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Topic: How well do we match?
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1056
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 18, 2014 09:56 PM
  
Okay, I know a synastry chart would be better at determining compatibility, but I'm too lazy to post one up. So save the lecture and let's get down to business, lol.How well do you think we match based on our sign placements? Him:
Unknown rising
Aries Sun
Cancer Moon
Aries Mercury
Aquarius Venus
Aries Mars
Pisces Jupiter
Aries Saturn
Aquarius Uranus
Aquarius Neptune
Sagittarius Pluto Me:
Gemini rising
Leo Sun
Cancer Moon
Virgo Mercury
Virgo Venus
Libra Mars
Aquarius Jupiter
Aries Saturn
Aquarius Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Sagittarius Pluto IP: Logged |
KingofCups
Knowflake Posts: 286
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posted April 18, 2014 10:22 PM
From just that, it seems like you'd be somewhat compatible. Your Suns, Moons, and Marses are in compatible signs. But your Mercuries and Venuses are Quincunx, which may end up causing a lot of friction between your intellectual and emotional needs. As you said, a Synastry chart would have been MUCH better, because early Leo Sun and late Aries Sun can still be Square. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1056
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 19, 2014 12:29 PM
His Sun is in the second decan of Aries while mine is in the first decan of Leo. I don't think that our suns would be square.And even though I had a chart, I think it would still be innacurate because I don't have his birth time. Thanks for the insight anyway  IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1729
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 19, 2014 12:35 PM
He will hurt you. Don't ask me to explain. It was my instant, gut-feeling looking at placements. IP: Logged |
KingofCups
Knowflake Posts: 286
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posted April 20, 2014 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
His Sun is in the second decan of Aries while mine is in the first decan of Leo. I don't think that our suns would be square.And even though I had a chart, I think it would still be innacurate because I don't have his birth time. Thanks for the insight anyway
It was just an example. The only things that would be inaccurate would be the way that your planets fit into his houses and maybe the Moon by a little bit. The planetary aspects would all be pretty much the same as would the way his planets fall into your houses. Guess his Ascendant, and put it into a chart. You might even look at a chart and say to yourself, "Something about this doesn't look right," and then end up changing it to fit your perception. You're welcome  IP: Logged |
Lotis White
Knowflake Posts: 1484
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 20, 2014 03:18 AM
It all means pretty much nothing without the degrees of the planets. You can copy and paste from the readings section on astro.com if you can't be bothered posting an actual image. Then we can see what's really going on.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1056
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 20, 2014 09:17 AM
Idk, but Leo rising seems fitting. He walks with confidence like a Leo, he had good leadership skills, likes to show off, has Leonine hair, everybody just seems to like him, he has a square build, very masculine, and he's a sweet talker.  IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 202
From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 20, 2014 09:42 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
He will hurt you. Don't ask me to explain. It was my instant, gut-feeling looking at placements.
WOW! That was my instant gut feeling when I started reading this too. Interesting. IP: Logged |
KingofCups
Knowflake Posts: 286
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posted April 20, 2014 02:22 PM
I can see why there is so much attraction here. It seems like you both find each other relatively attractive and that he would want to commit to you even more than you would to him (but that is looking at house overlays, which could change with birth time). There are also a lot of Saturn aspects, which acts as a glue in relationships. That's good to an extent, but not in excess, and this relationship seems to have a lot of hard Saturn aspects. The thing in this chart that stood out right away was your Mars Opposite his Stellium of Sun, Mercury, Mars, and Saturn. This causes a lot of attraction, but also makes for an extremely competitive relationship. You will both want to be the leader; you will both want power; and you will both feel that only one of you can be "in charge" of the relationship. While there will certainly be a lot of passion and drive that can be channeled constructively, it may be hard for the two of you to use it constructively. Instead, you will probably use it against each other, trying to gain the upper hand. You will both feel somewhat restricted by the relationship. You will want a lot more freedom than you feel the relationship offers. At the same time, you won't want to break the relationship. The Saturn aspects make for a double-edged sword. You want to escape, but you can't convince yourself to leave. You might be afraid of expressing yourselves completely, fearing that you do not gain the other's approval. Communication can, in this way, be stifled. Your Sun is Opposite his Uranus, which will cause the relationship as well as your feelings to go up and down rather frequently. This relationship seems like it would be a learning experience. You will grow from it, but it may be painful. Your ideas about relationships will change, your awareness of your own emotional needs will increase, your philosophical views will change, and you as a person will come out of this relationship different. His NN is on your Venus. It is quite possible that he will learn a lot about his own emotions in this relationship. There are a couple good aspects that are notable. Jupiter Trine Moon for example will help you to understand each other and each other's views (which will vary immensely). Saturn Sextile Jupiter will help to keep the relationship going and to alleviate the restricted feeling to an extent. One of the most notable aspects, and quite possibly a major reason for the two of you to break up, is his Sun Square your Moon, showing that his ego may get in the way of your emotional needs and that he may have a hard time understanding your emotional needs. He seems to have a hard time understanding you. It seems as though he has a lot to learn about empathy. His Sun seems to be Square his own Moon with an even tighter orb that it is yours. In this case, it seems like he has a hard time understanding himself and through this relationship and through you will uncover what his true desires are. I can't tell if your Moons are Conjunct. I use a tight orb for Synastry (3 degrees max). If they are, he may have an easier time understanding you because your emotions resonate with his own. It will still be hard, however, because he has trouble understanding his own emotions, so he will have to overcome that before he can truly understand you. This will not be an easy relationship, but it could be one that helps both of you to grow a lot. I hope this helps IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1056
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 20, 2014 02:51 PM
Thank you so much for the insight this helps much. I'm not in a relationship with him right now, but he did say he liked me and I feel the same way. Now I know what to expect.Thanks again IP: Logged | |
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