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Topic: Uncommunicative people
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ariestaurus Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 26, 2014 01:34 PM
Was wondering which aspects point to someone who is uncommunicative (i.e. doesn't like to text, doesn't like small talk, etc.)? I've noticed Cappy people aren't exactly fond of small talk. Any other indicators?IP: Logged |
fairaqua Knowflake Posts: 475 From: Registered: Feb 2011
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posted April 26, 2014 01:49 PM
Im not good with small talk. If it's left up to me the conversation will turn into awkward silence. Now, if there is a subject we can discuss and I know a thing or two I can comfortably engage in im very good with conversation. I have 3rd house mars in cancer (probably the subject communicator)
Mercury and Sun in the 5th house of Capricorn (Probably my reserved side) IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 26, 2014 03:46 PM
Capricorn stellium in 3HI barely acknowledge my cell phone unless I'm using an app. Because I know no ones calling/texting me about anything but day to day things. The moment I open a text and it's small talk I'm hyper annoyed. And oh, don't give me one/two word responses; huge peeve.
I need stimulating conversations; exchanging knowledge or discussing subjects that keeps my mind useful.
Yes this attitude rubs some ppl wrong lol I've lost friendships because of my detached attitude about communication. IP: Logged |
Sibyl Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Uranus Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 26, 2014 03:52 PM
I have six planets in capricorn, but I ace at small talk. I'm a super social butterfly. But it drains me because people get really demanding pretty quickly. I'm really sociable so people want to hang out constantly and I'm secretly a little introverted. I recharge in solitude. I'm also extremely ambitious and have allot of hobbies, so I just don't have the time to pursue friendships with every person I "small talk with". I guess people get the wrong idea sometimes. Because I'm so good at small talk they assume that means I want to be friends. I always have more offers to socialize than I know what to do with so I always feel like I'm stretched thin because I try to accommodate people but in the end I simply can't keep up. My friends are all really frustrated because it takes me hours if not days to reply to their texts. My Aqua sun is probably not helping things either. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8 Knowflake Posts: 202 From: Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 26, 2014 04:00 PM
Sibyl you sound like my long lost twin!IP: Logged |
Sibyl Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Uranus Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 26, 2014 05:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8: Sibyl you sound like my long lost twin!
Really? Haha, where are your planets? x IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 4944 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 27, 2014 12:32 AM
I don’t talk a lot and I hate small talks with a passion. I don’t even like to say “good”morning, hello etcetera. It just feels so shallow to me. I hardly get any texts and calls, lol and I’m glad that I don’t. When I’m forced to talk with someone, I just ask them few personal questions and let them do all the talking. Then they start telling me their life story, and I just listen...change topic if it gets too boring, again listen...REPEAT. - Mercury conjunct Saturn - Mercury retrogade - Mercury square Pluto - Capricorn in 3rd house cusp IP: Logged |
Nicole401 Knowflake Posts: 392 From: CA, USA Registered: Jun 2011
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posted April 27, 2014 01:01 AM
One of my friends is EXACTLY like that - she says texting bores and irritates her. Gemini ASC me doesn't understand She has a cappy stellium (I'll update where later) - and a Scorpio moon conj Scorpio ASC. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1324 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 27, 2014 03:18 AM
I just really suck at small talking, it's like every time I try to mingle with strangers the conversation runs dead after a couple of minutes… I think I'm good enough to ask questions, but it's apparently boring questions that doesn't turn the other one on, so they quickly search for someone who is more "interesting" to mingle with…lol I think if I was better at small talking I would be able to spot quickly what kind of subjects people are interested in and talk about that, but I just don't got that talent at all Retrograde Libra mercury in 4th house Square neptune, saturn and jupiter --- I think it explains lol IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1004 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted April 27, 2014 03:50 AM
I have Mercury in Capricorn and I don't appreciate small talk. But sometimes small talk can be qnice I don't expect someone to just drop a bomb from the get go.Even though I like to do that But short conversations like this tickle me pink;
A: Hi B: Hey you A: How are you doing? B: I was shot during a mugging. A: Oh my goodness!! Are you alright? B: I will be when they remove the bullet. A: Why haven't they removed it yet? B: App,right now,its not worth..a shot.Lol A Lol.Well,what doesn't kill ya.. I am A in this scenario(Mercury in Capricorn) and the B person is a friend of mine(with Mercury in Pisces).
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 4944 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 27, 2014 04:26 AM
^ lolIP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 1744 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 27, 2014 05:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8: Capricorn stellium in 3HI barely acknowledge my cell phone unless I'm using an app. Because I know no ones calling/texting me about anything but day to day things. The moment I open a text and it's small talk I'm hyper annoyed. And oh, don't give me one/two word responses; huge peeve.
I need stimulating conversations; exchanging knowledge or discussing subjects that keeps my mind useful.
Yes this attitude rubs some ppl wrong lol I've lost friendships because of my detached attitude about communication.
2nd all of it!. Surface dwellers rub me so wrong i get annoyed thinking about it :-/ I have a Cap Moon and Virgo Asc. I have been known to just walk away or become totally silent if conversation bores me. One friend has taken to sendig me YT videos of boring sh1t and it's crossed my mind to just end it. IP: Logged |