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Topic: Venus opposite pluto transit for 10 years???!!!!! h
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jojo22
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From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 07:25 PM
  
Ok i looked up my transit period and im having a venus opposing my pluto for about atleast 10 years, (im 23), is this bad? i wont find a stable relationship? i hear relations go terrible with venus/pluto. Another question, i did my transit search on astrotheme and it said i have the transit till 2024...then i went on cafeastrology and it said its lasting untill next year, so which site is more accurate??? IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted April 11, 2014 07:28 PM
How wide is the orb you're using? For Pluto I would only use a few degrees max. Also, once it's separating it will be much weaker than it will be while it's applying. So it's unlikely that you'll feel the aspect for an entire decade.IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted April 11, 2014 07:33 PM
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jojo22
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From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 08:01 PM
it says that its currently in Orb 9°08'..this venus pluto transit is really making me extremely depressed and lonely. It started on feb 2013, my long term bf (whom i was crazy in love with) and i had been having the worst fights weve ever had. Then in june 2013 he dumped me and not only that,he was also saying cruel things to me saying he wished he never met me and doesnt want anything to do with me..(he acted like he was extremely in love or atleast attached with me, so it was a HUGE shock that he wanted to end it ) now recently for the past 2 months, two of my best friends (been close with them for years) deserted me. One randomnly didnt want to talk to me anymore without a reason (we never really fight, very odd n confusing) and the other one stopped talking to me cuz her fiance hates me and hes manipulating her into thinking im a terrible friend to her (she has natally venus square pluto).. and i still had one very close friend left and now hes starting to desert me as well. Problems with work, problems financially, meeting new guys (twice in the past 5 months) and neither of them worked out, all last about 3 weeks. i swear i never felt so damn lonely and depressed in my whole life. I feel like i have nothing. And really thought that this might last for a a half year or en entire one year at most, but wow, 10 years? this transit is already making me horribly depressed, everything in my life is going bad. How can i cope? IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted April 11, 2014 08:19 PM
I feel exactly like you but I have the square. I can't wait for it to be over..IP: Logged |
jojo22
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From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 08:27 PM
yup its really killing me. It making me so weak. If this is gunna still happen for the next 10 years then i will have to prepare myself for the long term misery. IP: Logged |
jojo22
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From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 08:54 PM
BTW its actually not 10 years BUT its 16 years!!!! 16!wow, so this transit will end when im almost 40 years old? omg, so basically i got prepare for extremely loneliness and bad luck for the next 16 years of my life. just great. Im completely positive that i have the worst luck, i wouldnt wish this on my worst enemy IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted April 11, 2014 08:56 PM
What is the degree of your Natal Pluto?IP: Logged |
Emily033
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From: marysville, ca
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 09:06 PM
Currently experiencing transit Pluto sextile venus (natal Pluto conj Venus Scorpio) this had manifested so far as my first experience of unrequited love and heartbreak (more like infatuation) with an old, lying double Pisces cop who played me and was in a relationship with someone else the entire time we were together. I'm bitter and going through so many different emotions daily. Anger, rejection, sadness, etc. I have good days and bad days.
The final straw was on valentines day when I moved out because I realized he was spending it with someone else.
Although in my rebound attempts I hooked up with a guy and had amazing sex. I recently found out he's a Scorpio moon experiencing transit Pluto opposite Venus in cancer.IP: Logged |
jojo22
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From: Chicago, IL, USA
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posted April 11, 2014 09:07 PM
my natal pluto is in 4 degrees and my venus is in 9IP: Logged |
GemBird82
Knowflake Posts: 65
From: Female bird from France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 11, 2014 09:26 PM
Every human being has a special karmic debt.
Everyone has one so please, don't whine.
Imagine yourself if you'd have Pluto SQUARING your natal SUN, squaring mars, CHIRON or asteroid SADO for such a very long time.If an Aries/Libra can deal with it, of course you can. Be brave my friends, life is to learn.
Cheers. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 11, 2014 09:34 PM
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Originally posted by jojo22:
it says that its currently in Orb 9°08'..this venus pluto transit is really making me extremely depressed and lonely. It started on feb 2013, my long term bf (whom i was crazy in love with) and i had been having the worst fights weve ever had. Then in june 2013 he dumped me and not only that,he was also saying cruel things to me saying he wished he never met me and doesnt want anything to do with me..(he acted like he was extremely in love or atleast attached with me, so it was a HUGE shock that he wanted to end it ) now recently for the past 2 months, two of my best friends (been close with them for years) deserted me. One randomnly didnt want to talk to me anymore without a reason (we never really fight, very odd n confusing) and the other one stopped talking to me cuz her fiance hates me and hes manipulating her into thinking im a terrible friend to her (she has natally venus square pluto).. and i still had one very close friend left and now hes starting to desert me as well. Problems with work, problems financially, meeting new guys (twice in the past 5 months) and neither of them worked out, all last about 3 weeks. i swear i never felt so damn lonely and depressed in my whole life. I feel like i have nothing. And really thought that this might last for a a half year or en entire one year at most, but wow, 10 years? this transit is already making me horribly depressed, everything in my life is going bad. How can i cope?
Aw, that sounds really tough, it sucks that the transit's affecting you so much already. I have to say I'm surprised but of course these things will vary from person to person. Maybe it will get easier with time, transits are like that sometimes. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted April 11, 2014 10:03 PM
Transiting pluto is square my venus and opposite my mars! Not whining though but I still wish it would be over lol. These transits make me feel overly emotional and obsessive and kinda stalkerish lmao but maybe thats just me...IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 11, 2014 10:24 PM
Wait... hold up. How can Venus oppose Pluto for 10 years? It would make sense if Pluto is the one transiting, but if it's Venus, I'm pretty sure it wouldn't last that long.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 11, 2014 11:18 PM
Oh brother O_OYou do not have this aspect for 10 years.
A few months at most. Please read about orbs. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted April 11, 2014 11:20 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Wait... hold up. How can Venus oppose Pluto for 10 years? It would make sense if Pluto is the one transiting, but if it's Venus, I'm pretty sure it wouldn't last that long.
Nope. It does not make sense either way. Pluto cannot be transiting in aspect to her Venus for longer than a few months.
It will be in the same sign (Capricorn) for over a decade, but not in direct aspect to her Venus. IP: Logged |
seekinglight
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posted April 12, 2014 01:31 AM
I don't think it will take that long unless pluto is making aspect to your progressed planet. Transit pluto has been squaring my prog sun and will last for almost a decade altogether. It takes that much time because the progressed sun moves every year together along with transiting pluto.On another note, I have pluto conjunct venus natally, so I feel for you there. I try to diverge my obsession towards creativity and career, so the eruptions don't take a toll personally all the time. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 12, 2014 02:04 AM
Well, natal Venus aspecting transiting Pluto can make the relationships around you a little more intense than usual.Venus is the "pleasure principle" and so, when it touches Pluto, it can add depth,some extreme behaviour, emotional involvement and obsessions. You must also look at which House Venus is in -as this area of your life will be affected by Pluto. Pleasurable friendships will go that much deeper and the bond becomes stronger. If not close, separation is imminent with very bad feelings remaining for one or both of you(Pluto don't play nice). Pleasurable activities will become an obsession. Drinking, partying, socializing more than usual? Even meeting /being attracted to more "raw" and "brute" characters is likely. Relationships that brought great pleasure may turn into marriage or have a very significant emotional charge. If not, there is likely to be distance and one partner(or both) are likely to feel jaded and do the "blame game". Basically Pluto takes Venus, the pleasure principle, and makes it a sponge that absorbs a lot of its own energy. Things will get painful and real, you may find it harder not to bear a grudge( or have a grudge borne against you. It may prove more challenging to be objective/keep an emotional distance when it comes to the Venus area; sometimes things will seem to be deadly serious in this area of life. Passions and emotional sensitivity is definitely heightened. IP: Logged |
jojo22
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 09:57 AM
thanks for the feedback guys!IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted April 12, 2014 11:36 AM
It doesnt take a few months, but it doesnt take 10 years either, but you will feel this influence for 3-4 years for sure. I have Pluto on the DC transit, it feels very similar and Pluto will stay in my 7th and 8th for nearly 6-7 years.IP: Logged |
jojo22
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: Chicago, IL, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 12, 2014 11:54 AM
yea i was gunna say that if its 10 years or more then something isnt right, doesnt make sense. But yea i hate that its gunna take a while :/ IP: Logged |
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