posted April 06, 2014 11:23 PM            

I have it in 1st house/Scorpio T-squaring Leo Venus in 10th house and Aquarius moon in 4th.

I believe (well I know!) people talk about me in terms of my chosen profession (music) - colleagues, audience etc, and also my family in terms of my private domestic life. It's either glowing praise or sharp criticism, not really anything in between. When I work on that T-square (ie approaching life in a spiritual way before anything else) it mostly generates positive stuff in the other areas. I hate letting myself down or showing myself up, especially when it comes to career/work. But I have to keep plugging away at it to succeed.

posted April 07, 2014 08:06 AM            

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Originally posted by fauxcoat:
I have Neptune in my 10th house and people gossip about me left and right. I'm the most boring person I know yet almost everyone I know gossips about me. I have a packed 8th house and a Scorpio NN so I am quite a private person but still friendly. I have lost trust in almost all friends and family because anything I confide in them gets spread around. I have retreated more and more into myself because of this.

Does anyone else have this placement and do you have people gossiping about you? If so, how do you handle it? Just to confirm, Neptune is a singleton in the 10th and Neptune is in Sagittarius. The aspects are Neptune sextiles both Pluto and Asc., Saturn trines Neptune, Venus semi-squares Neptune, and the Sun and Moon both quintile Neptune.

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Yes yes yes!!! Neptune has been over my MC for a year now and the gossip about my life has been horrendous! Anxiously awaiting this transit to pass..it's very difficult...

I have completely retreated Ito myself and DO NOT trust anyone.

posted April 07, 2014 09:33 AM            

"Those who matter don't mind, those who mind don't matter."

Most are usually just based on presumptions, causing unnecessary misunderstandings.

I've neptune trine asc, so often end up being projected by people. They don't see the real me, instead they made up an illusion of me and take that as truth.

posted April 07, 2014 11:02 AM            

Maybe I take a more masculine approach and see the bigger picture of life, I think as I've got older I'd just rather not expend energy discussing the details of other people's lives. What's the point? In the worst case it just encourages jealousy or envy anyway, all negative, bad karma feelings. This is particularly the case when it comes to families and extended families. I don't have kids unfortunately (would loved to have at least one), so I don't really want to hear the details of other people's relationships with their kids, particularly when they moan about the problems with them. It reminds me of what I will never have and to me they're lucky to have such source of potential joy and energy in their lives. Similarly I don't feel I deserve people's envy because I don't have kids and apparently lead a "free" life where I can do what I want. It's not all it's cracked up to be, especially when you wanted your own family all along.

posted April 07, 2014 02:17 PM            

What do you have to hide anyway? Just say what you'd want the whole world to know.

With Neptune here, you can "manipulate" your public image, create the "character" you want for yourself.

posted April 07, 2014 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by FruityLlama:
I have Neptune in 7H and Pisces is the sign of my MC. I also have a Scorpio NN. And yeah, I have a similar problem. Though, it's more that people just choose to drop me at a moments notice, rather than gossip as such...although, I guess they must do because one minute we're best buds and then suddenly I don't exist. It might be the mysterious elusiveness of Neptune and the intense mystery behind Scorpio. People don't like it, I guess.

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posted April 07, 2014 06:45 PM            

People talk about me all the time.