posted April 12, 2014 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
It depends... Is it a man or a woman who has a Scorpio Venus? Generally though they want a romantic drama in their love life, and someone who will think and be only with them.

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posted April 12, 2014 04:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
If they can find a Pluto conjunct Venus person....that seems to be a good fit.

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posted April 12, 2014 04:44 PM            

I've also been with an aqua sun with cap venus and taurus mars, but we wasn't compatible either though our synastry was really promising and great

posted April 12, 2014 05:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
If they can find a Pluto conjunct Venus person....that seems to be a good fit.

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posted April 12, 2014 06:05 PM            

I'm a Sag sun with Scorpio Venus and the last thing I want is drama in my love life.

The best relationship I had was Leo sun with a Cancer Venus.

posted April 13, 2014 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Freesia:
Best match to male Venus in Scorpio might be a woman with her Sun or Moon in trine/Sextile/conjunction with his Venus

He would adore her.

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Agreed!

Like jjj I definitely still don't know yet.

I'm Scorpio and I've dated two Leos... the loyalty and pride is definitely attractive, and maybe there are some couples who really make this work (non-debilitated Heavy Sun influence for the Scorp, maybe like a Sun-Venus/Sun-Jupiter type ... or an especially plutonian-Sun Leo) but personally I found that the ego-centric and ego preserving nature in Leo got in the way of all the ego transcending and ego surrender I wanted to do
(sun conjunct pluto + pisces moon, so there ya go!)

I really enjoyed my last relationship with a Virgo Venus, but his Venus retrograde was a huge and quite destructive obstacle so I would caution anybody getting involved with men with this placement.

Cancer Venus was too icky for me, Taurus a bit slow and not as roaringly passionate as I like sometimes. Dating an Aquarius Venus was a really terrifying experience :P These two do not mesh...

Aries Venus is adventurous enough for Scorp Venus, but those quick crushes definitely trigger Scorp jealousy so that's tough. Pisces Venus is very very sweet, but will need to deliver the loyalty and fidelity that is so paramount to Scorp Venus.

Capricorn may be best, but my last Cap Venus ex (Rx again!) was way too thinness obsessed for my respect, and I needed someone who could appreciate my Scorpio booty! Cap can also be a bit materialistic depending, whereas Scorpio is a bit of a possessive controlling deep undercurrent of love surrender.

posted April 13, 2014 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
What if they find Venus square Pluto chicka-booh dear Gabby ..can that work as well?

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posted April 13, 2014 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by jjj:
I am one and I would be interested to know that also... still dont know the answer HAHA.
Another Venus in Scorpio didnt work for me... Cancer/Pisces venus men neither... too soft and unmanly... neither Taurus venus... too boring and stubborn... Im very attracted to Aries Venus men. They have the Mars passion and not boring! But there is a lot of antagonism between 2 martian Venuses.

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posted April 14, 2014 04:52 AM            

I probably shouldnt tell it to a libra, but this guy had a libra stellium (SN in libra as well) and Scorpio venus. His libra characteristics didnt fit my Scorpio stellium, maybe this was the reason... another reason is that being so clingy and intense and jealous myself I dont like that in a man . He was very clingy like a woman...

But we remained best friends, my early Scorp Moon is conjunct his late Libra sun.

posted April 14, 2014 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Libra5643:
@jjj oh okay. for some reason i thought both venus in scorpio would work because of the whole jealousy and possessiveness thing so they'd find common ground, but i guess not haha. It's fine saying that to me though because i understand that not everyone likes certain characteristics of certain signs.

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Here's the whole thing with that setup, though. This venus sign wants to possess you--literally know everything about you. They want you, for the most part, to submit to them on every level--so that the relationship shakes your very essence on a soul level and changes who you are. They want to know your deepest secrets, your vulnerabilities, your intricacies. There has to be an alpha and a beta, in a sense, and I'd find that two venus in Scorpios, 90% of the time, would butt heads trying to possesses each other.

My lovely as Scorpio man has even said this to me. "You know you're mine, right? I'll take care of you, though. Forever." I think that's so damn SEXY. He has also said though that he knows in a way I have HIM whipped because I have given myself to him completely and he trusts me all the way, which is impossible for him, so he has a deeper love for me than any before. I love the dedication and abandon on his part, and he knows deep down of my loyalty and appreciation along with my surrender.

I think they need someone spontaneous and fiery, yet stable enough to make them feel secure and loved, all while being challenged so they don't get bored.