posted April 24, 2014 11:09 AM            

For example, I have mars conjunct Pluto in Scorpio in 7th. Great. But it only acts out its powerful energy in relationships, business partnerships or with enemies/frenemies. I want to use it in daily life for my personal goals. With an upcoming eclipse in my first opposing these planets, I'm naturally very curious.

I have seen this play out in other people as well. They seek social interaction and serious relationships/romances just so they can act out the 7th house.

posted April 24, 2014 01:04 PM            

BML in 7th house:
Beauty and luxury obsessed with a distinct preference for the Beautiful People. Lilith here is often a genius at diplomacy, leadership and business; all the better to score the fabulous life craved beyond (almost) reason.
Because this Lilith can turn on such an epic surge of charm at will (in the same way that the Marines can mount a battle if necessary), people are routinely stunned at the speed with which they can be dropped.
Good looks are a weapon. Cosmetics are an extension of will.  Don’t  try  to  lie  them  to  about  sex,  beauty  or  artifice.  They  will outwit you every time. These people are often incredible corporate players, the classic iron fist in the velvet glove.
High functioning Lilith in the Seventh House is a genius at the Venusian arts—seduction, fashion and beauty. Think also natural magnetism of the big end  of  town.  It  doesn’t  matter  what  it  takes,  Lilith  here  is  not  remotely  comfortable  with   petty bourgeois judgements and limited horizons.