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Topic: What 3 Venus signs are most likely to marry someone they don't love?
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I'm so cappy
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posted April 17, 2014 06:13 PM
  
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LionFish
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posted April 17, 2014 06:55 PM
Pisces because they think they can "fix" the people they love rather than just seeing them for what they are and loving that person. They mean well, though, and they believe that they love the person...or tell themselves they do until they believe it.. I watched my mother do this a few times after my dad passed away..Aries Venus because they fall fast and hard then find out they hate the person later  I've done it myself a time or two. Aries Venus would be the impetuous one to marry a one night stand in Vegas I can't honestly think of another... maybe cap venus , marrying out of duty or for obligational reasons. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
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posted April 17, 2014 07:00 PM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
Pisces because they think they can "fix" the people they love rather than just seeing them for what they are and loving that person. They mean well, though, and they believe that they love the person...or tell themselves they do until they believe it.. I watched my mother do this a few times after my dad passed away..Aries Venus because they fall fast and hard then find out they hate the person later I've done it myself a time or two. Aries Venus would be the impetuous one to marry a one night stand in Vegas I can't honestly think of another... maybe cap venus , marrying out of duty or for obligational reasons.
Being an Aries Venus, I agree. Lol
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tgem
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posted April 17, 2014 07:40 PM
I would agree with Cap placements marrying out of obligation...IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
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posted April 17, 2014 07:46 PM
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Originally posted by tgem:
I would agree with Cap placements marrying out of obligation...
I would have married my ex out of obligation and made myself sad in the long run. I have cap Venus. I noticed that Venus trine Saturn also makes people marry out of obligation or a sense of "right thing to do" or "good enough partner at the appropriate time in life." Maybe it's like having a Venus in Capricorn. IP: Logged |
fairaqua
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posted April 17, 2014 08:12 PM
What about cancer venus marrying for security over love? IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted April 17, 2014 08:34 PM
I know someone with Venus inconjunct Saturn they have been married 3 times, have 4 kids all by different women and only one of his marriages was to a woman he had a child with.
Go figure that one out??
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lotus_flower
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posted April 17, 2014 08:54 PM
I would say Capricorn moon/asc because:1.) Duty/Responsibility
2.) Security
3.) Looking out for family or: Libra (moon, ASC, or venus) 1.) Just wanting to be with someone
2.) Never being alone, or not liking the idea
3.) Because the man/woman "seems like a good person" IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted April 17, 2014 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by sag_stellium:
I would have married my ex out of obligation and made myself sad in the long run. I have cap Venus. I noticed that Venus trine Saturn also makes people marry out of obligation or a sense of "right thing to do" or "good enough partner at the appropriate time in life." Maybe it's like having a Venus in Capricorn.
Yes yes yes. Duty obligation and security. I have Venus conjunct Saturn in cap. I definitely married for security and because it was just like... The next step for the relationship. One month later I realize I made a huge mistake but I stayed. :/ IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted April 17, 2014 10:21 PM
Lol... cookie cutter web definition. Not in my case. Cap venus conj saturn here. Married for love. Without it the union would be a waste of time for me. Like, what's the point? No love I'd rather be on my own. marrying out of duty n obligations - it'd feel like a noose around my neck, a liability. Not s.t I'd want. IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted April 17, 2014 10:31 PM
haha...not pisces venus. im sorry. i dont want to fix people. if venus is exalted in pisces and it has the premise of unconditional love, then fixing wouldnt be part of it...ive never once had the urge to fix anyone...id love them long before i start to "fix" them.
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Chiemi
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posted April 17, 2014 10:55 PM
Not Libra Venus either. I like relationships and the idea of them sure, but I don't NEED one to be happy lol. Been single for 3 years so being "alone" is better to me than just being in a relationship in order to say I have someone. And even if someone seems "good enough" I still wouldn't marry them if I don't genuinely love and care for them. I'd rather stay friends. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted April 17, 2014 11:48 PM
Uh... Cap venus here, but mine conjunct uranus and sextile pluto so no, i doubt if I even see marriage as an obligation Also, I mostly notice Aquas with cap venus to be reserved but are much more likely to marry someone for true love. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted April 18, 2014 01:37 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
Aries Venus because they fall fast and hard then find out they hate the person later I've done it myself a time or two. Aries Venus would be the impetuous one to marry a one night stand in Vegas I can't honestly think of another... maybe cap venus , marrying out of duty or for obligational reasons.
I agree with Aries Venus  my bf has it and for the beginning , everythings spined so fast , before he met me he texted me my name and his Last name together . I remember I was so upset with this . And when we actually met , he asked for marriage in 2 months  and his idea is ....hey beb! We can just doing it in LasVegas also , we don't need to prepare anything. I am a Leo Venus , to doing this with the marriage ceremony is unexceptable. But maybe it was meant to be , we 're still together eversince , for 7 years now. IP: Logged |
Newrise
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posted April 18, 2014 01:55 AM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
haha...not pisces venus. im sorry. i dont want to fix people. if venus is exalted in pisces and it has the premise of unconditional love, then fixing wouldnt be part of it...ive never once had the urge to fix anyone...id love them long before i start to "fix" them.
Agreed. I have no desire to fix someone I love.
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Adimi
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posted April 18, 2014 05:55 AM
I'd say Pisces Venus, yes... Some of these people tend to fall in love with the idea they have of their significant other, and not exactly with who they are... This frequently leads to disappointment, of course. *personal experience  *Scorpio Venus aswell, due to the potential obsessive nature... They may feel they "own" the person etc. and consider that "love". Of course these are just generalizations and I'm refering to extreme expressions of these Venus types. Not saying that all those who have these placements are like this. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted April 18, 2014 06:36 AM
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Originally posted by Adimi:
I'd say Pisces Venus, yes... Some of these people tend to fall in love with the idea they have of their significant other, and not exactly with who they are... This frequently leads to disappointment, of course. *personal experience *
I'm glad you put it this way. I couldn't think of the right way to word it so I put "fix" lol but this is what I was trying to get across, that being in love with the idea of somebody or what they COULD be rather than for who they just are.
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I'm so cappy
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posted April 18, 2014 06:59 AM
Hmm. I know an Aries Venus person who did this.------------------
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Ceridwen
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posted April 18, 2014 07:35 AM
I am a Cappy Venus and I would never marry someone I donīt love. Actually I do not even get into a relationship when I can imagine it is going to end eventually. which means I do not get into relationships. SEriously limits my options I think. lol IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted April 18, 2014 07:42 AM
Ceri, we should hang out  ------------------
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chargeomentum
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posted April 18, 2014 07:45 AM
You guys know too much. How the hell can you tell if a person loves someone or not? There are so many little things that I can't even describe how annoying you sound. You just have to make IN EVERY SINGLE topic atleast 1 sign to feel guilty of something that they are not.IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 18, 2014 07:48 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I am a Cappy Venus and I would never marry someone I donīt love. Actually I do not even get into a relationship when I can imagine it is going to end eventually. which means I do not get into relationships. SEriously limits my options I think. lol
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tgem
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posted April 18, 2014 07:49 AM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
I would say Capricorn moon/asc because:1.) Duty/Responsibility
2.) Security
3.) Looking out for family or: Libra (moon, ASC, or venus) 1.) Just wanting to be with someone
2.) Never being alone, or not liking the idea
3.) Because the man/woman "seems like a good person"
Yes, I definitely was going to say someone with strong Libra! Good one Lotus flower! IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted April 18, 2014 07:56 AM
Ehem. Saturn and Capricorn dominant with a Libra Moon (even in the 2nd house) and Venus conjunct Saturn here. I would never ever...
get married
But if I did want it, I would never ever marry someone I don't love.------------------
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LionFish
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posted April 18, 2014 01:00 PM
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Originally posted by chargeomentum:
You guys know too much. How the hell can you tell if a person loves someone or not? There are so many little things that I can't even describe how annoying you sound. You just have to make IN EVERY SINGLE topic atleast 1 sign to feel guilty of something that they are not.
People ask opinions and other people give them. Instead of being offended just realize that not every cookie cutter description is going to apply to you... no reason to feel guilty for being who you are....
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