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posted May 07, 2014 05:50 PM            

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Why is it your lives are so easy? Your attractive even without trying... You can wake up after a rough night and still be attractive. I know no one is perfect but you Venus 1st housers seem to just get through life without any pain or as much trouble from others.

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posted May 07, 2014 05:50 PM            

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so wrong but we won't ever let you know that.

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posted May 07, 2014 05:53 PM            

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NOPE. I wish!

Venus in 1st

Venus sextile Ascendant.

I have Saturn in 1st and some squares in my chart and Cap ASC, so its definitely not like that for me. I may appear to have it all together if that is what you are referring to, but life has never been easy.

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posted May 07, 2014 05:55 PM            

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so wrong but we won't ever let you know that.

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Yeah but at least your still attractive despite difficulties, and I guess it keeps you going. I'm a Venus conjunct Saturn, I'd give anything to just feel attractive, on my bad days I can't just think "oh we'll, at least I'm attractive" but if I had a Venus asc, I'd just brush off problems easier.

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posted May 07, 2014 05:59 PM            

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Lol believe me when things go to **** your looks is the last thing on your mind..

if anything with prominent Venus people hyper focus on my looks which is annoying, sometimes i get negative attention because of it.. People will assume you can treat me however you want they think I'm confident but I still have feelings.

Like I remember i just threw on whatever and went to class my professor asked me to stand up and compare myself to another student who looked put together for some stupid example..
I mean it was whatever but attention like that is annoying I threw on whatever because I did not want attention :P

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posted May 07, 2014 06:09 PM            

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Venus trine ascendant, here.

Yes, it's true that I get a lot of compliments despite wearing zero makeup and being sleep deprived all of the time. However, I'm not thinking about my beauty when horrible things happen. I've had numerous experiences before the age of 10 that would traumatize most people. The experiences after age 10 weren't a walk in the park either by a long shot.

Everyone has to deal with crap in their lives regardless of physical attractiveness.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:10 PM            

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Also Venus is kinda Basic.

If I could change my chart.

I would would place venus on top of my mars and switch it in with Neptune so I can be otherworldly.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:33 PM            

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I have Venus square ASC. I think most of the Venus-ASC gifts come with the soft aspects but I do still look good after a night out. For some reason nothing really ruins my looks. Like right now I have a bunch of chronic health problems and I look really healthy and the same as I did before I got sick. For some reason looking good makes people think it means I have my act together which is annoying. They also won't believe me when I tell them how bad my health is. It makes you realize how overly focused on appearance a lot of people are.

My sister has Venus sextile ASC and she actually doesn't look great after a night out. I would not say she looks good no matter what. I think she just got the charm bits of Venus-ASC though. The sextile and square have played out very differently for the two of us. I think I'd rather have a sextile honestly, the square isn't fun.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:34 PM            

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Also Venus is kinda Basic.

If I could change my chart.

I would would place venus on top of my mars and switch it in with Neptune so I can be otherworldly.

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Eh, I have Neptune on my ASC and I am definitely not otherworldly. People project onto me all of the time! Then again, I also have Uranus there too...hmm....

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posted May 07, 2014 06:35 PM            

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My BF has venus in pisces in the 1st and aqua ASC. He is very attractive but I don't think he knows it much. Always has a charming smile and way of speaking. Even when I can tell he's upset. He also tends to conceal his deeper emotions and has pluto SQ ascendant. Very intense.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Why is it your lives are so easy? Your attractive even without trying... You can wake up after a rough night and still be attractive. I know no one is perfect but you Venus 1st housers seem to just get through life without any pain or as much trouble from others.

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I do NOT look attractive after a rough night, I look pale and tired and like I've had a rough night. Maybe it depends what sign it's in because mine is in Pisces and I just look translucent and lost lol

Granted yes I don't wear a lot of makeup, but I definitely look better with a bit of makeup.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:45 PM            

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i get an afterglow after a rough night of drinking its weird.
im just like damn im golden right now...

jupiter square venus/asc= excess is my beauty secret.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:48 PM            

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NeptunianSag:
Yeah but at least your still attractive despite difficulties, and I guess it keeps you going. I'm a Venus conjunct Saturn, I'd give anything to just feel attractive, on my bad days I can't just think "oh we'll, at least I'm attractive" but if I had a Venus asc, I'd just brush off problems easier.

--What happens when you have venus sextile asc AND venus conjunct saturn. I guess people consider me goodlooking but I definitely put effort into it. I can`t roll out of bed and look good, I need to get out my paints (make up) first. Oh, and my life has been far from easy. Personally, I`d rather be recognized for my intelligence than my beauty.

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posted May 07, 2014 06:53 PM            

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Haha, well my Venus conjuncts Asc(0; my tightest aspect), but it's in 12th House.

I can't complaint. I feel people are drawn to me without me even trying. This Virgo combo isn't in your face. I don't make an accent on my appearance much, but still get attention. I'm a big tease I like driving people crazy, haha

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posted May 07, 2014 06:58 PM            

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Hm. . . I have Neptune conjunct my MC and I notice that I enchant people when I'm out.

Them: "I don't dance" *Clearly has a stick where the Sun don't shine face*

Me: "Okay"

We go out and they gooooooo:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AxI4rxCf2E

Maximal Crazy skills.

It always comes back to me that anyone who didn't know me before the night says "Who was that girl? We need to get her out here with us again!"

So Venus on the Ascendant gets it good? PFFFF take my Neptune\MC. Top it!

Sorry, I just don't take anyone seriously that decides that having a certain planet conjunct a certain angle means that person won't have any pain. Oh and if they do have pain they just look in the mirror and assess that being beautiful trumps all. Seriously? No.

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posted May 07, 2014 07:21 PM            

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Me being in charge of the world.

Venus conjunct asc + Saturn conjunct MC

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posted May 07, 2014 07:31 PM            

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Beauty isn't everything if you're dumb as rocks you won't get very far or you will end up be taken advantage of.

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posted May 07, 2014 07:38 PM            

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Beauty isn't everything if you're dumb as rocks you won't get very far or you will end up be taken advantage of.

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Hmm idk. Beauty has gotten me bfs who pay for everything in my life, worship me and want to marry me despite my very silly and dense sag moments. It could be worse.

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posted May 07, 2014 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by sag_stellium:
Hmm idk. Beauty has gotten me bfs who pay for everything in my life, worship me and want to marry me despite my very silly and dense sag moments. It could be worse.

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Well if you're not dumb as rocks then you have nothing to worry about.

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posted May 07, 2014 07:43 PM            

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People will assume you can treat me however you want they think I'm confident but I still have feelings.

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This! It sucks!

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posted May 07, 2014 07:45 PM            

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Well if you're not dumb as rocks then you have nothing to worry about.

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You're right. Beauty without ability to manage your life can have bad consequences.

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posted May 07, 2014 08:01 PM            

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Beauty fades as well so you need some smarts and ability to back it up. I sound like a fortune cookie :P

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posted May 07, 2014 08:04 PM            

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well that's given but there's a very few beautiful people that I know that are complete morons. That's a stereotype besides genetics, good health is often connected with good looks, they may be uneducated but you don't need to be knowledgeable or sophisticated to be street smart.
If those are qualities you value more than looks that is a preference. Besides they even say most psychopaths are good looking.

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posted May 07, 2014 08:09 PM            

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Genetics definitely plays a part in good looks but there are other factors such as availability to resources. The bottom line is it takes more than looks to be successful in life. There have been studies though that shows that looks *do* help though.

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posted May 07, 2014 08:13 PM            

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Like this man for example.

I'd say he is sorta average but has worked hard to improve his looks instead of his mind.. which is sort of ridiculous to spend that much effort over something that is of minimal importance.. like if you're blessed with stellar good looks yeah that is something to capitalize one but if your not than.. what are you doing?
I'm going to say he's not very bright either.
but his genetics seem kinda average his body is not even that great no matter how much supplements or work routines he goes through, it's kinda sad if you think about..
You can tell he has not accomplished much in his life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9d9fr4zTVHY

Personal preference, i don't really find him attractive at all..
Which is sad because he would care soo much about my opinion of him :P

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