posted May 06, 2014 02:58 PM            

Moon in sag and mars in scorpio.

But I have a question I mean since you were a dancer what did you do exactly because you have to behave a tiny bit raunchy anyways.

posted May 06, 2014 03:38 PM            

Sexuality(Mars)meets sexually unusual, rebellious n taboo (scorp Uranus) trying to break free from saturns control, this is affecting my 2nd house of security and my 10th house of work, so it's not hard to see how it happened!

With all that on my AC I didn't have to be raunchy to get attention. I can't help being naturally very sensual in my appearance n mannerisms. My mom told me that as soon as I started walking, even in diapers she noticed I walked extremely feminine and I started smiling and batting my eyes to get attention instead of crying, even before I could walk.
My step dad pulled me off the dance floor at a church get together when I was 13 and told me to stop doing what I was doing...I had no clue what he was talking about, I'd never danced before.
I have a very natural ability to dance n even if I don't intend it, I give off sexual energy without realizing.
Today I watch myself much closer because I don't like to come across that way to ppl, but no matter how hard I try I still do. It's frustrating because I intentionally try to be conservative so I don't come off like that but it's just always there.(Pluto/Venus/AC)
l think I must have been a belly dancer/gypsy in a past life. Lol

There were many girls that did get raunchy but I grew up so conservative I literally could not do what they did, it was disturbing and disgusting to me, that's libra Venus and my virgo Moon working together, my Venus is exact semi-sextile my Moon.

You didn't have to be like that, it was there choice because sexuality is not raunchy, it's sensual....raunchy is not sexy....innocence is the most attractive thing though, it's much prettier than sexy or raunchy!

posted May 06, 2014 04:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Very refined. Don't be coarse lol

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I think this sums it up. But you also have to consider the house that Venus is in.

A person with Venus in Libra in 7th house will consider looking good and being able to relate to others-equally important.

They may prefer beauty queen types on their shoulder or ladies that are "socially acceptable".

Another who has Venus in 8th in Libra might prefer that his partner be the type who is "passive" in bed. Because Venus is in Libra, the double dose of Venus charm is activated.

So, in this situation, the male here may love a girl who exudes femininity, class and feminine sex appeal; beautiful lingerie , hand and nails well-kept and a generally pleasing physical demenour.

I have Venus in 8th and so, I reckon this is similar to my position.But because my Venus is in Scorpio, sweet-natured, passive guys may turn me on. But I like them even more when they have that "rough edge".

posted May 06, 2014 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have Venus in 1st conjunct Pluto and I wish I could but I do not like passive guys at all, they feel weak to me for some reason. I know they aren't but I guess it's Pluto that needs a more challenging relationship.

I want someone who is strong, opinionated and intelligent, but does not run you over or disrespect you.

But needs to have his own opinion even if we disagree we give each other space n respect for our differing opinions. I can't stand it when ppl agree with me to much.

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Yes, that is what I mean. When Venus is conjunct Pluto, Pluto lends some of its "flavour" on Venus.

You want a partner who is agreeable(Venus), but not too much(Pluto).

You want them to have their own mind(Pluto), but still be respectful of the differences between you two(Venus).

If Venus is the ruler of the 7th and is in the 1st house, its more about the self(1st) than the partners(7th).

You want your partners(7th) to reflect you(1st). You want your partners to have the qualities that you may lack or,at least, supplement them. You want your partners to complement you.

With Pluto conjunct Venus- the "pretty boy" types may not be to your taste. So,like me, if they happen to be "pretty"(Venus) they need to supplement that with "edge" (Pluto).

posted May 06, 2014 04:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes, that is what I mean. When Venus is conjunct Pluto, Pluto lends some of its "flavour" on Venus.

You want a partner who is agreeable(Venus), but not too much(Pluto).

You want them to have their own mind(Pluto), but still be respectful of the differences between you two(Venus).

If Venus is the ruler of the 7th and is in the 1st house, its more about the self(1st) than the partners(7th).

You want your partners(7th) to reflect you(1st). You want your partners to have the qualities that you may lack or,at least, supplement them. You want your partners to complement you.

With Pluto conjunct Venus- the "pretty boy" types may not be to your taste. So,like me, if they happen to be "pretty"(Venus) they need to supplement that with "edge" (Pluto).

So maybe they have a swagger, maybe they have beautiful, deep, soulful eyes or the like.

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Yep, very much agreed with all you said!
Relationships are about me, because I don't need them, I only want them if they fit into what I want. I would never be someone who goes out to find "a relationship" just for relationship sake. I only want one if it's with someone I find I can't live without.
Once I'm in a relationship it's all about them and adjusting to fit with their needs but still having to balance it with Pluto so I can't give in to much or be to passive.
Your right my balancing act is within myself.
It's trying to honor my Venus, who wants to worship my SO and honoring my Pluto who wants to eat my SO!

posted May 06, 2014 04:58 PM            

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Originally posted by StrandedSaturn:
Some of them keep their relationships from their family, if they find their family embarrassing or less than stellar ( a little like Leo Venus would)

The men are completely different from the women. In my opinion the women are much less trustworthy. In fact I'd say a Libra Venus man wouldn't really get on with a Libra Venus woman.

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posted May 06, 2014 06:33 PM            

Good thing as intimidation is generally more of a turn off to me. Luckily, I'm not easily intimidated, not even if they look like they're half grizzly bear, in fact the really big, rough looking guys have a tendency to be a bit more gentle because they don't HAVE to put on a tough guy act.

posted May 07, 2014 02:39 AM            

Yes I do like elegant, well educated and classy ladies but those factors alone will not win you any browine points from me. I don't mind crass and disagreeable behavior SO LONG AS there is a set purpose for it (i.e. Its the most effective way of dealing with an issue.) Being a disagreeable person for the sheer non-sense purpose of being a disagreeable person is a huge turn-off for me. Such behavior pretty much makes you an angry ditz... A rebel without a cause that has no idea why they are mad at the world.

Passion and love are Synonymous to me and I get both of them from my wife . Infact, she is the perfect example of everything I love about the modern woman; The type of girl who looks amazingly beautiful in a Sun Dress and Ankle Booties but can easily put on and lace up a pair of Combat Boots when she needs to.

posted May 07, 2014 02:53 AM            

and so the beautiful story ended.