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posted April 06, 2014 03:00 PM            

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Or a smooth talker? haha! I hear a lot about Taurus guys and wonder if they are just being given a bad rep? This one guy who I've known for a while & who recently started coming forward as more than a friend gives me compliments all the time, tries any reason to touch/be playful with me & even mentioned going out for the first time. I don't want to be afraid because I like him, but I keep wondering is he for real & just this slow moving?

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posted April 06, 2014 03:02 PM            

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Idk if this is relevant, but I read somewhere that a Capricorn moon and other Taurus placements can make a guy even more shy than he is- and that's what this one has.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:10 PM            

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Worst cold blooded player I've ever met was a Taurus.
I wouldn't generalize though.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:11 PM            

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Taurus are NOT players! Yes, they are very slow moving and are relationship oriented! He is giving you signals- yes he is interested. The Cap moon makes him even more timid...

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posted April 06, 2014 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
Worst cold blooded player I've ever met was a Taurus.
I wouldn't generalize though.

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This surprises me...I would say this person was an exception...probably would need to see the rest of the chart to determine what caused the issue. I would propose it might have been another natal placement.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:14 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
This surprises me...I would say this person was an exception...probably would need to see the rest of the chart to determine what caused the issue. I would propose it might have been another natal placement.

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I happen to have his ToB. Do you want to see it?

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posted April 06, 2014 03:15 PM            

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Thanks! Is there a way to pick out the genuine sweet Taurus men vs the players? I've known this guy 2 years & he seems timid but not a player, yet I do at times get paranoid about all men haha!

Do you think he'll have the nerve to kiss me if we get to go out for the first time? I've heard they are very straightforward.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:17 PM            

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Originally posted by dadoo:
I happen to have his ToB. Do you want to see it?

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Sure, post his chart if you can..

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posted April 06, 2014 03:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Alleycat9:
Thanks! Is there a way to pick out the genuine sweet Taurus men vs the players? I've known this guy 2 years & he seems timid but not a player, yet I do at times get paranoid about all men haha!

Do you think he'll have the nerve to kiss me if we get to go out for the first time? I've heard they are very straightforward.

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It depends on sign his mercury is in as that is the way he thinks/communicates. For instance a fire sign mercury will be direct and straightforward, an earth mercury not so much...water mercury definitely wishy washy..

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posted April 06, 2014 03:20 PM            

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He's Taurus sun, mercury & venus
Capricorn moon
Aries mars

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posted April 06, 2014 03:22 PM            

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Haha! A couple times he's really been a bit sexual with grabbing at me, hugging & getting close- I should say sensual instead of sexual- are they like this, even the shy ones? Maybe it's the Aries mars!

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posted April 06, 2014 03:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Alleycat9:
He's Taurus sun, mercury & venus
Capricorn moon
Aries mars

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He's not going to come out and say he likes you...he's showing you be likes you by the compliments he's giving you and the friendly way he's treating you. No he's not a player...by his signs.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:24 PM            

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Here it is:

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posted April 06, 2014 03:25 PM            

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Venus in aries or gem taurus pushes their sensual energy to be more agressive and in your face as venus is the dipositor.

Ultimately it's very attractive combination but yeah being a player is the negative but as they say don't hate the player

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posted April 06, 2014 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Alleycat9:
Haha! A couple times he's really been a bit sexual with grabbing at me, hugging & getting close- I should say sensual instead of sexual- are they like this, even the shy ones? Maybe it's the Aries mars!

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Yes it's the Aries mars and venus in Taurus is VERY sensual!

bTW ..hopefully that Taurus stellium is not in his 5th house as that could indicate a player but you'd need his birth time.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:28 PM            

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Venus in 12th house Pisces!!! That's your culprit!!

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posted April 06, 2014 03:28 PM            

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I actually know his birth time- 5/20/92 @2:56 am.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:31 PM            

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The player types tend to make big impossible promises within the first 30sec of meeting you, or pushing for sex right away.

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posted April 06, 2014 03:31 PM            

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I actually know his birth time- 5/20/92 @2:56 am.

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You'd have to post the chart to see what's in his 5th house.

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Venus in 12th house Pisces!!! That's your culprit!!

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Well, I do agree that it certainly plays a big part in it.
But he had organized his schedule and budget so that he could "see" as many girls as possible (all "official" girlfriends, nothing casual afaik) every week.
That's hardly Pisces behavior.

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posted April 06, 2014 04:05 PM            

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I got my heart broken by a Taurus man with a Taurus moon as well as Venus and Mars in Cancer. Sounds strange right? He also had Moon opposite Pluto(retrograde natally) as well moon trine Uranus( retrograde natally) as well his Venus square Uranus and Mars opposite Neptune. He was a mess and I could never figure him out. After keeping me on a string with empty promises for a year and a half, he cut me lose, no warning no nothing. He up and left on my birthday. I finally got a reply after months of persistent texting ANC his only response was, he didn't have the time. Now he's infatuated with a 17 year old out of town who does the same thing to guys. It's all a game. I'm sure not every Taurus man is a player, but I bet all of them have a harem of women lurking in the shadows.

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posted April 06, 2014 04:20 PM            

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I will chip in...

Have yet to meet a Taurus man that wasn't a player.

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posted April 07, 2014 02:12 AM            

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I would like to say something. When a Taurus guy(esp double Taurus) falls hard in love they fall hard. It takes them a looong time to get over it. When they do get over it they take time to seriously commit again. That's when they fool around with many women.
Alleyway I think yr guy genuinely likes u. Look for his actions. Not words. Is he giving you time? Has he introduced u to his friends? Does he listen /ask u questions about your childhood/aspirations etc? Is he willing to share his things/thoughts with u? Ask him questions about him. If the wanna commit to u he would readily answer them. Is he protective around u? If I were u I would watch out for his display of affection. This is how they show their love. Also it won't be a good idea to makeout with them before they commit to u. All this r from my personal experience. I'm not proud to say this but I have broken few Taurus guys hearts. Not a good thing I know .anyway I have no excuses to offer. Tc.

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posted April 07, 2014 08:07 AM            

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The thing I've noticed about Taurus guys (I had many Taurus boyfriends when I was younger, not as I grew older for some reason) is that they DO play a bit but in a sort of innocent way, like they're not even aware of it. It makes you tolerate it more than you should. lol

I think their feelings are genuine when in love but because they admire other women too they are capable of loving more than one. But I think they can be fairly egotistical too.

Typical example was when I was the "other woman" with a guy (only time for me thankfully, ugh!) and then when I got fed up with his sitting on the fence in terms of committing to either of us and I found another boyfriend, Taurus guy all of sudden decided to tell his gf he'd been seeing me too. Huh? What a strange coincidence (she says sarcastically!). I dumped him anyway, lost instant respect for him after that.

The other Taurus boyfriends had that dubious "will they won't they cheat on me?" quality too, unfortunately. lol

They DO fall quite hard when in love and can be physically affectionate and demonstrative but can also be laid back and sort of expect you to revolve around them.

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posted April 07, 2014 09:44 AM            

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I've been played by a double taurus. But most of it was my fault b/c I fell so easily for it. He wasn't over his ex, lied and told me he loved me just so I would tell him back and he could show his friends I fell for it lol. Always checked out other girls

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