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Topic: Cancer: always happy and need to be the center of attention
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amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2628 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 06:52 PM
Yes you guys have great social skills and know how to make people feel at ease and comfortable.....its a gift you are born with.A lot of you seem to have this therapeutic effect on people but I want input on cancers and two points: 1. You seem to always be in a good mood and happy. Is this real or is it just how you want people to view you? Are cancers good at hiding how they really feel? The one thing that some cancers have a hard time hiding at times is neediness but other than that it seems everything is fine, you can't tell by looking at them unless they open up and tell you that something is wrong. 2.Do you guys have the need to be the center of attention above others bc it seems like that is a tendency. Like you need everyone to consider you the favorite.
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PiscesCancerTaurus Knowflake Posts: 194 From: AZ Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 07:19 PM
I am a Cancer sun, mercury and venus. 1. Personally I am never in a good mood but for some reason people always tell me that I look like I am in a good mood. We are moody people. LOL. I don't want people to view me as angry or unapproachable but I don't go out of my way to make people view me as happy all the time. It just kind of happens. Are Cancers good at hiding how they feel? That depends on the rest of their chart I would assume. I am not good at hiding how I feel. When I don't like them that person knows immediately. Only those who are really close to me can tell if I am upset. However, they won't know what they did or if I am even upset with them because I do not open up easily if ever. Usually I just have a content look on my face though that could be my Taurus moon. 2. Internally, yes I want to be the center of attention but that probably stems from childhood issues. LOL However, I am too shy to make myself the center of attention so I just sit back and chill or I will make sure to work extremely hard so I can get recognized for my work. That way I can be the center of attention without being obnoxious or clingy. Also though when someone else has done something and they are the center of attention I am fine with that because I believe in giving credit where credit is due. I don't have that dying need to be the center of attention in every situation. I hope this helped some. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2628 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus: I am a Cancer sun, mercury and venus. 1. Personally I am never in a good mood but for some reason people always tell me that I look like I am in a good mood. We are moody people. LOL. I don't want people to view me as angry or unapproachable but I don't go out of my way to make people view me as happy all the time. It just kind of happens. Are Cancers good at hiding how they feel? That depends on the rest of their chart I would assume. I am not good at hiding how I feel. When I don't like them that person knows immediately. Only those who are really close to me can tell if I am upset. However, they won't know what they did or if I am even upset with them because I do not open up easily if ever. Usually I just have a content look on my face though that could be my Taurus moon. 2. Internally, yes I want to be the center of attention but that probably stems from childhood issues. LOL However, I am too shy to make myself the center of attention so I just sit back and chill or I will make sure to work extremely hard so I can get recognized for my work. That way I can be the center of attention without being obnoxious or clingy. Also though when someone else has done something and they are the center of attention I am fine with that because I believe in giving credit where credit is due. I don't have that dying need to be the center of attention in every situation. I hope this helped some.
This does help. If you are in a bad mood but you come off like you are in a good mood and this happens naturally and you are not trying hard to look happy then you are good at hiding how you feel even though its NOT deliberate and just sort of happens that way. I wish I had that! I dont want people to know my moood. I am jealous! but I belief you 100% about it happening naturally, you sound genuine and the description feels honest and accurate. Thank you for sharing. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2628 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 07:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by PiscesCancerTaurus: I am a Cancer sun, mercury and venus. 1. Personally I am never in a good mood but for some reason people always tell me that I look like I am in a good mood. We are moody people. LOL. I don't want people to view me as angry or unapproachable but I don't go out of my way to make people view me as happy all the time. It just kind of happens. Are Cancers good at hiding how they feel? That depends on the rest of their chart I would assume. I am not good at hiding how I feel. When I don't like them that person knows immediately. Only those who are really close to me can tell if I am upset. However, they won't know what they did or if I am even upset with them because I do not open up easily if ever. Usually I just have a content look on my face though that could be my Taurus moon. 2. Internally, yes I want to be the center of attention but that probably stems from childhood issues. LOL However, I am too shy to make myself the center of attention so I just sit back and chill or I will make sure to work extremely hard so I can get recognized for my work. That way I can be the center of attention without being obnoxious or clingy. Also though when someone else has done something and they are the center of attention I am fine with that because I believe in giving credit where credit is due. I don't have that dying need to be the center of attention in every situation. I hope this helped some.
Since cancers want people to feel at home perhaps you guys innately cover your bad mood bc if you don't then people wont feel that therapeutic effect. I think you expressing something like this as well in your response. IP: Logged |
yellowelevator Knowflake Posts: 43 From: Michigan/Pluto Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 07:49 PM
I don't have any planets in Cancer but I am a Cancer Ascendant, so I still resonate with some of the traits/energy of the sign. My moods definitely fluctuate, just like the moon. I can be happy/content one minute, the next I am annoyed or sad, or distracted by something. I am usually pretty good about hiding how I feel too, and I will admit to telling white lies about my emotions, especially if it concerns someone who does not know me well and I don't feel comfortable in sharing personal information. This is probably because my moon is in the 12th house though, so my emotions are pretty well-hidden, and most people don't know me very well. But I feel I get the same effect from my Cancer rising, because I am very shy and usually soft-spoken. So on the outside I often try my best to appear happy/jovial and light-hearted, but a lot of time on the inside I can feel very different from what I'm portraying to others, whether they can read my face or not. Sometimes I think my face can be easily readable, other times I think I am so damn good at hiding things, lol.As for the whole center of attention thing, I'm not sure that comes from my Rising, but probably more-so from my Leo Sun, haha. That's probably way more fitting. But I have some aspects and placements in my chart that actually I feel deter me from being the center of attention, so usually I am not. I'm more of a wallflower type most of the time. People see that from my Cancer rising though, the shyness. But when I am around people I know well enough and in a good mood, that Leo energy peeks through and I'm feeling like I could pull off the whole 'look-at-me-guys!' thing. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 4188 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 10, 2014 07:54 PM
It was my understanding that Cancers retreat into their shell when hurt and therefore you're more likely to see them in a good mood as they'd want to go hide to brood, if they can.I don't know if Cancers generally needs to be the center of attention to feel validated, but they do need a lot more acknowledgement and/or reassurance. Offhand those I know with either Cancer sun or heavy Cancer influences tend to pamper others so they're the ones paying attention, but if you hurt their feelings (all too easy to do IMO, including by not paying enough attention to them in their view) then watch out. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords Knowflake Posts: 85 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 10, 2014 09:42 PM
I have a Cancer Sun and my Moon & Venus in Leo in the 4th. 1. I'm definitely not happy all the time but most of the time I try very hard to hide my moodiness and give people the impression that everything is going well. I usually feel like I'm coming across as a moody person anyway but I don't know if that's actually the case. I have a Taurus ASC so I think sometimes I seem more placid than I really am. 2. I suspect this is the result of the Gem and/or Leo placements most Cancers have. Attention-seeking isn't a trait I associate with Cancer as a sign. I could be wrong though, I'm hardly an expert. IP: Logged |
Comatoes Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 10, 2014 09:46 PM
I have three intercepted Cancer planets. So I may have a different view but here goes:1. Cancer can wear many masks, we are like a Mardi Gras that never ends. If I really worked at it I can pretend to be happy and carefree but feel like s*** we are ruled by the Moon, the Moon has many faces. People expect Cancer people to be the mother and father to everyone, WE DON'T WANT THIS ROLE, it is thrust upon us, people feel us and want us to be their parents, nurse, adviser, or caretaker. We are only responding to what we intuit about people and the situation. Stop acting needy and we will leave you alone. So we do this caring, because Cancers have a problem with feeling guilty and selfish, we will gladly put you first. After caring for people they then complain that Cancers are smothering or clingy towards them, but they're the ones putting out the invisible S.O.S. Once a Cancer connects to someone, they bond with them, some people construe this as clingy, but in the Cancer's viewpoint they want to protect the person from harm. We are the most complex sign in the zodiac. No one can ever "peg" a Cancer, we're too complex. Also the Moon placement can change Cancer energy strongly, that is why Cancers tend to be different across the board. So, yes, I tend to pretend I'm happy, because to be honest most people would be shocked to find how dark and depressing Cancers can feel, they couldn't handle it. Cancer's are a good reader of people, most Cancers will not tell you how they truly feel because they know you won't understand. So we throw on another mask. Cancers can be suicidal, but most people don't know that... 2. I don't know about other Cancers, but I don't like to be the center of attention, I will gladly be self-effacing to others. I don't care for spot-light and being important. But weirdly Cancers do have a tendency to stand out when they're not seeking any attention. I think it's because we emanate a "comfort" energy. Humans are all about comfort and home that is the top priority in all of civilizations, if you think about that, you begin to realize how important Cancer energy is in molding us as individuals for better or worse. Favoritism: Can't be helped, like I said, people latch on to Cancerians, many people think its the other way around. But Cancers can be very accommodating, nice, gentle all this can make others see you as a favorite. Humans respond more positively to gentleness then abrasive/coldness. Is this manipulative, I don't know (it could be, Cancers have a way at making it to the top in the most indirect ways), but its something innate in some Cancers, almost like breathing air. I'm not saying all Cancers are nice etc. it varies, some Cancers can be your worse nightmare... But Cancer's have no problem taking care of themselves and creating a home, it is other people who have a need for Cancer energy especially those who didn't get warmth and caring while growing up. Those tend to be the people who are drawn to Cancers the most. They have a need to go back to this place. Cancers needy -- it depends on Moon placement. I guess Cancer's can be needy, I'm not one of them. I don't like pushing myself on people and demanding that they take care of me. To be honest, I'm surprised Cancers get that characteristic, as we hate people to pity us and think we can't manage our own lives, Cancer's make the best business people and have no problem being managers of things. Cancers know how to handle things revolving around needs. But anyway, it all depends, that's my take on it. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 6930 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 10:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by amelia28: Yes you guys have great social skills and know how to make people feel at ease and comfortable.....its a gift you are born with.A lot of you seem to have this therapeutic effect on people but I want input on cancers and two points: 1. You seem to always be in a good mood and happy. Is this real or is it just how you want people to view you? Are cancers good at hiding how they really feel? The one thing that some cancers have a hard time hiding at times is neediness but other than that it seems everything is fine, you can't tell by looking at them unless they open up and tell you that something is wrong. 2.Do you guys have the need to be the center of attention above others bc it seems like that is a tendency. Like you need everyone to consider you the favorite.
1. I knew a woman who was a Cancer and she was always about being positive and happy unless she was super upset (like her dog died, or she found out her son was a douchebag). She complained a lot about her own appearance though, and gossiped a ton. Another Cancer male I know (different age though - mid 20's vs. 40's like the lady above) always has a need to be the wittiest, smartest, most opinionated and logical person. He has to be the best at school, and same with another Cancer girl I know who is dumb as bricks at work but apparently competitive academically. 2. Yes, I think they do and they get jealous when they're not. Example: Everyone wished me a happy birthday on Facebook except my Cancer co-worker, when I wrote a status to thank everyone she replied "For what." Like… either you're an idiot, or that's sarcasm, which either way she never wished me Happy Birthday and I felt like it was because of that. The same Cancer male from above always hosted parties and made an effort to wear the right clothes, drive the cool car… you'd swear he was a f.cking Capricorn. I can't stand him, lol. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen Knowflake Posts: 926 From: Planet Earth Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 10, 2014 11:00 PM
Does Cancer moon count?Personally, I'm really good at hiding my emotions, but when I want them to be known, they will be known. I guess I project it easily (moon in the 1st). I can't say for sure if the fact that I want attention is because of my Moon. After all, Leos like attention, too. But in a sense, if you blend both signs together, I think you get a total attention ***** like me--not gonna deny. Cancer, I think, is a sign that needs a lot of support from people, which I guess can come in the form of attention. Are they sociable? Not really. Every Cancer I know is a shy soul even when you get to know them. They like put up little barriers for people, I guess. Overall, with all the Cancerians in my life, they seem to be empathetic people and are very maternal. Yes, they seem to be always happy. But I don't know for sure if they're good at hiding emotions. Most of them that I know also go out of their way to help other people. Cancers are very admirable IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2628 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 10, 2014 11:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: I have three intercepted Cancer planets. So I may have a different view but here goes:1. Cancer can wear many masks, we are like a Mardi Gras that never ends. If I really worked at it I can pretend to be happy and carefree but feel like s*** we are ruled by the Moon, the Moon has many faces. People expect Cancer people to be the mother and father to everyone, WE DON'T WANT THIS ROLE, it is thrust upon us, people feel us and want us to be their parents, nurse, adviser, or caretaker. We are only responding to what we intuit about people and the situation. Stop acting needy and we will leave you alone. So we do this caring, because Cancers have a problem with feeling guilty and selfish, we will gladly put you first. After caring for people they then complain that Cancers are smothering or clingy towards them, but they're the ones putting out the invisible S.O.S. Once a Cancer connects to someone, they bond with them, some people construe this as clingy, but in the Cancer's viewpoint they want to protect the person from harm. We are the most complex sign in the zodiac. No one can ever "peg" a Cancer, we're too complex. Also the Moon placement can change Cancer energy strongly, that is why Cancers tend to be different across the board. So, yes, I tend to pretend I'm happy, because to be honest most people would be shocked to find how dark and depressing Cancers can feel, they couldn't handle it. Cancer's are a good reader of people, most Cancers will not tell you how they truly feel because they know you won't understand. So we throw on another mask. Cancers can be suicidal, but most people don't know that... 2. I don't know about other Cancers, but I don't like to be the center of attention, I will gladly be self-effacing to others. I don't care for spot-light and being important. But weirdly Cancers do have a tendency to stand out when they're not seeking any attention. I think it's because we emanate a "comfort" energy. Humans are all about comfort and home that is the top priority in all of civilizations, if you think about that, you begin to realize how important Cancer energy is in molding us as individuals for better or worse. Favoritism: Can't be helped, like I said, people latch on to Cancerians, many people think its the other way around. But Cancers can be very accommodating, nice, gentle all this can make others see you as a favorite. Humans respond more positively to gentleness then abrasive/coldness. Is this manipulative, I don't know (it could be, Cancers have a way at making it to the top in the most indirect ways), but its something innate in some Cancers, almost like breathing air. I'm not saying all Cancers are nice etc. it varies, some Cancers can be your worse nightmare... But Cancer's have no problem taking care of themselves and creating a home, it is other people who have a need for Cancer energy especially those who didn't get warmth and caring while growing up. Those tend to be the people who are drawn to Cancers the most. They have a need to go back to this place. Cancers needy -- it depends on Moon placement. I guess Cancer's can be needy, I'm not one of them. I don't like pushing myself on people and demanding that they take care of me. To be honest, I'm surprised Cancers get that characteristic, as we hate people to pity us and think we can't manage our own lives, Cancer's make the best business people and have no problem being managers of things. Cancers know how to handle things revolving around needs. But anyway, it all depends, that's my take on it.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 1705 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 05:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: I have three intercepted Cancer planets. So I may have a different view but here goes:1. Cancer can wear many masks, we are like a Mardi Gras that never ends. If I really worked at it I can pretend to be happy and carefree but feel like s*** we are ruled by the Moon, the Moon has many faces. People expect Cancer people to be the mother and father to everyone, WE DON'T WANT THIS ROLE, it is thrust upon us, people feel us and want us to be their parents, nurse, adviser, or caretaker. We are only responding to what we intuit about people and the situation. Stop acting needy and we will leave you alone. So we do this caring, because Cancers have a problem with feeling guilty and selfish, we will gladly put you first. After caring for people they then complain that Cancers are smothering or clingy towards them, but they're the ones putting out the invisible S.O.S. Once a Cancer connects to someone, they bond with them, some people construe this as clingy, but in the Cancer's viewpoint they want to protect the person from harm. We are the most complex sign in the zodiac. No one can ever "peg" a Cancer, we're too complex. Also the Moon placement can change Cancer energy strongly, that is why Cancers tend to be different across the board. So, yes, I tend to pretend I'm happy, because to be honest most people would be shocked to find how dark and depressing Cancers can feel, they couldn't handle it. Cancer's are a good reader of people, most Cancers will not tell you how they truly feel because they know you won't understand. So we throw on another mask. Cancers can be suicidal, but most people don't know that... 2. I don't know about other Cancers, but I don't like to be the center of attention, I will gladly be self-effacing to others. I don't care for spot-light and being important. But weirdly Cancers do have a tendency to stand out when they're not seeking any attention. I think it's because we emanate a "comfort" energy. Humans are all about comfort and home that is the top priority in all of civilizations, if you think about that, you begin to realize how important Cancer energy is in molding us as individuals for better or worse. Favoritism: Can't be helped, like I said, people latch on to Cancerians, many people think its the other way around. But Cancers can be very accommodating, nice, gentle all this can make others see you as a favorite. Humans respond more positively to gentleness then abrasive/coldness. Is this manipulative, I don't know (it could be, Cancers have a way at making it to the top in the most indirect ways), but its something innate in some Cancers, almost like breathing air. I'm not saying all Cancers are nice etc. it varies, some Cancers can be your worse nightmare... But Cancer's have no problem taking care of themselves and creating a home, it is other people who have a need for Cancer energy especially those who didn't get warmth and caring while growing up. Those tend to be the people who are drawn to Cancers the most. They have a need to go back to this place. Cancers needy -- it depends on Moon placement. I guess Cancer's can be needy, I'm not one of them. I don't like pushing myself on people and demanding that they take care of me. To be honest, I'm surprised Cancers get that characteristic, as we hate people to pity us and think we can't manage our own lives, Cancer's make the best business people and have no problem being managers of things. Cancers know how to handle things revolving around needs. But anyway, it all depends, that's my take on it.
This is SO true!! All of it. And then when my Aquarius energy shine through people get all bent out of shape and project THEIR insecurities on ME. Call me this and that and god knows what else when I have just been me all along :-/ I have always said that Cancers are not clingy! I have NEVER met a clingy Cancer but they are very very complex and hard to pin down.
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Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1731 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 10:25 AM
I love cancers and i have noticed this in cancer suns, cancer moons, and cancer venuses.The moons are definitely lunatic moon children lol. They throw tantrums and get all crazy. A cancer moon friend of mine once threw huge tantrum because she wanted mcdonalds and everyone else wanted burger king. Another one once flipped out on her boyfriend because he didnt spend enough time with her for valentines day. Mind u, he had made her dinner the night before and slept over. Gave her breakfast in bed and stayed with her for hours after and bought her beautiful flowers.
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Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 9955 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 11, 2014 12:41 PM
To an extent yes, its ruler the moon is like that. Leo tends to subconsciously do things for attention which why they are baffled if no one likes them lol but cancer subconsciously tries to hide but wants to be bright and illuminated like the sun. So they may wear bright clothes drive fancy cars.The suns are okay but cancer moon men are my favorite the women can be kinda crazy... lol IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1731 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 02:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: To an extent yes, its ruler the moon is like that. Leo tends to subconsciously do things for attention which why they are baffled if no one likes them lol but cancer subconsciously tries to hide but wants to be bright and illuminated like the sun. So they may wear bright clothes drive fancy cars.The suns are okay but cancer moon men are my favorite the women can be kinda crazy... lol
Alot of women are crazy and hormonal. Even worse when it's the time of the month lol! IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 05:14 AM
Center of attention and happy?If that is your experience of cancers, Amelia, it probably has something to do with the frequent personal Leo placements in some Cancer people's charts (most often Mercury, Venus). Cancer per se is not a sociable sign, it is introvert, emotional and moody and needs quite a lot of outside reassurance (from people or material things and social position) to feel good which for cancers means being safe and protected and taken care of. IP: Logged |
amelia28 Knowflake Posts: 2628 From: Registered: Aug 2011
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posted April 12, 2014 05:46 AM
A lot of cancer placements do result in neediness and needing reassurance but this is not universal and you will have to see the chart as a whole.My new friend at work is awesome she is a cancer but very far from needy but today I finally got her info and saw her chart which explains why she is not needy like other cancer influence people I have met. She has sun in cancer, moon in libra, venus in gemini, mars in aries, jupiter in cancer and saturn in capricorn. She has leo rising at 0 degrees and DC in aqua. Her relationship planets and DC are in air signs! I am at awe with her chart. I love it and feel super comfortable with her and intellectually we really click. She has just the right amount of water, fire and air in her and all 4 cardinal signs in her chart. She also has mars domicile, jupiter exalted, saturn domicile and pluto domicile. Her mars trines my venus and mars. Her venus conjuncts my DC and my Draco venus and mars. Her sun conjuncts my draco sun. Her moon conjuncts my Sun by 4 orbs but out of sign. My moon in the 4th, sun in the 10th and mercury in the 10th like her cancer and cap influence on her chart. Her DC in aqua goes great with my uranus conjunct AC aspect. We both have mars in the 9th! and we both have jupiter in the 12th! and we both have northnode in the 7th. She has tsquares involving cardinal signs and mutable houses and I have tsquares involving mutable signs and cardinal houses. I have never felt more understood. IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 40 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 06:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Comatoes: I have three intercepted Cancer planets. So I may have a different view but here goes:1. Cancer can wear many masks, we are like a Mardi Gras that never ends. If I really worked at it I can pretend to be happy and carefree but feel like s*** we are ruled by the Moon, the Moon has many faces. People expect Cancer people to be the mother and father to everyone, WE DON'T WANT THIS ROLE, it is thrust upon us, people feel us and want us to be their parents, nurse, adviser, or caretaker. We are only responding to what we intuit about people and the situation. Stop acting needy and we will leave you alone. So we do this caring, because Cancers have a problem with feeling guilty and selfish, we will gladly put you first. After caring for people they then complain that Cancers are smothering or clingy towards them, but they're the ones putting out the invisible S.O.S. Once a Cancer connects to someone, they bond with them, some people construe this as clingy, but in the Cancer's viewpoint they want to protect the person from harm. We are the most complex sign in the zodiac. No one can ever "peg" a Cancer, we're too complex. Also the Moon placement can change Cancer energy strongly, that is why Cancers tend to be different across the board. So, yes, I tend to pretend I'm happy, because to be honest most people would be shocked to find how dark and depressing Cancers can feel, they couldn't handle it. Cancer's are a good reader of people, most Cancers will not tell you how they truly feel because they know you won't understand. So we throw on another mask. Cancers can be suicidal, but most people don't know that... 2. I don't know about other Cancers, but I don't like to be the center of attention, I will gladly be self-effacing to others. I don't care for spot-light and being important. But weirdly Cancers do have a tendency to stand out when they're not seeking any attention. I think it's because we emanate a "comfort" energy. Humans are all about comfort and home that is the top priority in all of civilizations, if you think about that, you begin to realize how important Cancer energy is in molding us as individuals for better or worse. Favoritism: Can't be helped, like I said, people latch on to Cancerians, many people think its the other way around. But Cancers can be very accommodating, nice, gentle all this can make others see you as a favorite. Humans respond more positively to gentleness then abrasive/coldness. Is this manipulative, I don't know (it could be, Cancers have a way at making it to the top in the most indirect ways), but its something innate in some Cancers, almost like breathing air. I'm not saying all Cancers are nice etc. it varies, some Cancers can be your worse nightmare... But Cancer's have no problem taking care of themselves and creating a home, it is other people who have a need for Cancer energy especially those who didn't get warmth and caring while growing up. Those tend to be the people who are drawn to Cancers the most. They have a need to go back to this place. Cancers needy -- it depends on Moon placement. I guess Cancer's can be needy, I'm not one of them. I don't like pushing myself on people and demanding that they take care of me. To be honest, I'm surprised Cancers get that characteristic, as we hate people to pity us and think we can't manage our own lives, Cancer's make the best business people and have no problem being managers of things. Cancers know how to handle things revolving around needs. But anyway, it all depends, that's my take on it.
quote: Originally posted by charlie: This is SO true!! All of it. And then when my Aquarius energy shine through people get all bent out of shape and project THEIR insecurities on ME. Call me this and that and god knows what else when I have just been me all along :-/ I have always said that Cancers are not clingy! I have NEVER met a clingy Cancer but they are very very complex and hard to pin down.
I am a cancer sun and I agree with everything. It's like most of people I know don't accept their insecurities - while most cancerians feel their own insecurity strongly - and so they see this part of themlselves in crabs. Personally when I understand this is happening I'm very annoyed, like "why can't you deal with your own fears instead of blaming me of being fragile?" Maybe we just should try to stop analyzing ourselves all the time IP: Logged |
Canadiangirl Knowflake Posts: 664 From: Canada Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 10:00 AM
I have a cancer sun and I can be moody at times. I don't think its really my sun though but more how well I slept or how stressed I am that day. I definitely hide my emotions from my coworkers so I appear happy when things in my life aren't going well. I don't want people to know my business.I absolutely *hate* being the centre of attention around people I don't know well. I cannot stand all eyes on me and prefer people telling me I did a good job quietly. Now, if its around my good friends or family I'm the class clown IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 889 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 12, 2014 01:59 PM
not all cancers are like this...IP: Logged | |