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posted April 16, 2014 12:51 PM            

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What placements or aspects can make someone worried about people judging them?

What sort of worry comes with each placement/aspect?
-ie. feelin being judged on appearance, or the way one parents, or the way one does their job

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posted April 16, 2014 01:44 PM            

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Saturn conjunction, square or opposition to inner planets. I have sun conjunct saturn. It takes a lot of saturn lessons to stop being this way.

The perpetual question is "am I good enough?"

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posted April 16, 2014 02:06 PM            

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Chiron/sun hard aspects - vulnerability towards criticisms

Chiron in 2nd - low self worth

SN Virgo - seeking perfectionism

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posted April 16, 2014 02:12 PM            

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Originally posted by seekinglight:
Chiron/sun hard aspects - vulnerability towards criticisms

Chiron in 2nd - low self worth

SN Virgo - seeking perfectionism

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I have 2 out of 3. This explains a lot!

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posted April 16, 2014 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by sag_stellium:
Saturn conjunction, square or opposition to inner planets. I have sun conjunct saturn. It takes a lot of saturn lessons to stop being this way.

The perpetual question is "am I good enough?"

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I agree with Saturn hard aspects creating insecurity.
My Saturn squares Uranus. The only thing I stress or got insecure about was ppl thinking I was crazy or judging me for my unorthodox beliefs and life path.
Ive always walked my own path but it's taking me along time to realize I'm allowed to be me, without feeling ashamed that im different, I think for myself.
Anymore I don't think to much about what others think because im not living to please them, I'm living for myself...this is MY life!

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posted April 16, 2014 05:40 PM            

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I worry a lot about people judging me although it's gotten better as I get older so hopefully by the time I'm in my 40s I won't care anymore. I have Venus, my chart ruler, squaring my ASC and Saturn. Saturn is also opposite (as well as contraparallel) my ASC so Venus is the elbow of a t-square. I worry about people judging me in general but I'm most concerned about people judging me for doing the wrong thing in social situations and for flaws in my appearance. I really try my best to care though because I realized a while ago that it's a waste of time to care. I should add that I have a strong Saturn since it aspects all of my inner planets as well as my ASC and MC and most of my outer planets although thankfully some of these aspects are minor or in loose orb. Having a strong Saturn creates a ton of general anxiety and I judge myself a lot (and used to even more) so I tend to assume other people are doing so as well. It's not great honestly.

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posted April 16, 2014 05:40 PM            

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posted April 16, 2014 06:13 PM            

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I have this problem, Chiron in 10th opposite Saturn in 4th, Saturn conjunct Venus. I feel depressed with the way public opinion is forced onto people in a personal way, ie, a person with facial deformities will face a lot of critism when minding their own business, when really people don't know anything of that person. Or if a fat person walks down the street, they will be made fun of. I feel similar, except I don't have facial deformities and I'm not fat, it just feels that judgement from the public eye feels like knives going through my stomach, I want to be judged fairly, for who I am, and not for false societal expectations. All I want is acceptance from society, not to be torn apart personally by it.

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posted April 16, 2014 07:03 PM            

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I have this problem. I'm a very outer appearance oriented person, not so much as in "looks" but in how people see and judge the way I carry myself.

My biggest fears are someone thinking I'm ghetto, loud, uneducated, etc. so I've always made sure to "prove" myself if that makes sense. I guess it's more of a racial thing, but regardless I have always hated being associated with negative stereotypes and being judged by those and not by who I am as an individual.

I have:
(2nd house ruler) - Sun Opposite Saturn and Conjunct Chiron
Chiron Conjunct Venus

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posted April 16, 2014 08:19 PM            

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I struggle a bit too with worrying about being judged, or not liked. I have Venus in Virgo (that is probably self-explanatory to most, lol) so I can worry a bit about looking my best, or acting my best amongst others. I often feel like I have to put on a show for everyone, and I usually do, especially when I'm not in a good mood. I'm pretty good at hiding it, though. I also have Sun opp. MC, MC in Pisces, and Moon square MC, so with the slow rate of how my life has gone and being a bit of a late-bloomer social-wise, I struggle with feelings of inadequacy and feeling like I am not good enough for anyone, and I worry that other people don't think I'm capable of anything great because I don't have a job or go to school. I just naturally care about other things more, such as family and spirituality. Those have always been way more important to me than climbing the social latter and trying to fit in with everyone else, because I kind of learned that I couldn't. I try my best to push those thoughts aside though. Saturn is in my 8th house too, so I worry about not being good enough for someone in an intimate relationship, sexually and emotionally, so I withhold myself even though I desperately don't want to. Other possible culprits: Moon and Mars in 12th, Mercury conjunct Chiron, both opp. Saturn.

These always turn into big paragraphs, lol
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Leo sun
Cancer ascendant
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posted April 16, 2014 09:02 PM            

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My saturn squares my sun and i used to be very insecure of myself im pretty much over it now but its hard work, that aspect makes me so hard on myself lol

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posted April 17, 2014 01:47 AM            

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Scorpio Moon for sure....This transit of moon conjunct saturn is hell for me right now.

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Capricorn Rising
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Leo Venus
Libra Mars
Sagittarius Jupiter
Pisces Saturn
Capricorn Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
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