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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9012 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 01:50 PM
Pretty much. Most of the heavily earth influenced people I know have the personality of a puddle.IP: Logged |
Jo B Knowflake Posts: 439 From: London, UK Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 11, 2014 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: Why in the heck would someone lie about their age? Lol
A boyfriend of mine did at the start of our relationship. I was 30, he was 41 but said he was 39. lol. I mean, that seems a bit ridiculous, if you're going to lie about your age at least make it 10 years younger or something. Anyway, about 3 months into our relationship he sent me a card confessing he'd lied and explained he'd fibbed because he didn't think I was going to stick around anyway. I just thought it was amusing and a bit silly really. IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 02:57 PM
^Haha that's funny about the card. But yeah same with this guy, he lied by 3 years... I mean what's the point really? Maybe he just doesn't want to actually believe he's 30 or something lol but it happens to everyone! Anyway yeah I don't really care since it's not like we knew each other that well and now that we've actually hung out/gone on a date he was honest. But I liked the synastry from the other chart waaay better so that kind of sucks... (not that it's a deciding factor lol but still) His venus/mars trine my sun so that's nice, but I still don't know what to think about the Vigo though and Cancer moon..IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 9012 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 03:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: ^Haha that's funny about the card. But yeah same with this guy, he lied by 3 years... I mean what's the point really? Maybe he just doesn't want to actually believe he's 30 or something lol but it happens to everyone! Anyway yeah I don't really care since it's not like we knew each other that well and now that we've actually hung out/gone on a date he was honest. But I liked the synastry from the other chart waaay better so that kind of sucks... His venus/mars trine my sun so that's nice, but I still don't know what to think about the Vigo though and Cancer moon..
Do you like him? Or are you gonna let the synastry dictate whether you like him or not?
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MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1422 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by FireMoon: ^Haha that's funny about the card. But yeah same with this guy, he lied by 3 years... I mean what's the point really? Maybe he just doesn't want to actually believe he's 30 or something lol but it happens to everyone! Anyway yeah I don't really care since it's not like we knew each other that well and now that we've actually hung out/gone on a date he was honest. But I liked the synastry from the other chart waaay better so that kind of sucks... (not that it's a deciding factor lol but still) His venus/mars trine my sun so that's nice, but I still don't know what to think about the Vigo though and Cancer moon..
Haha lying about their age, how funny. Synastry chart, synastry chart! I'm demanding it! Haha if you want to put it up, that's cool and if not, still cool. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9944 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 07:10 PM
I don't want to be that person.. but when people lie to their crushes I automatically don't trust them. Like its one thing with acquaintances, because who cares but a relationship should not start with shady behavior. In the back of my head I'll always imagine them lying about something when want to avoid something. IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1422 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 07:15 PM
That is true. I've had people lie to me in the beginning. It's always more fun for me to stay with them and keep unearthing their lies, shoving them in their face. Sometimes it's so pleasant to destroy illusions.Although, I think it is a lot better to not waste your time with such games. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9944 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 07:54 PM
I like when people don't tell me that much of their past leaves some mystery but lying like that is not cute to me.. Like your thAt insecure IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1422 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 08:28 PM
It's definitely insecurity and it is pretty surprising. It's like "you see me physically, the age part is irrelevant, isn't it?" But insecurity does show potential for growth. If you can hone in on some insecurity and break through it, it's very empowering. I like to see that happen for people and I like people to do that for me. I'm not deluded enough to think that I'm perfect and so it just seems necessary. IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by MsPrism: Haha lying about their age, how funny.Synastry chart, synastry chart! I'm demanding it! Haha if you want to put it up, that's cool and if not, still cool.
It's funny that we have Mercury-Neptune... I've had this in the past with someone and it never got serious but I felt like "stretching the truth" could've been involved in that situation too Anyway his moon conjunct my Asc is nice, feels very cozy.. but all those squares don't look especially promising and moon-uranus DW seems unstable. I didn't add these but his Psyche also conjuncts my moon-vertex, and we have vertex widely conjunct Asc DW. Vertex conjunct Dsc in the composite exact. So I don't know, there's good and bad... Time will tell I guess. I'll let the fib slide for right now but if I notice it again or as a pattern I'm not dumb enough to play those games, even at this age lol... IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 10:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: I don't want to be that person.. but when people lie to their crushes I automatically don't trust them. Like its one thing with acquaintances, because who cares but a relationship should not start with shady behavior. In the back of my head I'll always imagine them lying about something when want to avoid something.
I agree it's shady... Like if they'll lie about something so trivial that early on it makes me think they'd have no problem lying about bigger things later. edit, I also wonder about his past relationship history and maybe I'm just being suspicious but to me it seems like he was either scarred at some point or something, or he thinks there's something to hide...
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FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 1598 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 10:45 PM
[/b][/QUOTE]Do you like him? Or are you gonna let the synastry dictate whether you like him or not?[/B][/QUOTE]Yeah I do like him... Just not getting my hopes up for anything at this point. Even if things don't work out romantically it would be nice to stay friends though. My Cap side knows he has business connections that could help with networking lol... (maybe that makes me sound like a gold digger, but I'd rather find people whether it's friends, family, etc. who can help me climb the ladder and make my own success than just blatantly give me money or pay for things... As I would help others too)
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