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Topic: NN conjunct Venus Synastry-Deal breaker or true love?
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manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
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posted April 06, 2014 08:15 PM
  
Online & book interpretations on this vary widely. So I've been looking for an answer to this question on past threads here and it seems that the threads with the OP asking about this aspect always have a ton of people come in talking how they've been in relationships with SN conj Venus.... but SN is not the same as NN.I wonder if this means that NN conj Venus in synastry doesn't usually equal a relationship since it seems that it's only SN conjunct Venus relationships that are getting together. If anyone has experiences with NN conjuct venus in synastry who do you think felt it most? The node person or the venus person? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 06, 2014 08:53 PM
I have Sn conjunct Venus exact in synastry...I think it can be quite challenging since past life stuff is being emphasized in this life.. and while it's romantic to think we were together in our past life we're living this life as completely different people.
With NN we can say that you both have a future together! My pisces sister took me to see a really cool psychic/hypnotherapist and he uncovered a lot of things about my past life and my relationship.
I don't want to mention all the details because it's unrelated and uhm I don't want to haha. and for the sake of avoiding a stupid disagreement, whatever you believe... Sn is the past and Nn is the future. IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
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posted April 06, 2014 08:59 PM
Kerosene has it right. SN contacts can be karmic from what I've read, and that person can help you move through something, whereas NN is more goal-oriented and that person can help you move in the direction you are supposed to, karmically.This doesn't mean relationships with SN contacts can't work, but they can be stifling, and the SN person can eventually feel held back by the planet person once they have learned the lesson, leaving the planet person saying, "huh?" IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
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posted April 06, 2014 09:01 PM
If it was North Node and Saturn, I might be leery.A lot of times South Node/Venus Synastries mean something where the timing is off, many May/December relationships can attest to this fact. I think I would pay attention to the Aspects, and go with that, although anything on the Nodes is going to be auspicious in one way or another. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 06, 2014 09:04 PM
relating to the past sn/venus is like childhood romances that are nostalgic.
You can never escape your past since it always lingers in the back of your head.NN manifests in synastry when two people are matured.
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MsPrism
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posted April 06, 2014 09:09 PM
Venus conjunct SN could be showing up often in relationships because Venus would be creating an opposition to the NN. Oppositions in synastry are described as a person coming into your life and making you make a decision. You are being forced to make a decision by the partner. So someone else enters the situation, pushing you to make a decision about what you're doing with your North Node, saying basically "Okay, get on with it finally!" Venus conjunct NN would meld with the NN, infusing it with Venusian energy and whatever Venus is attached to in the natal chart. We could theorize that your North Node needs more action, pushing, force applied than your South Node so we prefer an opposition to it rather than a conjunction. IP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 06, 2014 09:10 PM
lol. It's happening again like I said.  There are so many threads like this already. No SN please just NN. All the threads only have info on synastry with SN conjuct Venus.IP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 06, 2014 09:12 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
relating to the past sn/venus is like childhood romances that are nostalgic.
You can never escape your past since it always lingers in the back of your head.NN manifests in synastry when two people are matured.
Interesting. Maybe it only starts showing after the age of 35 or something.
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Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
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posted April 06, 2014 09:12 PM
North Node is the more positive of the two.IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted April 06, 2014 09:34 PM
Personally I have seen more actual relationships with the South node being activated in comparison to the north node. This including a friendship with a guy that had a tight Venus/North Node conjunction with in synastry. I don't think Venus conjunct NN in synastry is a dealbreaker but there needs to be supporting aspects to keep the two parties binded to one another. When the south node is activated you're trying to complete in-complete karma with is why relationships seem to result more often in these synatries. When the North Node person in the synastry masters the lessons of their Node, I believe its easier for the energy of Venus to be receptive.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 06, 2014 09:48 PM
I have Venus conjunct NN exact in Taurus (in my natal chart). He has his NN very close to my NN (1deg orb) and also conjunct my Venus. He's a lot older
It was definitely true love. It has drifted into friendship though. The situation we were/are in makes it impossible for us to be in an official relationship.
I will always care about him and I know he'll always care about me.
I don't feel like we are star crossed lovers though... because I am very strange and open minded - and I have no real desire to be in a relationship at all.
To be honest I quite like the fact that what we have is private and ours - and others are unaware. Through the ups and downs we've had- one thing is certain..I am very happy I met him.. very happy to have fallen in love with him.. very happy with the lessons I have learnt.. and very happy that he is still in my life.
I wouldn't change a thing. IP: Logged |
Ellynlvx
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From: Mountain Gate
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posted April 06, 2014 10:01 PM
Hey Odette, I was just going to say the same thing, ha!And by the way: Happy Birthday Month! and I hope I'm not too late...  IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
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From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 06, 2014 10:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
I have Venus conjunct NN exact in Taurus (in my natal chart). He has his NN very close to my NN (1deg orb) and also conjunct my Venus. He's a lot older
It was definitely true love. It has drifted into friendship though. The situation we were/are in makes it impossible for us to be in an official relationship.
I will always care about him and I know he'll always care about me.
I don't feel like we are star crossed lovers though... because I am very strange and open minded - and I have no real desire to be in a relationship at all.
To be honest I quite like the fact that what we have is private and ours - and others are unaware. Through the ups and downs we've had- one thing is certain..I am very happy I met him.. very happy to have fallen in love with him.. very happy with the lessons I have learnt.. and very happy that he is still in my life.
I wouldn't change a thing.
Ditto. Except in Pisces. Same thing, he was older (7 years), felt like true love, private love, ups and downs, lessons, all that. Now are are friends. I think Odette typed it all first so I could type less  IP: Logged |
twinky
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posted April 07, 2014 03:41 AM
My Venus conjunct his NNode. I think it is true love but he isn't ready. Too many lessons to learn. He ended up saying that he is really into me and I really make him happy, but I have too many expectations from him and he can't give anything, and me saying that he shouldn't keep things in his life that don't work, and if you let love fill you then you have plenty of love to give back.Moreover, his Mercury conjunct my SNode (4 degrees,though) gave a feeling of "have we met before?" It is more complex because he has a NNode/Ascendant conjunction. And his Saturn in 4th house (which is also his 7th house ruler) tightly squares his Asc-Desc and North-South Node axis. Saturn comes into play; he has a long way to go. So my Venus conjuncts his NNode and Ascendant and squares his Saturn. These are some of the tightest aspects of our synastry. IP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 07, 2014 03:42 AM
Thanks guys. It seems the interpretations that call this aspect a great sign of a romance have lost out to the interpretations out there that say this aspect tends to deny a romance in this life (implying perhaps a romance in the next instead). IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted April 07, 2014 03:46 AM
edit, it's true love... but I'd agree that it points more towards future life romances, in this life there will always be obstacles (except in rare circumstances I'm sure)IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 07, 2014 03:53 AM
I don't think it denies romance at all, but it does seem to deny an official, typical, socially acceptable relationship.
For women who are very set on getting married and/or having a serious partner - it could be a deal breaker.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted April 07, 2014 03:57 AM
Edit... it's difficult lol IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted April 07, 2014 04:04 AM
I have Venus conjunct North Node (1 degree) and my sun conjunct his vertex EXACT (off by a few seconds I think) and I wanted to know...Is there something karmic there? Do you think it's just a coincidence?All my main personal planets fall in his 7th and 8th house. I've hung around with the guy twice. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 07, 2014 07:04 AM
I've had two very close friendships with NN conjunct venus in synastry. From what I've read and what I've experienced, the relationship ALWaYS ends. Squares to the nodal axis are more long term (marriage) because they hit the SN (familiarity) as well. IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 07, 2014 08:08 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
I have Venus conjunct North Node (1 degree) and my sun conjunct his vertex EXACT (off by a few seconds I think) and I wanted to know...Is there something karmic there? Do you think it's just a coincidence?All my main personal planets fall in his 7th and 8th house. I've hung around with the guy twice.
Venus conjunct NN in synastry in Definitely KARMIC!!! IP: Logged |
KarmicMoon
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From: Moon, Milky Way
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 07, 2014 08:58 AM
I've had this. His Venus in Pisces 3 42' my North Node at 3 41'. I was just complaining about him on the Venus in Pisces thread, lol. We aren't together anymore. This is the most painful relationship of my life. A part of me will always love him. He was unwilling/unable to have a commited relationship with me so I'd break up with him and then two weeks later he'd call me saying he missed me and wanted to see me. This went on for three years till I could finally extract myself from him. It was very hard for me to get away from him. My self esteem was severly damaged by then though because of all the cheating. We had other karmic aspects too. My Saturn conjunct his NN and my Neptune conjunct his SN. Our asc/des ic/mc also conjunct, not karmic but very attractive and Venus square Neptune DW.Eerily, he contacted me last year, after not speaking for eight years, when Neptune hit 3 40' Pisces. I still have to work hard at not letting myself get involved with him. In fact, about a month ago I decided to stop speaking to him AGAIN. But I'm sure he'll be back....definitely soomething karmic going on. Hopefully, I won't have to spend my next life with him 😬. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
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posted April 07, 2014 09:22 AM
My ex of 4 years had his sn on my Venus. The chemistry was instant, and there was an immediate sense of familiarity and comfort with one another. Attraction was through the roof. As the Venus person, I felt completely drained by the end of the relationship. I must have owed him something from a previous life, because I was nicer and more giving to him than I've ever been to anyone in my entire life. He felt very comfortable with me, and found it extremely difficult to let me go. Took about a year and a half to fully break up (I didn't even see him once during that period of time, but he kept calling and calling). He has Venus on his SN natally, so he is extremely comfortable with his SN. His natal Saturn is square his Nodal axis, and therefore was square my Venus as well. Cultural/religious differences tore us apart. He went off and married someone from his own religion last year. I looked up their synastry and it was pretty powerful: her Sun/Mars on his North Node, his Moon on her North Node. I remember he told me that she makes him a 'better man'. With her, he can grow as a person, while him and I just held each other back. It was difficult to hear him say that, but I understand. Now I'm with someone whose North Node is on my Moon, and it is a lot better. He says I make him a better man!! lol and he makes me a better woman. It's still tough because I think he feels slightly uncomfortable with all the emotional stuff, but hopefully he'll come around. IP: Logged |
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