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Topic: OMG this Cancer girl has no shame
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:24 PM
There is this Cancer girl (22 y.o.), who just wouldn't leave my bf alone. I have noticed before, that she fancies him, but I've never told him, as I don't like drama + she's quite minging (short, overweight, and (hmmm, I'll be nice) unattractive), and I don't consider her as my competition ever. She always gives him extra-long hugs, very needy, always txts him (even at 1am), basically I think, it's a bit over the top. He's Libra (Sun, Mercury, Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto, MC; all conjunct), so you know, very diplomatic, doesn't want to be rude... bla bla bla. We went out last Sat, everybody got drunk. I was sober-ish, cause I wasn't drinking much due to being ill, but he relaxed first time in a year. I don't mind, and I don't like to control (OMG, Leo cliche is broken LOL). Anyway, this girl, who lives quite far away, stayed in our place, aaand when my bf went to say good night... she tried to KISS him!! WTF like. No shame at all. You stay in MY house and allow yourself to disrespect me in such a way. What a ***** . All the time she pretended to be my friend. Wat a fake sneaky bi*** I could see right through her all the time, but my Libra bf is a usual "fairy Libra... everybody is my friend... nobody means harm" He moved away from her, so there was no kiss (even though, he was wasted), so no complaint about him. You know what, I still can't believe my Leo Mars square Pluto didn't punch her and kick her out from out house in the middle of the night. I guess, cat's are the most gracious animals after all (sometimes I wish I was an Aries, so I had bigger balls). The one thing, that ****** me off, is that I think Libras can't see when it's time to back off. Like, I'm naturally veeery charming, but whenever I see people have interest in me (that I don't desire), I back off, if necessary. He's so nice to everyone, that it's not the first time he has girls (especially, those who are under 15) fall for him. Hahahaaa Anyway, this Cancer girl has Gem Moon/Mars, Taurus Venus and... tam tam taaam... Scorpio Asc conj Pluto conj Lilith, under 1 degree! Arrggg, sorry for venting! Wtf with Cancer women being so freaking clingy and not seeing boundaries? (NOT the 1st time Cancer women fall for him lol) Sorry again, overall Cancers are nice, I dated tons, and they want to date tme all the time, too (I'm a 4th Houser, no Cancer placements) IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 28, 2014 03:29 PM
I stopped reading at "I don't see her as competition."------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10318 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 03:37 PM
^lol right? The fact that you made a thread about her kinda tells me you do find her a threat... and that she is winning because you are bothered by her. I mean I don't what advice anyone can give you besides reminding you that if you date attractive people there will be some insignificant parasites.
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:37 PM
Haha, well yeah, I just think it's inappropriate to act like think, and extremely disrespectful.Perhaps, I vented too much, and I didn't 100% state my question... Actually, there is no question, just a complaint lol. Could it be a Cancer Sun + Scorpio Asc/Pluto/Lilith combo? And, it's not the first time I'm complaining about Libra "niceness", I definitely have a love/hate relationship with it, haha. Btw, LP your style of replying is a very Kerosene-like, haha. IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:37 PM
Hmm, if you don't see her as competition then there really isn't an issue, I mean all you can do is tell her to back off and ask your man to grow a backbone and tell her to back off as well. I do see a pattern in SOME of the cancer women I know that need constant male attention or in order to feel whole have to be desired by some male. But it's like you said you're just venting and it's good to get that stuff out, it's better than wanting to hurt her which I'm sure has probably crossed your mind lol IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1342 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by LoadedPistil: I stopped reading at "I don't see her as competition."
Hmm I know what you are going through… some guys apparently just attract girls, and being with one of these chick-magnets really made me realize how many douchbag girls is out there…. they are even worse than guys sometimes!
Virgo girl with a libra boyfriend as well IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^omg Kerosene lol Just as I was writing about you, ahaha IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:38 PM
^^^^^^^^^^omg Kerosene lol Just as I was writing about you, ahaha IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 1750 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 03:42 PM
Ummm it appears you are taking this a tad too personal and what is the astrological question? Are Cancer women clingy or Libra men too nice? Or are Leo controlling? My answer is: No Yes Yes IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10318 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 03:43 PM
You could jump that hoe. honestly trying to kiss other girls boyfriends.. You're asking for it.. IP: Logged |
LoadedPistil Knowflake Posts: 1154 From: NJ, USA Registered: Feb 2014
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posted April 28, 2014 03:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: ^lol right? The fact that you made a thread about her kinda tells me you do find her a threat... and that she is winning because you are bothered by her. I mean I don't what advice anyone can give you besides reminding you that if you date attractive people there will be some insignificant parasites.
Kerosene is my LL boo thang. I tell my lovers all the time. I see the hoes. Just make sure them hoes see me. ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House) Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House) Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1012 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted April 28, 2014 03:44 PM
To be honest, I think there is a part of your boyfriend that actually enjoys the attention. So I wouldn't go off on the "many" women who fall for him, coz they all have one thing in common; HIM.And another thing, Moon/Mars in Gemini from this girl? Really? The people I know with these placements are the biggest flirts and love to tease.lol I think she may be drawn to his "gentleman" qualities and , in an effort to "deflower" him, chose to kiss him randomly. I doubt she thought long and hard about it and leaped on an opportunity. Should you be bugged about it? No. You really can't control people's actions and if it wasn't this girl, it probably would have been another? After all, you did say that your boy is charming. Do you trust him? I think that is the most important thing.Girls can flirt until the cows come home, but if he knows where his bread is being baked, why should you care? But I do understand the Leo fixed sign Mars possessiveness and "owning" your turf. I mean a Leo must never be disrespected by other jungle wannabe princesses right? But have you ever heard of the Queen exchanging fists with a hooker over what her Prince is doing with her? Revenge is best served by showing people you are above all that. Not because its an act. But because you simply are. IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10318 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 03:44 PM
^^ LOLOLOLOLOLOLIP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: Ummm it appears you are taking this a tad too personal and what is the astrological question? Are Cancer women clingy or Libra men too nice? Or are Leo controlling? My answer is: No Yes Yes
More like, YES, Yes, Yes Very well known (and discussed here often) facts lol
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by babybull82: But it's like you said you're just venting and it's good to get that stuff out, it's better than wanting to hurt her which I'm sure has probably crossed your mind lol
Venting, exactly! Thank you Baby for your support! IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by next to neptune: Hmm I know what you are going through… some guys apparently just attract girls, and being with one of these chick-magnets really made me realize how many douchbag girls is out there…. they are even worse than guys sometimes!Virgo girl with a libra boyfriend as well
Thanks for understanding, NTN, these Libra boys are such charming nightmares, haha. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 03:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: You could jump that hoe. honestly trying to kiss other girls boyfriends.. You're asking for it..
You know what, I have to admit, I have a slight forum crush on you because you speak your mind (and you are naughty), even though I don't always agree with you. I mean, WTF woman!?! I don't consider her as a competition. I'm more confused and hurt, and disapointed. She always "pretended" to be my friend, bombarding my FB with all this "quotes", and stuff. Always wanting to meet me. But I could always see through her, and was just waiting for her to make this step. She did! I am venting! I'm disappointed. I wish she didn't do it. She's a lovely girl, but... don't fcking disrespect and cross me like that. What the Hell? On the other hand, my bf rejected, even though he was wasted and, they thought I couldn't see ^^ <3 IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4410 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 28, 2014 04:08 PM
I'm a triple water w/ heavy pluto, I can't say I wouldn't feel irritated like you do, but the only person who can betray you is your man. Do you think he'll be disloyal? Because no matter how many women flirt with him, if he cheats, he's the problem in your relationship not the women. Btw, how do you know the cancer girl's moon and ASC? I'm not saying ignore it, in fact, be blunt and tell'em how you feel but you after that you can only have so much control over an adult. IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 04:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by AscTaurus: To be honest, I think there is a part of your boyfriend that actually enjoys the attention.And another thing, Moon/Mars in Gemini from this girl? Really? The people I know with these placements are the biggest flirts and love to tease.lol I think she may be drawn to his "gentleman" qualities and , in an effort to "deflower" him, chose to kiss him randomly. I doubt she thought long and hard about it and leaped on an opportunity. Should you be bugged about it? No. You really can't control people's actions and if it wasn't this girl, it probably would have been another? After all, you did say that your boy is charming. Do you trust him? I think that is the most important thing.Girls can flirt until the cows come home, but if he knows where his bread is being baked, why should you care? But I do understand the Leo fixed sign Mars possessiveness and "owning" your turf. I mean a Leo must never be disrespected by other jungle wannabe princesses right? But have you ever heard of the Queen exchanging fists with a hooker over what her Prince is doing with her? Revenge is best served by showing people you are above all that. Not because its an act. But because you simply are.
Thank you, dear, for your reply. Yes, I bet he loves attention, too. He's Leo Mars (like me; it conjuncts my Sun and Venus) plus Libras are very vain. Yes, I can't control anything or anyone. And I never want to control people around me. I'm very Uranus influenced, and I respect other people freedom of thoughts and actions. One thing, I hate when people take "**** out of me". C'mon, just because I don't get frantic everytime you cling on him, doesn't mean you can go and disrespect me like this. Yes, I'm a Leo, and yes a "Leo must never be disrespected by other jungle wannabe princesses", in her own jungle, haha I think, I dealt well with it well. I didn't make a scene. I gave her a hug next morning, like nothing happened, wished her to have a safe trip, and "see you soon!". This was the last time she stayed in my house. --- Thanks everyone for replies. I feel better.
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vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 1977 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 04:24 PM
even if she's an ugly btch I would still slap her because boundaries that's why.
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Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 04:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Moonfish: I'm a triple water w/ heavy pluto, I can't say I wouldn't feel irritated like you do, but the only person who can betray you is your man. Do you think he'll be disloyal? Because no matter how many women flirt with him, if he cheats, he's the problem in your relationship not the women. Btw, how do you know the cancer girl's moon and ASC?
hey, sorry, just saw your msg between my replies. As I said, she is (WAS) my friend. Came to my house many times, she stayed with us 2 times before, once with her ex (we live in a city, she lives in outskirts). I trust my man, and seriously, she's not a threat. I'm more annoyed with her betrayal against me. I liked her, I trusted her, opened my house for her , and thought her clinginess to my bf was just a cliche trait for her Sun sign "neediness". I did her Natal reading. Gonna post it here. EDIT: her Asc/Pluto/Lilith conjunction is not under 1 degree, but waay wider IP: Logged |
Liliya Knowflake Posts: 684 From: Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 04:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by vickymadness: even if she's an ugly btch I would still slap her because boundaries that's why.
Vicky, do you have any Aries placements? (I adore Aries women!!!) IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 10318 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 28, 2014 04:42 PM
Yeah that sucks that she was your 'friend'.. :/Like isn't there a thing in girl world where you send out amber alerts to other girls. *insert picture.* HOE AT LARGE (no pun intended) BEWARE. But are you sure she was not drunk either? Maybe she was so drunk and found her man attractive and just went for it... I mean ish happens..
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 1342 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 28, 2014 04:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene:
But are you sure she was not drunk either? Maybe she was so drunk and found her man attractive and just went for it... I mean ish happens..
That sounds even worse! A drunk girl is an honest girl…probably also a horny girl though IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 4410 From: Tropical Ocean Registered: Jul 2011
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posted April 28, 2014 04:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Liliya: hey, sorry, just saw your msg between my replies.As I said, she is (WAS) my friend. Came to my house many times, she stayed with us 2 times before, once with her ex (we live in a city, she lives in outskirts). I trust my man, and seriously, she's not a threat. I'm more annoyed with her betrayal against me. I liked her, I trusted her, opened my house for her , and thought her clinginess to my bf was just a cliche trait for her Sun sign "neediness". I did her Natal reading. Gonna post it here. EDIT: her Asc/Pluto/Lilith conjunction is not under 1 degree, but waay wider
No worries & ok got'cha. I mean don't get me wrong, if I were you I'd be blunt and tell'em how I feel, but after that you only have so much control over adult's actions. The possessive girl in me agrees that she needs a reality check, but home-wreckers are never worth going to jail for.
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