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Topic: Synastry Venus/Mars or Venus/Venus
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CatWishes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: On The Moon Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 29, 2014 09:34 PM
Hello ! Which synastry aspect do you prefer to have a and why?Venus Conjunction Mars or Venus Sextile Venus Thanks ! 
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sag_stellium Knowflake Posts: 410 From: 8th house Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 29, 2014 09:44 PM
Hmm. I've had both aspects. But venus/mars hands down. Because a synastry aspect to either my mars (conjunct pluto) or venus (conjunct MC) would be very prominent and promising in my chart. Venus sextile venus was very nice because we both liked the same things and had the same values. Welcome to LL  IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1849 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 29, 2014 10:48 PM
It depends on what I wanted out of the relationship. Pure unadulterated sexual attraction...Venus conjunct mars especially a guys Mars conjunct my Aries venus. Yum. I've only had this once and I was in a relationship at the time, it took everything in me and all my will power to not rip his clothes off every time I laid eyes on him lolAs for the Venus sextile, its nice. Its not urgent or enticing, its more like an "I understand you and I like you" aspect. Similar tastes and interests.. good for a long lasting romantic or friendly relationship. IP: Logged |
CatWishes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: On The Moon Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 02:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by sag_stellium: Hmm. I've had both aspects. But venus/mars hands down. Because a synastry aspect to either my mars (conjunct pluto) or venus (conjunct MC) would be very prominent and promising in my chart. Venus sextile venus was very nice because we both liked the same things and had the same values. Welcome to LL 
Hi! I'm afraid Venus sextile venus aspect in synastry lacks the "spice"(if you get my flow XD) and Venus/Mars (thumbs up) IP: Logged |
CatWishes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: On The Moon Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 02:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: It depends on what I wanted out of the relationship. Pure unadulterated sexual attraction...Venus conjunct mars especially a guys Mars conjunct my Aries venus. Yum. I've only had this once and I was in a relationship at the time, it took everything in me and all my will power to not rip his clothes off every time I laid eyes on him lolAs for the Venus sextile, its nice. Its not urgent or enticing, its more like an "I understand you and I like you" aspect. Similar tastes and interests.. good for a long lasting romantic or friendly relationship.
Hi! Venus conjunct Mars does seems like a more forward approach In my case, my venus in gemini conjunct his mars in gemini.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 4554 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 02:46 AM
My dad has a Cancer Mars (I have a venus among other cancer placments) and I have dated many Cancer Mars'. It's pure sexual attraction (not my dad!!) and then I just want to kill them, literally. I don't think I have been with a Virgo venus but I doubt I woud like one...and another Cancer Venus.......mmmmmnyetnonever.IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1849 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 05:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by CatWishes: Hi! Venus conjunct Mars does seems like a more forward approach In my case, my venus in gemini conjunct his mars in gemini.
Well, do keep in mind that while it's definitely a spicy aspect, that it can also be fleeting. The guy who had his Mars conjunct my venus was enticing, yes, but I was loyal to my boyfriend, who is now my fiancé, and we have Venus sextile Venus in our synastry.. Don't shy away from the Venus/Venus sextile, it really is a lovely thing to share with someone. Welcome to LL  IP: Logged |
CatWishes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: On The Moon Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 06:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by LionFish: Well, do keep in mind that while it's definitely a spicy aspect, that it can also be fleeting. The guy who had his Mars conjunct my venus was enticing, yes, but I was loyal to my boyfriend, who is now my fiancé, and we have Venus sextile Venus in our synastry.. Don't shy away from the Venus/Venus sextile, it really is a lovely thing to share with someone.Welcome to LL 
Awww how lovely, thank you for sharing your experience. Venus sextile Venus seems lovely for a marriage  IP: Logged |
depth Knowflake Posts: 606 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted April 30, 2014 07:15 AM
I like Venus/Venus sextile and trine. It helps develop friendship between two people. You have similar likes and dislikes and are more compatible. I have 2 guy friends with their Leo Venus trine my Venus and it's fun hanging out with him. We enjoy doing the same things. My ex's Libra Venus sext. my Venus and the relationship was fun. I somewhere wish I had that aspect with my partner.I haven't experienced Venus/Mars conjunction/trine/sextile yet. The opposition was bad. The guy whose Mars opp. my Venus wanted sex but I wasn't interested so he tried using force IP: Logged |
CatWishes Knowflake Posts: 32 From: On The Moon Registered: Dec 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 08:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by depth: I like Venus/Venus sextile and trine. It helps develop friendship between two people. You have similar likes and dislikes and are more compatible. I have 2 guy friends with their Leo Venus trine my Venus and it's fun hanging out with him. We enjoy doing the same things. My ex's Libra Venus sext. my Venus and the relationship was fun. I somewhere wish I had that aspect with my partner.I haven't experienced Venus/Mars conjunction/trine/sextile yet. The opposition was bad. The guy whose Mars opp. my Venus wanted sex but I wasn't interested so he tried using force
Venus/Venus does seem like a promising relationship opposed to venus/mars aspects. Thanks for sharing your experience! It did open my eyes. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 unregistered
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posted April 30, 2014 08:09 AM
quote: Originally posted by depth: I like Venus/Venus sextile and trine. It helps develop friendship between two people. You have similar likes and dislikes and are more compatible. I have 2 guy friends with their Leo Venus trine my Venus and it's fun hanging out with him. We enjoy doing the same things. My ex's Libra Venus sext. my Venus and the relationship was fun. I somewhere wish I had that aspect with my partner.I haven't experienced Venus/Mars conjunction/trine/sextile yet. The opposition was bad. The guy whose Mars opp. my Venus wanted sex but I wasn't interested so he tried using force
hey, depth, Venus opp Mars can be an awesome aspect of beautiful attraction, especially if man's Mars on woman's Venus. If that man tried to force himself on you it's not because of this aspect but because he had problems himself. man's Mars connecting with a woman's Venus in a synastry is like an archetype fulfilled, attraction at its best. IP: Logged |
neptunicity Knowflake Posts: 1229 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 30, 2014 11:35 AM
How about venus conjunct venus? What can you guys say about that aspect? Is the trine or sextile better than the conjunct?IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 364 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 30, 2014 04:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by neptunicity: How about venus conjunct venus? What can you guys say about that aspect? Is the trine or sextile better than the conjunct?
I've met people who I have the Venus conjunction with, to me, this just basically means that you two are able to relate to each other better. You have similar tastes in regards to beauty, music etc. But I can't say it's actually better, they are somewhat the same. Venus conj Venus is also good for a relationship as it brings mutual understanding to two people, it's more of a ''Lets go outside and play tennis together'' aspect. ------------------ capricorn asc ♑ - neptune rising ♆ libra sun ♎ libra moon ♎ Triple Libran, 9th house Stellium in Libra :D ''Only through the darkness can you see the stars'' - Martin Luther King, Jr. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3372 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted April 30, 2014 05:15 PM
With Venus/Mars, Mars will get rough with Venus - he is too volatile to be left alone and that close to Venus. Mars, after all, is a bad a@@.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 6614 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 30, 2014 05:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: With Venus/Mars, Mars will get rough with Venus - he is too volatile to be left alone and that close to Venus. Mars, after all, is a bad a@@.
*imagines bada$$ Cancer Mars*  IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 617 From: ~*Cosmic Wanderer *~ Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 01, 2014 04:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by CatWishes: Hello ! Which synastry aspect do you prefer to have a and why?Venus Conjunction Mars or Venus Sextile Venus Thanks ! 
Of course venus conj. mars is def. HOT !! Although I'm female 'mars and he's venus , that's still on fire...  IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 1436 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 01, 2014 04:46 AM
What about leo mars(guy's) square my aries venus?IP: Logged |
geminigal2805 Knowflake Posts: 1436 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 01, 2014 05:50 AM
What about leo mars(guy's) square my aries venus?IP: Logged |
AscTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1201 From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa Registered: May 2009
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posted May 01, 2014 06:06 AM
Venus conjunct Mars in Scorpio(I was the Venus person).Since I have 7th house cusp Scorpio, the connection I expected to have was deep. But what ended up occurring was just sex.  I was the one that was being seduced. Mars was the confident one.Taking all the chances and making their intentions clear. There is this dude who has Venus in Libra conjunct my Mars in Libra and every-time we meet,I just want to nail him. In this respect, I can feel that I am the one who is "driving the car"-so to speak. I charm the pants off him and its obvious that surrender is imminent  I enjoy playing both roles. But being Mars is sooo much fun. I've also had Venus conjunct Venus with a friend. What it builds is great rapport. We shared quite a bit. But I think that Moon-moon connection takes this up a notch. Venus trine Venus was slightly better than the conjunction ,oddly . The Venus in Cancer(his) trine my Venus in Scorpio showed itself when he brought the tenderness and I brought the "edge". I was mad crazy about him. We still love each other dearly and talk endlessly when we are together. I think if one has Venus conjunct Mars and Venus trine Venus in synastry, this is powerful stuff. Add the Moon/Mars or Moon/Moon contact and you two will never want to be parted. Ever! IP: Logged |
neptunicity Knowflake Posts: 1229 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted May 01, 2014 07:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Libracorn: I've met people who I have the Venus conjunction with, to me, this just basically means that you two are able to relate to each other better. You have similar tastes in regards to beauty, music etc. But I can't say it's actually better, they are somewhat the same. Venus conj Venus is also good for a relationship as it brings mutual understanding to two people, it's more of a ''Lets go outside and play tennis together'' aspect.
I see, so I guess they are quite the same in effect. Maybe the conjunction is just the strongest one in terms of influence. After all, it's a conjunction. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2635 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted May 31, 2018 10:15 PM
Does Venus sextile Venus in synastry still count if one persons Venus is in Gemini and the other in Pisces? IP: Logged |
Yanmorg Knowflake Posts: 1842 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 01, 2018 06:09 AM
I have venus sextile mars with my current partner.He’s mars. We have a Sun-Venus DW as well along with a ton of other attraction factors so my answer might be bias. But I think this aspect creates the yin-yang harmony. Your natural body rhythm is in sync with theirs, but it requires no effort. CHEMISTRY. Venus-mars creates chemistry. Venus sextile mars comes with a lot of secual attraction also but adds a friendly touch to it. The focus isn’t solely on lust. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 5505 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted June 01, 2018 07:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: Venus-mars creates chemistry
Moon/Mars and Sun/Mars does that for me. Venus/Mars I would swop for Jupiter/Mars or Mercury/Mars when it comes to banter ime.
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2635 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted June 01, 2018 07:10 AM
I have Venus sextile Venus and we like some of the same things. But not sextile signs I guess it still counts though.IP: Logged |
vertiver Knowflake Posts: 2387 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 01, 2018 11:52 AM
Let's see, I've had a Venus-Mars conjunction with my last boyfriend, but I was Mars, it was a little uncomfortable.With my current boyfriend, we have Venus-Venus conjunct seems to work quite well. Even for sexual attraction, but more importantly we have the same tastes and I obviously epitomize his ideal lady. He puts me on a pedestal - which is flattering, but sometimes hard to adjust to after having such unappreciative partners in the past. IP: Logged |