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Topic: What aspects in synastry create sexual fantasies but no action?
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Yanmorg
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posted April 29, 2014 01:18 PM
  
I have an insane connection with a childhood friend and we're really getting closer emotionally. Sometimes it feels like we're just friends, but most of the time it's a romantic, fuzzy feeling which probably has to do with our moons being conjunct. We're both Scorpios with both Venus in Scorpio trine Saturn except his Saturn and Venus are both retrograde Natally. I'm very attracted to him but I can't bring myself to make a Kobe and I think he's the same way. I'm very expressive but sexually, i can't bring myself to act. Is this due to the mars retrograde period of an aspect? What do you guys think?IP: Logged |
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 29, 2014 01:26 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I have an insane connection with a childhood friend and we're really getting closer emotionally. Sometimes it feels like we're just friends, but most of the time it's a romantic, fuzzy feeling which probably has to do with our moons being conjunct. We're both Scorpios with both Venus in Scorpio trine Saturn except his Saturn and Venus are both retrograde Natally. I'm very attracted to him but I can't bring myself to make a Kobe and I think he's the same way. I'm very expressive but sexually, i can't bring myself to act. Is this due to the mars retrograde period of an aspect? What do you guys think?
well whats your mars and neptune aspects? Does any of them connect with 12th house something? Im not an expert, but I think weak mars indicates no action and a strong neptune indicates many fantasies… 12th house is about whats hidden, but since you two got scorpio moons and venus, that could also be it… scorpio venus people are very good at being in control, they can watch forever but never touch:P IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted April 29, 2014 01:40 PM
We just have mars conjunct pluto as of right now because I'm waiting on his birth time so cafe astrology is my only tool. I'm guessing it's all of our Saturn aspects. We have venus trine Saturn both Natally as well as in our dhnastry chart. We also have mercury trine Saturn double whammy in our synastry chart. His Sun trines his Saturn and my Sun squares my Saturn. I also have mars square Saturn Natally as well. Is time our only culprit? Will we loosen up as time passes? I know Saturn slows things down and since we have a lot of Saturn between us I can sed how this would stop the process, but I have a very strong and active mars with it touching every one of my planets including my ascendant in my chart so I'm used to just getting right to it sexually. This is a new but good feeling, but I wax wondering what was creating my hesitancy, I'm dexually and romantically attracted to him, but I just can't bring myself to act. It could also be this Mars retrograde period too. Sorry for the typos btw! I'm on my smartphone!IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1352
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 29, 2014 02:12 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
We just have mars conjunct pluto as of right now because I'm waiting on his birth time so cafe astrology is my only tool. I'm guessing it's all of our Saturn aspects. We have venus trine Saturn both Natally as well as in our dhnastry chart. We also have mercury trine Saturn double whammy in our synastry chart. His Sun trines his Saturn and my Sun squares my Saturn. I also have mars square Saturn Natally as well. Is time our only culprit? Will we loosen up as time passes? I know Saturn slows things down and since we have a lot of Saturn between us I can sed how this would stop the process, but I have a very strong and active mars with it touching every one of my planets including my ascendant in my chart so I'm used to just getting right to it sexually. This is a new but good feeling, but I wax wondering what was creating my hesitancy, I'm dexually and romantically attracted to him, but I just can't bring myself to act. It could also be this Mars retrograde period too. Sorry for the typos btw! I'm on my smartphone!
yeah I know how saturn can work in the relationship…or wait, I don't really know cause it's so slow. I've only been with my boyfriend for almost a year, but we also have a lot of saturn. I can feel the hesitancy a lot too, so yeah saturn could as well be responsible for the "no action".
I'm not so sure about if it gets better with time though… that's an interesting question.
My boyfriend and me was a lot more hesitant in the beginning, like for an example I didn't even dare to give him a hug when we were meeting up lol… saturn can really make you unsure about what to do or not!
But I guess only time will tell, it's just that if you two have been thinking about each other for such a long time and keeps getting closer and closer, would you ever dare to do something about it? Saturn can make you wait forever I think?:S IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted April 29, 2014 03:36 PM
Haha, you explained my situation perfectly. Those are my exact thoughts when I'm with him. Sometimes I just want to jump and hug him or kiss him, but I end up thinking about it for too long and the moment passes.IP: Logged |
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posted April 29, 2014 04:53 PM
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Haha, you explained my situation perfectly. Those are my exact thoughts when I'm with him. Sometimes I just want to jump and hug him or kiss him, but I end up thinking about it for too long and the moment passes.
Do you got some of the more warm aspects in your synastry like moon/venus, venus/mars, sun/venus or jupiter/venus? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
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posted April 29, 2014 05:53 PM
I don't have his birth time yet so cafe astrology is my only source as of right now. We have Sun conjunct Jupiter.. but we also have Saturn square Jupiter too. The only other possible soft aspect I see is Sun sextile Neptune. I'm sure we have way more aspects, but I can only give you the ones generated from cafe astrology without my guy's birth time. It's not a hard or cold distance between us and that warm fuzziness is definitely there, but we never act on it.IP: Logged |
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