posted May 01, 2014 11:38 AM            

Phase 1: They fall for you.
Phase 2: When you finally grace them with your presence, they are so excited that they tease you with all that innuendo and implied promises of relationship.
Phase 3: They realize all of it was real and then run off when it comes down to delivery.
Phase 4: Aloof while still testing you randomly to see if you'r still interested. I mean, its not even a hit and run accident. It's just a tease and run.

posted May 01, 2014 03:33 PM            

He's Leo Sun, Aries Moon. I would've thought that with such masculine sun and moon he would be more assertive but nope. All he does is try to set up a way for him to see me away from his workplace without asking me out. He has suggested a professional date (I work in something totally different and he wanted advice I could easily give him), a group date and now a study date.

posted May 01, 2014 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by yellowelevator:
I have Venus in Virgo, and I'm female. If I've ever teased a man that I liked but was not officially dating but had the chance to and ended up not 'following through', it wasn't really deliberate on my part, it all ended up stemming from being too afraid and apprehensive about really taking the initiative. I suppose that is because most of it was always sexual too, and I'm only 21 so that's been pretty much all I've ever gotten was sexual attention, but never what I've really wanted which is love/relationship/friendship. So I will admit that I can tease, but if I ever back out it is not because I want to tease them to the point of intentionally ******* them off and making them wait, it is because I am nervous and end up not knowing what I really want, and that can frustrate people to no end. :/ I think Saturn in the 8th doesn't want me to ever be comfortable and ready for sex lol

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Aww yellowelevator - I think you just haven't met someone you connected with on all the important levels.

I have Venus in 8th and it's the same way for me. Actually, me and this guy, we both share this natal placement so love and its intricacies must not be as casual as it is portrait by pop culture. I know it isn't for me.

posted May 01, 2014 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by yellowelevator:
I have Venus in Virgo, and I'm female. If I've ever teased a man that I liked but was not officially dating but had the chance to and ended up not 'following through', it wasn't really deliberate on my part, it all ended up stemming from being too afraid and apprehensive about really taking the initiative. I suppose that is because most of it was always sexual too, and I'm only 21 so that's been pretty much all I've ever gotten was sexual attention, but never what I've really wanted which is love/relationship/friendship. So I will admit that I can tease, but if I ever back out it is not because I want to tease them to the point of intentionally ******* them off and making them wait, it is because I am nervous and end up not knowing what I really want, and that can frustrate people to no end. :/

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Thank you for sharing so honestly <3

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I think Saturn in the 8th doesn't want me to ever be comfortable and ready for sex lol

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posted May 01, 2014 04:35 PM            

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Originally posted by filleaspirant:
Ah, then it is a bit of a trend, huh?

All he does is try to set up a way for him to see me away from his workplace without asking me out. He has suggested a professional date (I work in something totally different and he wanted advice I could easily give him), a group date and now a study date.

I mean - really? You can't say "wanna go see a movie?" ¬¬

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Yea! What's up with that! Date like an adult, please! I had something similar. Lots of group hanging out. The few times we hung out alone were... great! But if any such opportunity presents itself, he goes and invites someone else. It's frustrating! Unlike sweet little yellowelevator, he is not a 26 yo virgin, so he has no excuses.