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Topic: Compelled to run, but want to stay!
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Baaaafish
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Los Angeles, ca, usa
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 04:27 AM
  
Hi Guys,I can't get this guy off of my mind. We have a lot of aspects to the 8th house which I believe to be the cause of this. Luckily it is a two way street, (so far) he feels very strongly about me as well, but I have these unrelenting feelings to be NEEDED by him and to OWN him, which is not me at all. My Moon in Scorpio(my last comment is laughable next to this) is conjunct his Pluto and my own Pluto in his 8th house, that is trine his Moon in Cancer 1 degreee a. Also his, Sun, Merc, Venus and Mars fall in my 8th house in Leo and his moon in my 7th on my DC, it's crazy. It's getting hot really quickly. I have had an overwhelming feeling to run but I'm trying to brave it out. I'm really trying to relax but he is taking over my mind. My vertex is conjunct his DC/Venus/Ceres in Leo. I never knew the 8th house would so intense, I had read about it but, whoa! Any body have any advice, or can tell if it's really mutual or not? I can't tell if it's sex or love and it freaking me out, because I usually so in control, (Cappy Sun). Do you think he cares enough for me to stay? And even if he does the 8th house is supposed to be devastating when you break it off, I kinda want to quit and run while I have a chance! Has anyone experienced this? I need your stories please. I think I like the 5th house better, Lol. IP: Logged |
Baaaafish
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Los Angeles, ca, usa
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 01:44 PM
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VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 5306
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 23, 2014 01:49 PM
How about H8 rulers? Any connection there? IP: Logged |
Baaaafish
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Los Angeles, ca, usa
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 04:39 PM
The ruler of my 8th house is Leo. His is Virgo but it runs through to Scorpio which is where my moon lies. My Sun is trined his Merc by 1 degree approaching, so our 8th's are linked pretty tightly. Since it's a trine does that make this energy easier to handle you think?IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 5306
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 23, 2014 06:47 PM
Ah,that's better. Planet-house overlay (his stellium in your H8) can be hit or miss. (which is not to say that stelliums aren't powerful on their owm, they most certainly are, but often you'll find the house person not impressed by the planet person : that's where the rulers come in, they make the story happen) Yeah, trines are OK.  That Vertex connection is looking strong - in my experience, it showed itself dizzyingly unyielding. In short, it's doozy. IP: Logged | |
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