posted May 04, 2014 12:49 PM            

I won't go into too many details but basically Scorpio (sun, merc, venus) and Cancer moon guy texted me around 2am Saturday

We texted for a little bit, as I was awake, but when he invited me over I told him I couldn't. He texted me a snarky comment about enjoying his night with his dog instead so I just let it go. I didn't see the point in responding.

A few minutes later he commented something totally random about food - again, I had no response.

And then when I woke up later I realized he had texted me again, asking if I was sleeping.

I texted him back saying if he wanted to see me that I would need notice please and I would work it out.

No response. We have iMessage & he read it - never replied. He's never ignored me before.

This feels super elementary. Like he's pouting.

I forgive and forget easily. (My Aries moon) but I am really wondering how to reconcile this. So far I've left it alone. I anticipate that he will come back around eventually. When he does, should I just carry on like nothing happened?

posted May 04, 2014 02:11 PM            

lol ew.

Awkward...

posted May 04, 2014 02:49 PM            

Being a Cancer Moon myself, it is likely that he feels like you "rejected" him by saying that you will only see him by appointment;I think it made him feel less special and nothing says "go away" to a Cancer Moon much like someone implying that "you are not special".

If you are going to be with a Cancer Moon, a word of advice; In my experience, all Cancer Moon men are really boys at heart: They bruise easily and then run to the next maternal figure where they expect their wounds attended to,tears wiped away and hugs.(lots of those)

If you are not prepared to do a fair share of mothering , forget ever getting the attention of a lunar Cancer(I've noticed this is true of Venus and Mars in Cancer too).

Once you do all these things, the really mature Cancer Moon will respond in like; be beautifully nurturing, soft, gentle and attentive.

When this happens, they begin to exhibit cardinal traits like confidence, , initiative and assertion.

Unless there are other placements to make the expression of his Moon a little more inhibited, this is the method I use to win them over.In fact,given his Moon in Cancer/Venus in Scorpio combo(same as mine) ,I can bet on it.

I'm still curious about Mars though-as that is important in what a man views as "masculine" about himself.

posted May 04, 2014 02:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

lol ew.

Awkward...

NEXT

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posted May 04, 2014 02:58 PM            

But i almost sounds something a little girl would do to ignore op for not doing as he pleases lol.

i'm guessing he has no fire in his chart?

posted May 04, 2014 03:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What is his Asc/Mars sign? Lunar Cancers are tricky; not impossible, just very tricky.

Being a Cancer Moon myself, it is likely that he feels like you "rejected" him by saying that you will only see him by appointment;I think it made him feel less special and nothing says "go away" to a Cancer Moon much like someone implying that "you are not special".

If you are going to be with a Cancer Moon, a word of advice; In my experience, all Cancer Moon men are really boys at heart: They bruise easily and then run to the next maternal figure where they expect their wounds attended to,tears wiped away and hugs.(lots of those)

If you are not prepared to do a fair share of mothering , forget ever getting the attention of a lunar Cancer(I've noticed this is true of Venus and Mars in Cancer too).

Once you do all these things, the really mature Cancer Moon will respond in like; be beautifully nurturing, soft, gentle and attentive.

When this happens, they begin to exhibit cardinal traits like confidence, , initiative and assertion.

Unless there are other placements to make the expression of his Moon a little more inhibited, this is the method I use to win them over.In fact,given his Moon in Cancer/Venus in Scorpio combo(same as mine) ,I can bet on it.

I'm still curious about Mars though-as that is important in what a man views as "masculine" about himself.

At the same time, however, I don't think that , with your Aries Moon, you'll be able to keep this up.Unless you have other personal planetary contacts to smooth misunderstanding between the Moon-Moon energies, you may come across too "harsh" to him.

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Hey there! What great insight. Thank you.

I am a cancer sun, mercury and venus actually lol with cap asc

I don't know his asc but his mars is aqua

I mean I wasn't rejecting him, I texted him back to say that we could get together with some notice. I have a small child and leaving to see him at 2am is out of the question. We have been seeing each other for months now so he's aware of this.

I am def into him and this isn't a break all for me

I mean, we are all a bit selfish sometimes.

Any thoughts about moving forward? Should I let him come to me?

posted May 04, 2014 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Long term relationships with infants are not my thing.
I mean if he really wanted to see her why not come up and surprise her.
But scorpios are lazy like that.
also If you're upset say something about it.. not ignore her that's so passive aggressive.

But i almost sounds feminine to ignore op for not doing as he pleases lol.

i'm guessing he has no fire in his chart?

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posted May 04, 2014 03:10 PM            

It's going to be hard for your aries moon..

I can understand the needs of Pisces sun mercury Cancer moon mars because venus is in Aries and venus is a fire singleton. Plus Sag asc and asc ruler In Libra.

So many needs are vocal and always met because Aries will make sure that happens.
Which I respect.

If you're unhappy about something it's your duty in a partnership to be vocal about it because the other not feel the same way because we are different people with different needs and motivations.

posted May 04, 2014 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
That's just it.

It's going to be hard for your aries moon..

I can understand the needs of Pisces sun mercury Cancer moon mars because venus is in Aries and venus is a fire singleton. Plus Sag asc and asc ruler In Libra.

So many needs are vocal and always met because Aries will make sure that happens.
Which I respect.

If you're unhappy about something it's your duty in a partnership to be vocal about it because the other not feel the same way because we are different people with different needs and motivations.

That is the key to be in a HEALTHY long term relationship with anyone

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That's very good advice! Haha it's hard for my Aries moon NOT to call people out but my cancer mercury stops me sometimes and makes me question or sulk lol

posted May 04, 2014 04:23 PM            

You could be the bigger person and ask what is up?

But personally myself with prominent aries energy i would quickly get tired of that.
yeah I could be the bigger person, but do I have to do this every time you feel like sulking for whatever reason..
I don't many even find that attractive.. that's why I was like ew..

posted May 04, 2014 04:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I hope it works out though.

You could be the bigger person and ask what is up?

But personally myself with prominent aries energy i would quickly get tired of that.
yeah I could be the bigger person, but do I have to do this every time you feel like sulking for whatever reason..
I don't many even find that attractive.. that's why I was like ew..

That's rather selfish and this is coming from Martian person lol

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Yep! I texted him casually and he's acting fine lol smh

posted May 04, 2014 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

lol ew.

Awkward...

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#swerve

posted May 04, 2014 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
Where's his 5th house cusp?

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Idk wahhhhhhh

Scorp sun, cancer moon, scorp mercury, venus and aqua mars

posted May 04, 2014 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by LoadedPistil:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kerosene:
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lol ew.

Awkward...

NEXT

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#swerve

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bahahaha you both are so feisty and lively

posted May 05, 2014 01:43 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
He texted me a snarky comment about enjoying his night with his dog instead

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I'd be like...

posted May 05, 2014 04:58 AM            

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
Hey there! What great insight. Thank you.

I am a cancer sun, mercury and venus actually lol with cap asc

I don't know his asc but his mars is aqua

I mean I wasn't rejecting him, I texted him back to say that we could get together with some notice. I have a small child and leaving to see him at 2am is out of the question. We have been seeing each other for months now so he's aware of this.

I am def into him and this isn't a break all for me

I mean, we are all a bit selfish sometimes.

Any thoughts about moving forward? Should I let him come to me?

Again, I really appreciate your feedback. It makes a lot of sense.

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I understand your position completely. You have a child and cannot just drop everything to be with him-at a moments notice. I get that.

But if his really unreasonable,he may overlook this and keep on sulking. When that happens, tell him to go jump.

Sometimes lunar Cancers can get unreasonably childlike and selfish. I should know because sometimes I can act like a brat with my Scorpio Moon boyfriend. And when he has had enough of my whining, he tells me off-which sets me straight.

In this case, maybe you can be the mature one and open the lines of communication. I think you should address what occurred and let him open up.

If he denies that he was sulking(which he probably will -knowing Cancer Moons) than act like it is resolved and don't let him bring it up again.

Whatever happens with this man, just let him know that your child comes 1st and is number 1 on your priority list.

If he is the mature Cancer Moon, he'll find the devotion to your child very sexy and he definitely will not expect to compete.

He'll even abide to your rules as Cancer Moons can be turned on by an affectionate and devoted person; as they start to fantasize how that will feel when they are included in those affections.

If he is not the mature type and expects you to stretch yourself thin- then you may be entertaining his less desirable and "bratty" tendencies.Show him the door- that should set him straight.

Sometimes you gotta be tough with us-otherwise we'll manipulate you.

posted May 05, 2014 08:35 AM            

Soooo I opened up the can of worms that is my feelings & just spelled it all out for him. Both of us with our watery ways has been to indirect. We have been seeing eachother for several months so the side stepping is starting to feel old.

In fact, I had broken things off with him previously about a month ago and I told him later I regretted it and did it because I felt like he didn't reciprocate my feelings

So I put that out there again, as I feel that's why he's acting this way - he's still pouting that I stopped things for a few weeks? Who knows?

But I told him I cared about him, apologized for cutting things off and told him I was afraid (we had already previously had this conversation in person) and I told him I don't want anyone else

Guess what- no response

I feel better in some way, but worse in another

I mean, to not even acknowledge what I said- burn...
But it is what it is. I think I screwed things up by cutting him off before but it was what I needed at the time for some clarity. And Since we have been talking again I've done what I felt I could, without being too pushy, to make him see that I am not playing with his feelings, I just needed time to sort out mine.

Meh. I love water signs but sometimes we get lost in our own feelings to the point that it is selfish.