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Topic: How to get a venus in scorpio back?
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 12:47 PM
  
I have broken up with my first love who i was with for over 3 years and after a weeks time she replaced me with some new guy already im hurt and i just want her back whats the best thing i could do just ignore her and ler her come back? I txted her alot an was calling her but it didnt work shes now confused soo pretty much im just asking any venus in scorpios would you get back with your first love and if so how and what do you feel needs to be done?IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
Knowflake Posts: 1147
From: Indianapolis, IN
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 04, 2014 12:52 PM
You're a scorp, right? This might be tough! She's probably really hurt by you. The fact that she's responding to your messages does give some hope though bc any Scorp placement can ICE you out once they feel like they've been hurt...I would say that earning her trust back is key. But don't push too much. Just be around if she needs you. Hope this helps :/
***edit I re read that - apparently she hasn't answered you...
I would just, yeah, move on for now. You tried by calling and reaching out.
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Catalina
Knowflake Posts: 1667
From: shamballa
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 04, 2014 01:05 PM
This is a very fixed Venus, ie loyal despite all your faults...but once the bond is broken, usually permanent. Because then reason to move on is not necessarily that the love has died, but it has become untenable for whatever reason. She has moved on, to someone who will hopefully appreciate her while she is there...a scorp Venus doesn't care about your flaws but your heart and willingness to go to the bitter end. Doesn't sound like you were that dedicated.On the other hand if the Scorpio Venus decides it's over, they usually retain a soft spot and supportive side that will still be there for you in whatever way they think you need...they just won't be able to live with you for whatever their reason is. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10482
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:05 PM
You shall ritualistically sacrifice the place the beating heart of your ex in this box.  IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 413
From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 04, 2014 01:09 PM
I think your best bet is really having a heart to heart (verbally or in written form) one FINAL time, and let her know that while you want her back, you RESPECT her decision to not receive you (this put the power back into her hands, which we know scorpio secretly wants). Do not let her know you are pining away obviously (scorpio likes a strong man, with hidden emotions). Go on about your life....when she READY to forgive you (no one tells scorpio what to do or when) she will come around. When she does, please be careful with her emotions!!IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 01:21 PM
She told me she loves and that she always thinks about me still and that i will always be hers over anyone else and that she still wants to have my babies and she still has the promise ring i got her so im just wondering should i just show her im always here for her or just ice her out? I kno scorp venus can be manipulative im a scorpio as well lmaoIP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1988
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:45 PM
why did you leave her? why you want her back because she's with someone else??
I smell flakiness.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10482
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:45 PM
Welll damn girl tell us how you really feel.  Well I respect that she's honest. Safe to say you have a chance, my advice take it slow and get to know each other again  good luck. Dang op is like only 20 chill... stuff happens. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6103
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:49 PM
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Originally posted by Supreme cT:
I have broken up with my first love who i was with for over 3 years and after a weeks time she replaced me with some new guy already im hurt and i just want her back whats the best thing i could do just ignore her and ler her come back? I txted her alot an was calling her but it didnt work shes now confused soo pretty much im just asking any venus in scorpios would you get back with your first love and if so how and what do you feel needs to be done?
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I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10482
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:52 PM
poor op but YAAAAAAAS
Judge judy my childhood thou
My libra granny and I use to watch it before sailor moon would come on. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6103
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 01:56 PM
Yeah, court shows can be fun. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10482
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 02:01 PM
Some of them are dumb but she's a jewel..IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
Knowflake Posts: 430
From:
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 04, 2014 02:02 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Hahahaha ur funnny! The op ditched her n created a thread about how to ditch her without hurting her feelings(im assuming its the same girl). N now he wants her back.Karma is a b***h.
No offense Supreme cT. I guess we all make bad
choices in life. I think u r offended that she didnt pine away or whatever that men expect jilted gals to do. I like this girl. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10482
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 02:03 PM
Wait is it the same libra girl?Well...as someone who was ditched before by someone they love... it really hurts don't ever do it again :/ You're luck she is an air sign and can forgive you... because im sure you as a scorpio could not do the same.. That's what I dislike about water signs thou IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 5401
From:
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 04, 2014 02:12 PM
What's "the promise ring"? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 308
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 04, 2014 03:01 PM
Does she have a Taurus Moon/Pisces Moon? Its not like a Venus in Scorpio to go on about soppy mementos that they've kept of someone they've loved. But then again, contacts to Neptune can really change all that. What's her Moon sign? I can better advise you from that perspective. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 03:41 PM
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Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 03:43 PM
Shes a moon and mars in cancer and im a mars in cancer i conjunct both her moon and mars and my sun conjuncts her whole scorpio stellium and her north node
I just talked to her an i really really really hurt her deep down inside im going to try and be as supportive and loving as i can but i may have lost her smh i should have handled the situations that took place after the breakup more maturely IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
Knowflake Posts: 257
From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 03:46 PM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Hahahaha ur funnny! The op ditched her n created a thread about how to ditch her without hurting her feelings(im assuming its the same girl). N now he wants her back.Karma is a b***h.
No offense Supreme cT. I guess we all make bad
choices in life. I think u r offended that she didnt pine away or whatever that men expect jilted gals to do. I like this girl.
I do deserve this i regret it everyday and your right i was expecting her to come back and she didnt everything back fired lol im mad stupid i can admit when i do things wrong so yes it is a life lesson
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LoadedPistil
Knowflake Posts: 1243
From: NJ, USA
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 04, 2014 05:24 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ------------------
Leo ♌️ Sun, (2nd House), Venus (3nd House)
Scorpio ♏ Moon,Mars,Saturn (5th House)
Cancer ♋ Rising
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 308
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 06:16 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Supreme cT:
Shes a moon and mars in cancer and im a mars in cancer i conjunct both her moon and mars and my sun conjuncts her whole scorpio stellium and her north node
I just talked to her an i really really really hurt her deep down inside im going to try and be as supportive and loving as i can but i may have lost her smh i should have handled the situations that took place after the breakup more maturely
Moon and Mars in Cancer you say? Geesh, that is deep. No wonder the soppyness!!! I have only the square to deal with natally and it's tough for me to let go. I think you definitely still have a chance. Both Cancer Moon and Mars don't want to ignore powerful feelings(and can't). And with the conjunction of her stellium with your Sun as well as both these positions, this is not child's play. It's deep! But why did you break up with her in the first place if you were still inlove? This should be sorted out honestly and maturely before a reconciliation happens. Cancer can forgive but they don't forget. And it won't feel the same when your "love" sleeps with you with one eye open; wondering when and where you'll break her heart again.
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 737
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 05, 2014 06:21 AM
Simple answer to the question: Sell your soul.IP: Logged |
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