posted April 15, 2014 04:13 PM            

TRANSITS....
Moon sextile jupiter
Pluto Conjunction Moon
Pluto Conjunction Uranus
Pluto Conjunction Neptune
Uranus Square Neptune
Uranus square moon
Jupiter Oopposition Neptune
Jupiter opposition Uranus
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant
Jupiter opposition moon
Mars square Neptune
Jupiter Trine Pluto
Saturn Conjunction Pluto
Saturn Sextile Mars
Jupiter Oopposition Medium Coeli

Jupiter Oopposition Saturn
Saturn Conjunction Pluto

Ive noticed that astro.com and grupovenus.com have different transits for the same birthday time and place... i find that odd...which website does everyone use and know to have correct transits?

posted April 15, 2014 05:06 PM            

Saturn in 7th can examine the nature of relationships formed in the past and decide than none are "worthy" to be carried through to later stages of life and just let go.

It could also signify that one may "write off" several friends in favour of one; because this one friend has all the qualities that the others do not have.

I have Saturn currently transiting the 7th house as well as nataly. I always go through a point of "culling" people out of my life and making contact with only those that matter to me.

In another thread, I was speaking of how Saturn- Mars contacts , in my experience, are the longest lasting relationships. Do you two have this aspect?

If you have the more harsh Saturn/Moon aspect; say your Saturn is squaring/conjunct her Moon, she could feel that you don't really "understand" her emotional disposition.

If your Venus conjuncts/squares her Saturn, she may feel that your affections and attentions(even as a friend) are not worthwhile or simply not enough to be relied upon.

posted April 15, 2014 05:34 PM            

we have a saturn mars square in synastry but im not sure if mine squares hers or vice versa, or if that even matters.

No saturn/moon aspects in synastry..

Venus/Saturn Trine we have
and then a venus/saturn Sextile... I dont know how to read the Grid chart to see if hers affects min/or vice versa..

posted April 15, 2014 06:04 PM            

You are feeling the effect of this natal aspect through her "sudden and unexpected" break from you.

Why don't you post both your charts so that I can have a look?

posted April 15, 2014 09:15 PM            

HER NATAL INFO..

posted April 15, 2014 09:47 PM            

Anyone see anything between us thats interesting? maybe with her life that shes going through? we are friends but had an unusual friendship with dark/flirtatious/seductive undertones. Love the girl tho. just love her.

I read this about moon conjunct uranus:

Sometimes the only thing the Moon-Uranus individual knows how to do at a time of crisis and when feeling anxious is to change everything around. This can lead to moving house, ending relationships, friendships, changing employment or established career for something completely new and breaking away from the past by ridding themselves of all burdens and conditioning. The Moon sees Uranus as the creator of disorder, upset, and commotion.

posted April 16, 2014 05:51 AM            

In either case my advice is to forget about the person and move on. If someone is spreading rumors about you that she has chosen to believe without merit then there's nothing you can do about it And if she didn't value your friendship enough to keep in contact with you or speak to you about the issue then that shows you right there how much your friendship is worth to her.

When you forget about her don't be surprised if she tries to suddenly contact you again. She may be getting high off of what she perceives to be your 'neediness'.

posted April 16, 2014 08:16 AM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
In my experience whenever a "friend" has just suddenly avoided contact with me, I would find out later that another person told them some BS about me having spoken badly about them behind their back OR the "friend" her/himself was someone who was just using me while they were in close proximity to me until they moved and therefore didn't need me as a friend anymore.

In either case my advice is to forget about the person and move on. If someone is spreading rumors about you that she has chosen to believe without merit then there's nothing you can do about it And if she didn't value your friendship enough to keep in contact with you or speak to you about the issue then that shows you right there how much your friendship is worth to her.

When you forget about her don't be surprised if she tries to suddenly contact you again. She may be getting high off of what she perceives to be your 'neediness'.

As for synastry... I don't use the system that you use so without birthtimes and info I can't help with that. But IF (Big if as I don't have your birth info) you truly do have a lot of 12th house synastry then you're better off staying away from the relationship anyway. People who fill up your 12th house are much more likely to stab you in the back than other people. The 12th house is the house of secret enemies. These are the people that are almost guaranteed to smile to your face and screw you behind your back.

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yeah i made sure i dont contact her in case i was doing too many reaches...I cut off. But in return so did she. and its been over a month of no convo or slight superficial talk. but i dont know wether to walk away or try. Unless i didnt try "hard enough"? for instance, I didnt say, "im picking you up were going out". I dont know what she wants me to do. I wish i knew if she wanted me to try harder or leave.

as for the 12th house stuff, venus is there and the sun is there, as well as mercury and others. our relationship was hidden...it was deeper than what people saw. we enjoyed the secretiveness to it. In my opinion we also did not know how to show our affections to eachother though. Hidden feelings. But i would assume they were good ones since we were always good to eachother. MAybe this is out of fear because she actually cared about me, which she has admitted MANY TIMES that she doesnt like to care about anything or anyone. Id ask her if theres anything going on but im sure she will just say nothing and never tell me so its pointless to ask. I dont see how she could be an enemy but you never know.

IS 12th house stuff deemed really that bad? I thought it was just a secret longing for eachother we had that we wouldnt admit.

posted April 16, 2014 11:35 AM            

Cant possible signify hidden love feelings tht we are unwilling to bring to the open? Dishonesty about good things/feelings? She brings out my insecurites thought that was a 12th sun aspect. Aaahh my mind needs to stop thinking.