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Topic: What makes someone fall in love easily?
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NeptunianSag
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posted April 17, 2014 01:54 AM
  
I have Pisces ruling my 5th, moon trine Neptune, Pisces Lilith, Venus in 4th, mars opposite Neptune. I can fall in love quickly if there is an attraction, but also it usually ends in disappointment just as quickly. What makes someone love so quickly? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted April 17, 2014 02:01 AM
Pisces ruling 5th does it for me. Also have moon trine Neptune IP: Logged |
manderin
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posted April 17, 2014 02:03 AM
Ketu (South Node) in the first does this. Also SN conjunct venus.
The native has a tendancy to look at their partners with heavy rose colored glasses. As a result they fall easily for this 'dream' they created. The person isn't real. It's an illusion that they project onto the other person. Eventually the tinted glasses fade and the person falls out of love as easily as they fell into it. However it was never real love, because it wasn't the actual person they were in love with. But rather an illusion. This is especially a problem if the native is male. The native wants a perfect Goddess and they believe they may have found her for a moment. But of coarse no human being can live up to that. So naturally disappointment sets in when they realize their partner is imperfect afterall.
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Violets
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posted April 17, 2014 02:04 AM
Pisces in 8th conjunct BML, opposite Moon and square Neptune (5th) does it for me. Also, my Pluto opposite Venus can add to it.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 17, 2014 02:10 AM
Interesting I have Virgo in the 5th house and Im the opposite.IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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posted April 17, 2014 02:17 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Interesting I have Virgo in the 5th house and Im the opposite.
So do you find it difficult to fall in love? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 17, 2014 02:40 AM
Sometimes when listen to artists and wonder if they are always singing about one person or their various lovers because in my mind I always think of one person.I think that mentality explains why I don't fall in love easily.
My affections are fixated on one person and even if were not together I can't feel the same way for others even if they are perfect for me.. IP: Logged |
AnastasiyaEnchanted
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posted April 17, 2014 08:51 AM
I also have Pisces ruling my 5th house. Neptune makes no major aspects to my planets except a square to my ascendant. I fall in love way too fast, on top of that I obsess over my crushes to the point where its not healthy and borderline crazy. My obsession might be because I have pluto conjunct sun and mercury in Sagittarius. Libra is my ascendant so I guess this makes me be in love with love. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 17, 2014 09:27 AM
I have aqua in 5th, empty house....libra AC w/Pluto and Venus conjunct.
I don't find very many ppl I'm attracted to, I meet a ton of ppl everyday in my work but I'm never into them.
Maybe once a year I feel into someone, when I do find someone I want to date ...I start feeling love within a month or 2! To me that's too fast...I try to wait to say anything until 3 or 4 months.
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So far the ones I fall for always have a personal placement touching my saggy Sun/Merc and my cap IC (my Valentine/Eros conjunct IC) and my virgo moon.
I love earth signs, but they get boring after awhile if they don't have any fire....it's a hard balance to find!
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Moon is Lunatic
Knowflake Posts: 470
From: 7th house
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 17, 2014 09:40 AM
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Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:
I fall in love way too fast, on top of that I obsess over my crushes to the point where its not healthy and borderline crazy.
Lol, I'm the same way. But maybe it's the Scorpio Mars in 8th house.. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted April 17, 2014 09:42 AM
I have pisces on the 5th too and venus sq neptune. I fall in love too fast and have a hard time falling out.. Mostly because I don't meet that many people I genuinely likeIP: Logged |
Faith
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posted April 17, 2014 10:59 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have Pisces ruling my 5th, moon trine Neptune, Pisces Lilith, Venus in 4th, mars opposite Neptune. I can fall in love quickly if there is an attraction, but also it usually ends in disappointment just as quickly. What makes someone love so quickly?
I have an 8H Pisces moon, it's the apex of a t-square with opposing Neptune and Mars. Venus conjunct Neptune in the 5H. Cue the music  My saving grace is having a 6H Cap sun, with Saturn trine Venus. I've always been cautious. So, even though I fell in love every other day when I was younger, I rarely acted on it, even if the guy was interested, because I didn't want to be on any kind of roller coaster. Venus sextile Pluto and Mercury IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted April 17, 2014 11:42 AM
South Node contacts to Moon, Venus and Mars can be dodgy(that kind of "i know its no good ,but I can't help it" attraction).Neptune contacts to Moon, Venus, Mars, Jupiter can also bring on infatuation. Venus contacts to Moon, Mars, Jupiter, Uranus for that idealistic perception. Mars contacts to Moon, Jupiter and Pluto. "Fools rush in" kind of attraction. Pluto contacts to Moon, Venus can create a "fixation" with the other person. Moon/Venus in Aries, Moon/Venus in Libra, Moon/Venus in Pisces. Venus, Neptune,Moon and Pluto on the angles I have Moon square Mars, Neptune conjunct Jupiter, Venus/Pluto on the angle. Yeah, i fall in love quite a lot. But I think its more infatuation sometimes.
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manderin
Knowflake Posts: 121
From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 17, 2014 01:41 PM
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Yeah, i fall in love quite a lot. But I think its more infatuation sometimes.
I kinda think that's always the case with people who fall in love easily. I don't know if you've ever read Eckhart Tolle's books, but he mentions how it's impossible to fall out of love with someone you were ever TRULY in love with in the first place. I suspect there may be some truth to that. I'm the opposite and I don't fall in love easily enough. It takes a lot for me to fall in love which I think is as much of a problem as falling in love too easily. I've only been in love once in my whole life and I'm in my 30's. That one guy had his venus smack dab on my decendant. So I believe it when cafe astrology says venus on desc will make the desc person fall in love because so far this has been the only aspect that has made me feel that way for someone. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted April 17, 2014 01:55 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Interesting I have Virgo in the 5th house and Im the opposite.
I have this placement too and I'm the same way, I hardly ever fall in love. I also have Venus squaring my 7th H Saturn though. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted April 17, 2014 01:59 PM
A Capricorn 5th house would cure your overly loving heart  ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 17, 2014 02:03 PM
Hmmm. I'm also a Capricorn 5th girl. So it looks like Capricorns and Virgos 5th tend to have a harder time falling in love.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted April 17, 2014 02:05 PM
I've been infatuated. I dunno if I'll ever get on a higher lever though.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted April 17, 2014 02:29 PM
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Originally posted by manderin:
Hmmm. I'm also a Capricorn 5th girl. So it looks like Capricorns and Virgos 5th tend to have a harder time falling in love.
My ex had Cap on the cusp of the 5th and just like me didn't fall in love easily. So I think that theory has a lot of merit. quote:
Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I've been infatuated. I dunno if I'll ever get on a higher lever though.
What do you have on the cusp of the 5th if you don't mind me asking? IP: Logged |
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