posted April 06, 2014 10:47 AM            

Solar - It's easy to avoid her because we aren't in the same vicinity, but she will still text me. The thing is is she knows how to read people all the time! So I'm thinking "Okay, there's no way she is 'missing' my hints"

posted April 06, 2014 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoSurvivor:
With Cap Sun I'm sure there's something karmic going on. Don't dismiss that there may be some sort of lesson for you

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posted April 06, 2014 11:17 AM            

Double whammy Mercury / Uranus aspects

My Sun opposition her Pluto
My Moon opposition her Mars
My Venus opposition her Pluto
My Mercury opposition her Pluto
My Mars trine her Pluto (no kidding…she makes me want to hit her.)

Anything else I should look for? The Pluto stuff seems to be the answer, no?

posted April 07, 2014 12:41 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:

Her Sun opposition my Mars
Her Moon conjunct my Mars at 2 degrees
My Moon opposition her Mars
Her Venus conjunct my Saturn

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Moon-Mars double whammy is a sexy placement. I had this with someone and we couldn't keep our hands off each other.

But I also see that you have your Saturn sitting on top of her Venus. This may very well have you "chill"(Saturn) any affections(Venus) that she gives to you.

Infact, this placement has 2 effects;
(1)Cool the affections that she bequeaths on you
(2) Be unable to reciprocate the same in kind.Even if you feel the same.

I think this may be the case of her thinking the latter in this case: That you really do love her (deep inside) but are having trouble expressing it.

Girls may not admit this, but they really do like a guy who is a hard nut to crack: Makes them feel "accomplished" when they finally do break the guy in-so to speak.

I had my Saturn in Scorpio squaring this others girls' Venus in Leo placement once.

She was so into me and I just wasn't there. Plus I was gay and in the closet at the time and it really made things really awkward for me.

No matter how many times I told her that I wasn't interested, she kept at it. I thought that there was something wrong with her because I didn't understand how someone could be so oblivious.

Finally I finished high school,moved out of the province and changed numbers. Yes...that is what it took to finally get her off my back. Geesh!!

posted April 07, 2014 12:48 AM            

Imo whatever you do - to tell her to lay off - she will react badly. It doesn't matter what you say or how nice you are. She will neither understand that she needs to lay off, nor get your reasons - and she will assume you are simply rejecting her - and then she will react with spite - and much *much* drama.

The only way to get rid of this person is to tell her you are in love.. head over heels in love.. and whenever she pops in or wants to talk - you will be busy talking to your bf.
That is the only thing they comprehend..
If you are with your "bf" - she will give you space.

posted April 07, 2014 01:31 AM            

I've tried the whole telling them straight up thing - and they react in an insane way.
I've been in this situation with two girls and one guy.

I'm referring to Cancer Moon only - not Cancer Suns.

But your friend could be different. I mean it's up to you...

I would make up a bf to get rid of her. Just being honest.
Cancer Moon women are very traditional about romance. If she was in love, she would put the guy on a pedestal and spend all her time and energy fussing over him - and whatever time is left dreaming about him. She would forget her friends even exist and her family, although dear to her, would still take second place to her beloved.

posted April 07, 2014 02:10 AM            

Cause sometimes even people really high up in the hetero spectrum still develop strong emotional loving bonds with the same sex.
Basically treat her as a guy friend that has a crush on you.
If you want nothing to do with her than just tell her..
but idkkk some people are crazy too,

Idk I would very careful..
but I never attract crazy stalker types so I can't give appropriate advice.

posted April 07, 2014 05:57 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
There's a Sag ASC, Cap Sun, Cancer Moon, Venus in Aquarius girl I know who basically won't leave me alone.

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Oh no...

Does she have her Moon in Cancer in the 8th house? and Venus in the 2nd house?

If so, that is one possibility, she's very insecure and her Moon in 8th never gives up on a person to the point of disregarding listening to other people. It's like tunnel vision. This is not a good thing.

It's an internal problem imo. :/

posted April 07, 2014 03:40 PM            

She has Moon in the 7th house opposing Uranus and Neptune (meek *yay*…)

Mars in Scorpio. S.it I never noticed that before.

Sun, Moon, Venus trine Pluto. FFFFFFFFK.

Some days I don't mind her but those days are few and far between! I haven't thought about making up a boyfriend. I can't see that working because she'll just ask to see a picture and then I think of finding a picture and having to fake the whole story forever and ever and get exhausted.