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Topic: Platonic love between friends
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7489
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 10:49 AM
  
What aspects and overlays indicate it? I mean a friendship without sexual or romantic attraction on any side. Sibling-like. Same gender or not.------------------
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sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 377
From: 8th house
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 09, 2014 11:27 AM
I have this with a guy friend. We have Venus conjunct Venus and my mars + pluto conjunct his mars + saturn. He has sun in my 11th (friends). I adore him like crazy but not romantically. He's also good looking with a great body so it's a balancing act. We both make sure that we don't cross the platonic line. He's chivalrous towards me and protective of me. He calls me out on my BS. If a guy I like or date is being a jerk, my friend will call him out on it face to face. Happened recently. No fighting, but made his point very clear. I thought it was awesome. Even the guy I like (whom my friend confronted) thought the protective gesture was cute. Every one else was just shocked. We don't discuss sex (mars Saturn synastry restriction?). But we talk about fitness and technique a lot (positive uses of Mars Saturn synastry). It's almost like having an older brother. He has moon in my 3rd house. I don't think of any of my other guy friends in a sibling like way. Just this one. He's special. IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 377
From: 8th house
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 09, 2014 11:30 AM
Cappy, what prompted your curiosity about this?IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7489
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 11:39 AM
My wish to experience it someday. Thanks for sharing.------------------
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1903
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 11:44 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
My wish to experience it someday. Thanks for sharing.
For me, platonic and GOOD friendships with men have only been achievable AFTER the sex has been dealt with. But I suppose this was not the answer you were looking for 
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7489
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 11:48 AM
Thanks for ruining the atmosphere >_> I don't wanna read about f buddies.------------------
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sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 377
From: 8th house
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 09, 2014 12:06 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Thanks for ruining the atmosphere >_> I don't wanna read about f buddies.
Finding close opposite sex friendships without any ulterior motive takes time. A lot of guys will try to become friends with women for the occasional benefits after they sleep with them. Or be friends just so they can bang you one day. Or you friendzone them and they accept the demoted position as a friend. Your objective is to find good friends amongst whom a few special ones you will love in a platonic way. The mechanism of my choice is called rigorous screening Good luck. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1903
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 12:12 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Thanks for ruining the atmosphere >_> I don't wanna read about f buddies.
I just said it started with sex and went over to friendship. Can't be a f buddy if no sex is involved IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 09, 2014 12:13 PM
Honestly all those trines people rave about are really only wonderful with friends.I have plenty of Aqua and Libra friends which I enjoy. My best friend who I love is an Aqua. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7489
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 12:16 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I just said it started with sex and went over to friendship. Can't be a f buddy if no sex is involved
This is not the dynamics I'm interested in. Besides, I remember you said you forced them to be friends with you. How cute. ------------------
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dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 09, 2014 03:37 PM
Aqua/Gemini placements?
I'm good at those, and I love them.IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 476
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 09, 2014 06:44 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Honestly all those trines people rave about are really only wonderful with friends.I have plenty of Aqua and Libra friends which I enjoy. My best friend who I love is an Aqua.
Yeah, I agree. I'm a Aqua and have never been romantically attracted to Libras or Geminis- they make awesome friends though! I seem to be attracted to fire and earth placements. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 8612
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 09, 2014 06:54 PM
Believe it or not, in my experience, aspects between Venus and Mars. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
unregistered
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posted April 09, 2014 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by BellaFenice:
Yeah, I agree. I'm a Aqua and have never been romantically attracted to Libras or Geminis- they make awesome friends though! I seem to be attracted to fire and earth placements.
Make senses I was associate aqua with earth and fire
I like Fire and Water the most. IP: Logged |
themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 494
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 09, 2014 11:47 PM
For me, jupiter/sun and moon/jupiter aspects are like bff aspects. I'm not sure if that's because of my chart or if that applies to others but everyone I have had platonic love for has had this in synastry.IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars
Knowflake Posts: 166
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 03:22 AM
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