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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted May 01, 2014 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met this girl who acts like she wants to be my friend. She even says we are friends. I even started noticing that she is following the way I do things. For example, I told her I don't study for a certain class that we have together, so she stopped studying for that class and said it was because of me. I casually mentioned in a conversation that I don't drink or smoke weed (she is kind of a party person so she does that stuff, not excessively) so she told me the other day that she has stopped doing those things. She is very physical when she does talk to me. She touches my arm constantly. She talked to me over text once for a couple of hours but that was it. We have known each other for about 5 months. What I don't get though is she doesn't talk to me. I mean if she wants to be my friend or something else why doesn't she talk to me? She will talk to everyone else around us in our area in class but ignores me unless I initiate the conversation. Sometimes, rarely she will glance at me until I look at her because something funny happened in class. There is one person in particular that she talks to constantly in class and outside of class and they even hangout all the time. Im so confused!

She is:
Cancer sun
Capricorn moon
Cancer mercury
Virgo venus
Gemini mars

I am:
Cancer sun
Taurus moon
Cancer mercury
Cancer venus
Taurus mars

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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted May 01, 2014 06:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anyone?

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KarmicMoon
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posted May 01, 2014 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarmicMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a Cancer Sun/Mercury/Mars and there have been times where I acted like I didn't like someone when I did because I was afraid of rejection. It sounds like when you show some interest she is interested back? It can be hard for Cancer women to make the first move or be too forward. Plus Capricorn Moon and Virgo Venus, it may be hard for her to show her feelings. Cancers rarely go directly after something but move side to side like a real crab. The only time i ever go directly after something is when I am afraid it is going to get away if I don't do something quick!

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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted May 01, 2014 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
I am a Cancer Sun/Mercury/Mars and there have been times where I acted like I didn't like someone when I did because I was afraid of rejection. It sounds like when you show some interest she is interested back? It can be hard for Cancer women to make the first move or be too forward. Plus Capricorn Moon and Virgo Venus, it may be hard for her to show her feelings. Cancers rarely go directly after something but move side to side like a real crab. The only time i ever go directly after something is when I am afraid it is going to get away if I don't do something quick!

Thank you. But what is the deal with talking to everyone else and hardly saying two words to me. She is like really talkative with this one person in particular. IDK.

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KarmicMoon
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posted May 01, 2014 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarmicMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Perhaps she is trying to get your attention by talking to everyone else. It seems to be working, lol! If she was touching you constantly I'd say she likes you. It sounds like YOU aren't approaching her either, lol!

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niyasa
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posted May 02, 2014 11:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for niyasa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what you've described I think she's crazy about you haha this is a classic Cancer girl behaviour in these situations.

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cancer sun
libra rising
gemini moon
gemini mercury
leo venus
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AscTaurus
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posted May 02, 2014 01:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was wondering why you'd torture yourself by sitting in the corner and wondering? And then I realized that you have your Mars in Taurus...Tuche.

I still think the old traditional way: That a man should pursue the woman that he is interested in and not wait for her to "show the signs".

Am also cool with the woman making the first move, just get the ball rolling goddammit. Stop wasting time.


She has a Virgo Venus and I'm betting that playing this sort of roundabout game and titillating your attention passively, she is probably thinking ,"why doesn't this guy just get a clue?"

Go up to her and say "Hey. You want to hang out and drink coffee after class? There is something that I want to say that will be of real interest to you.."


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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted May 03, 2014 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
I was wondering why you'd torture yourself by sitting in the corner and wondering? And then I realized that you have your Mars in Taurus...Tuche.



Haha! Yes the good ol Mars in Taurus. Thanks for everyones thoughts and advice.

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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted May 04, 2014 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesCancerTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She ended up asking me out. I said yes and texted her the night before to see if she still wanted to go out. She texted back, YES! The day came and she never showed. I asked her what happened and she didn't respond. Ive seen her on Facebook a few times since then so I know she isn't dead or anything.
Now I see why people think Cancers are annoying.

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Adimi
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posted May 05, 2014 11:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Adimi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe she's attracted to you and doesn't know how to deal with it.

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