posted April 25, 2014 10:56 AM            

However before I had gotten into my relationship with my (now) ex-boyfriend, I had a passionate fling with a friend of mine. By definition it would be friends with benefits (Which I have never done before) I had feelings for him, but he wasn't looking into dating because of his track record of heartache. Time passed and I got with my whom is now my ex, and he dated another. We didn't keep in contact because my ex was jealous of our history of intimacy. Although we wanted to keep contact.

Recently he was hurt again by his most recent ex, and he and I picked up where we left off and have added to it. More passion, affection, and romantic qualities. We almost act like a couple, without the lable. We share food, drinks, cuddle, and have a great time just being around each other.

For some reason this friends with benefits relationship doesn't bother me, when otherwise it would. I usually like a lable and clear definition of what we have.

posted April 25, 2014 11:20 AM            

Forgiveness aspects (like moon - jupiter)
Neptune aspects (the beautiful fantasy or illusion or dream. The willingness to believe the best. Closing your eyes to the truth if the other is willing to say what you need to hear. )
Saturn (Saturn person feels like the other is better or worthier or simply worth the effort, needing to stay in touch).

posted April 25, 2014 11:32 AM            

Sun-Aries
Moon-Capricorn
Mercury-Aries
Venus-Gemini
Mars-Aquarius
Jupiter-Taurus
Saturn-Capricorn
Uranus-Capricorn
Neptuen-Capricorn
Pluto-Scorpio
Ascedent-Cancer

Myself:

posted April 25, 2014 11:57 AM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Check your transits.

Also, I think it's better to post charts

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posted April 25, 2014 12:04 PM            

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Our Composite:

posted April 25, 2014 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Do you hope you'll be more than FWB? Do you want it to be more?

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A little I really enjoy spending time with him. I was at his place the other day-spect the night, spent most of yesterday with him until I had to go to work, and now I will be more then likely seeing him after school.

posted April 25, 2014 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Natally I would say a combination of
Uranus on the Sun/Moon/Asc and venus + mars harmoniously aspecting each other
Sign wise I want to say Leos influence.

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posted April 25, 2014 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
FWB - Any type of mild romantic synastry, really, with a couple of easy aspects between luminaries. Throw in an unaspected Mars, too.

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posted April 25, 2014 12:34 PM            

Beware of FWB relationships, though. And beware of being someone's rebound girl. I was in a relationship like that for so long, but it didn't go anywhere. Don't mean to be negative, just a warning!

posted April 25, 2014 12:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Polyhemnia:
A little I really enjoy spending time with him. I was at his place the other day-spect the night, spent most of yesterday with him until I had to go to work, and now I will be more then likely seeing him after school.

In time when he can truly see that I wont hurt him like his ex's I would really enjoy us being more. Although since we both just had crappy relationships, I think time will be the factor.

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posted April 25, 2014 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
What degree is your Venus Virgo?

Beware of FWB relationships, though. And beware of being someone's rebound girl. I was in a relationship like that for so long, but it didn't go anywhere. Don't mean to be negative, just a warning!

Anyway, try harder to post the charts lol

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I can't see the charts. But I agree with what was said above.

This is how I think it will play out: you'll hope the future will get better. He'll think you've accepted the reality. He'll probably know you hope for more but he'll try to believe you can handle the reality. You're far too into this to be able to recover easily. You know this deep down.

You like the situation because it resembles a relationship. To you, is this really a fwb? Can you have something on the side without feeling like you're cheating? Because with a genuine fwb, you'd be able to.