posted April 23, 2014 07:40 AM            

Your Venus in your partners 12th house would be you projecting your Venus placement on to your partner. So you see what you want to see of the person.

Even if the individual is a psychotic killer(okay..exaggeration), you'd think that they have a sweet and sensitive side just below the surface.(12th)

It could manifest as unrequited love when you are waiting for the individual to start displaying those qualities that you want to see so badly, but never does.

So you wait to to be loved, always thinking it will "come" and it never does.

This could be a relationship that is held in secret(Venus) or as an affair? Where the promise of Venus is always just below the surface,but never comes up.

posted April 23, 2014 09:38 AM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Isn't unrequited love Venus conjunct Saturn? or Moon?

Your Venus in your partners 12th house would be you projecting your Venus placement on to your partner. So you see what you want to see of the person.

Even if the individual is a psychotic killer(okay..exaggeration), you'd think that they have a sweet and sensitive side just below the surface.(12th)

It could manifest as unrequited love when you are waiting for the individual to start displaying those qualities that you want to see so badly, but never does.

So you wait to to be loved, always thinking it will "come" and it never does.

This could be a relationship that is held in secret(Venus) or as an affair? Where the promise of Venus is always just below the surface,but never comes up.

This is the deception with this placement. Sometimes very tragic really.

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Disagree. It's not all bad. There are many threads in Lindaland about this placement, please look for them. Although there is a possibility for something hidden between the two (secret love, secret affair, uncovering of secrets, a very private and intimate relationship etc.) it is also the placement of soulmates, unconditional love, absolute love. It's also a karmic placement.

Here is an excerpt from Astrofix:

Venus Synastry: 12th House Overlay

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Venus energy is loving, artistic, gentle, inspired, creative, beautiful, attractive, flirtatious, jealous, manipulative, charming and refined.

The 12th house is about secrets, fears, the subconscious, criminal activity, spirituality, ghosts, dreams, meditation, retreat, solitude, imprisonment, museums, hospitals, institutions, merging, imagination, the intangible, secrets, and the ways that you sabotage yourself.

Someone’s Venus falls in your 12th house
Swinging into fog

When someone’s Venus falls in your 12th house they arouse your imagination and fascination. They inspire romantic feelings and subconscious longings. They soothe your fears. They charm you. You feel attractive around them. Their presence encourages you to be cooperative and pleasant. They rouse the desire to be beautiful from the inside out. They inspire appreciation of the arts. They have a subtle harmonious effect on you.

This may be a secret relationship. You may be oblivious to the Venus person’s romantic feelings for you and discount their attractive qualities. They may have a secret crush on you. You could find it hard to express the connection in words. You ignore the person’s shortcomings. You don’t see them clearly. You let your guard down and get taken advantage of. You are so consumed with how seductive, attractive, alluring or charming they are that you don’t realize you are being manipulated. You suspect they are trying to buy you.

Venus people who have your best interests at heart will assuage the feelings of sadness, loneliness and fear within you. Venus people who do not have your best interests at heart can use their knowledge of your shortcomings to manipulate you.

Your Venus falls in someone’s 12th house