posted May 02, 2014 02:42 PM            

I have been crushing on this Aries man for the longest time....he's married, with a son. I know in minds eye, there can never be a relationship between us, but it's tempting, but I just can't go there. We exchange emails here and there, eflirt and chat alot about life. He's so my type and perfect for me, but I know this will never be. His wife is amazing and his son is too, I will never take that away from him, never.

Anyone else feel this way or going through the same thing????

posted May 02, 2014 04:29 PM            

My 12H Scorpio Venus has been crushing out on a redheaded Taurus since I met him in, like, Sept. I know he's not that into me but I can't get him out of my head. We had 2/3 months of fun flirting chatting hanging out twice a week. Then, bam, it ended in an instant.

He came back when Venus was retro then left again. It was his birthday recently and of course I took the excuse to wish him a happy birthday. I KNOW I shouldn't have, but Venus does what she wants some times.

He asked me out for tomorrow.... But I'm afraid he may have forgotten or he'll just let it slide. I don't know if I should remind him or ... Argh!

posted May 02, 2014 04:46 PM            

In my SR chart, my Venus is in the 12th house in Virgo. It's really bad because my SR Ascendant is Libra, the sign of relationships. My SR Descendant is in Aries with my SR Vertex and Uranus sitting in it.

I definitely fell for this Aries guy this year who was taken. I tried to restrain myself at first, but just this week, we went to the movies and we cuddled. We also snapchatted and flirted a lot with each other. He keeps complaining about his long-distance girlfriend and he seems unhappy. But what I don't get is why he chooses to stay with her if he's not happy. He's told me he likes me a few times. I know it's wrong and I'm trying to keep myself away from trouble, but I'm about to confront him about it, saying he has to choose. I know I'm not in the right place to say that, but it's just not right.

posted May 02, 2014 08:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Kibriana:
That sounds familiar. I know how tough it can get, having been through something similar myself. But eventually, pining for the ones we can't have will have to stop because we 12 house Venus people deserve better than that, we deserve our own loving partners and I hope you'll find yours one day.

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Amen!!
I agree. I have 12H Venus natally as well and I don't entertain attached men any longer.
Its my personal "revenge" against them lol
you decided not to be single and wait for me, then u have no chance- GOODBYE LOL

posted May 03, 2014 01:38 AM            

In fact, it's only happened one other time, when I actually was 16. It lasted 4 years. We became friends (still are in contact sometimes on FB). He eventually came around and wanted to date me. I could never trust him though. So nothing really ever came of it and he eventually married someone he's still married to and I moved away.

They both have their suns on my dsc opp my venus. There aren't too many other wow aspects.