posted April 24, 2014 11:07 PM            

Are you personally moody?

What's your Moon's aspects/placement if you are moody?

posted April 25, 2014 12:19 AM            

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Originally posted by sag_stellium:
Sounds like a transit to me. What's going on with your transits? Can you describe what is moody by your definition and what triggers it?

I stopped being moody when Uranus went into my 12th house in 2007. I totally chilled out. Very little bothers me. I still get upset but rarely. Sometimes i gotta fake being upset because the situation requires it. My heart doesnt experience appropriate negative reactions (like being offended) and emotional responses because I'm far too relaxed. This will end in 2018.

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I've stopped checking my transits a while ago so I'm not sure whats going on in my chart at the moment. I'll post up my chart tomorrow if you'd like. My definition of moody is average I guess? I'm not what you mean. My kind of moody? Well it's basically on-n-off. I get happy then really upset as as soon as I start overthinking. I get really worked up over overthink thinking and stay arguing with people (usually my boyfriend) and say really horrible stuff, and soon after I'm happy again, apologizing for the whole tantrum.

I've never been this moody before and the only reason I've realized it's gotten so bad is because my boyfriend has brought to my attention that "everything" seems to **** me off. I get mad if he does a specific something, but other times I get mad if he doesn't do it. It all depends on my moods and how I'm feeling. It's driving him crazy not knowing what to do and what's right and what wrong, what I like and what I don't, because he virtually has no idea anymore.

posted April 25, 2014 12:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Cancer, gemini, certain aspects in the natal, and pms can be some causes.

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posted April 25, 2014 03:18 AM            

I once read that Aries and Cancer are actually quite similar:They both tend to "feel" things readily and then react.And both tend to be quite "macho" in their approach to things(the men).And I agree.

Aries is apt to respond to personal nuances and an inner chasm whilst Cancer is responsive to external influence and environmental conditions that are in conflict with them.

Cancers(especially Moon/Mars here) get a bad rep for being Moody. As a guy, I think most Cancer position shows where the guy may feel he needs to "butch it up" ;that is if he hasn't made peace with his strong feminine energy that calls for nurture, passivity and gentleness in response to others.

These are not "bad" things to cultivate, but in a macho world, they can be seen as undesirable traits in a man.

So, when a Cancer is offended;usually because of an unkind word, a rebuff or an insensitive gesture from someone they deemed "close" to them. They tend to feel the reactive feelings quite readily(without the objective distance).

Unlike Aries, Cancer positions do not respond much when insulted by a passing ship; a stranger or someone that they'll never see again.This is because there is no bond that links them.

But Aries responds to all who fire weapons; related to them or unrelated. Strangers and allies alike.This is the other difference.

So if they are continually exposed to the environment where the initial injury was;either from someone they moved in with, their boss, their colleague or spouse etc. they tend to be moody.

This is because the injury still feels so "raw". Its not easy for them to just overlook it until it is properly addressed.

If not, they'll remain moody and sullen; and this is actually a passive aggressive response because they feel it would be too painful for them to open up the lines of communications themselves. So they usually rely on the other person to "sense" and make it right.

I know, I know. Its not rational, but water energy rarely is.

In the place of the moodiness response, you could also include, spite, touchiness, rudeness,snappy remarks,silent treatment and general "detachment".

posted April 25, 2014 11:45 PM            

@sag_stellium: here's my chart for your reference.

posted April 26, 2014 01:20 AM            

Fire is moody they show it with aggression and temper tantrums, swearing, blowing a fuse, knocking things around

Air is moody they show it with smart a** remarks, satire, intellectual know it all, or get snappy, words are harsh and cold

Earth is moody they show it by being demanding, grouchy, possessive, and fanatical

posted April 26, 2014 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Comatoes:
Anyone who is sensitive to the environment, people, and language is going to be moody.

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posted April 28, 2014 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Nicole401:
What aspects or placements would point to a moody person?

Are you personally moody?

What's your Moon's aspects/placement if you are moody?

I'm a Saggi moon, Moon trine Sun and parallel Uranus and I am extremely moody. Like ridiculously moody. One second I'm happy, the next I'm really upset and/or really angry. Then shortly after going on a rampage from being so angry ( sorry I'm an Aries Sun/Mars ), I get incredibly happy again. It's never been that much of a problem until recently.

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I had to look up the word moody.

I prefer to be called saturnine!

posted April 28, 2014 09:14 AM            

I'm Taurus sun/Ascendant
Aries Mercury
Gemini moon
Cancer Mars

Moon in 1st, Mars in 4th, Sun/Mercury in 12th
Moon opposite Pluto (in Scorpio in 7th house)
Moon sextile Mars/Venus (Venus in Aries in 12th house)
Moon trine MC (in Capricorn)
Moon square Saturn (in Aquarius, 11th house)

While I am calm and steady, my emotions can usually be running rampant but you'd never know because I hide it. Unless I'm close with you and trust you.. Then, well, may God be with you. My friends closest to me always joke that I'm bipolar because they never know what they're going to get or what's going to come out of my mouth next. Hell, half the time I don't even know. I just react to things and then let ration come in later.

posted April 29, 2014 01:46 AM            

Cancer moon unite!