it, all of those sign combinations are very different from one another. The highly conservative Taurus or Cancer with the largely communicative and progressive Gemini for instance.