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LovelyAries86
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posted May 08, 2014 12:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Obviously, I'm an Aries.

Some of my favorite female friends have been Pisces Women! We'll start out as total partners in crime and our personalities will greatly compliment one another.

But somewhere down the line - almost every time with them - they'll find a way to sabotage our friendship! They'll begin imagining things that aren't there, lying, acting two-faced. Becoming your "Frenemy" so to speak - and I don't do that sh*t.

I find that many of them will admire Aries for being a Leader, original & strong...but will later begin to envy those traits and will secretly start hating on Aries when Aries in actuality, has nothing but love for the Pisces!

Aries is up-front & honest about everything. So Aries is heated & turned-off at Pisces for not being authentic and ruining any chance they had at a real friendship.

What are your personal experiences with the Pisces/Aries dynamic in friendships?

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Odette
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posted May 08, 2014 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love Pisces and Gemini most as female friends

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LovelyAries86
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posted May 08, 2014 01:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Odette:
I love Pisces and Gemini most as female friends

Hi Odette.

So in your opinion...what are the pros & cons of having Pisces/Gemini as friends?

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vickymadness
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posted May 08, 2014 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I love the females. They're the " too good " type so I really can't be indifferent towards them. I feel comfortable in their company because it's a two-way bonding rather than sharing good times together like I do with my sags or aquas, or a mutual support like my relationship with Taureans.
With Pisces I feel like taking the protective role while they "calm" me emotionally.
Sometimes I really need my rage or fire to be put off, and only two are capable of that; Taurus and Pisces ... but Pisces does it better. Way better.

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posted May 08, 2014 02:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's how I feel about Pisces women too. I get along with them great and love their sarcasm but eventually I stop trusting them because they stop making sense and yes lying… and they will just swim right out of it too still not making sense. Like wtf DO YOU LIVE ON PLANET EARTH….

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posted May 08, 2014 02:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by vickymadness:
I feel comfortable in their company because it's a two-way bonding rather than sharing good times together like I do with my sags or aquas, or a mutual support like my relationship with Taureans.

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
That's how I feel about Pisces women too. I get along with them great and love their sarcasm but eventually I stop trusting them because they stop making sense and yes lying… and they will just swim right out of it too still not making sense. Like wtf DO YOU LIVE ON PLANET EARTH….

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posted May 08, 2014 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Pisces with an Aries Sun/Gemini moon best friend!

She was my P.I.C. when we were younger and she's like my sister now after 17 years of friendship...
I've never once lied to her or imagined things to get upset over. Its actually one of the best friendships I've ever had...

I'm also a really firey Pisces, though..
9h Sun/Mercury
Aries Venus 9h
Leo ASC
Sag Mars, Saturn, Uranus 5h

So maybe that helps a bit

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MissPiscesForever
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posted May 08, 2014 01:06 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Pisces, and though I have plenty of Aries in me, I LOVE aries. I adore all fire signs, I get them. I would never turn on one, or secretly hate one. I'm not one to take things too personally and if I do, a simple apology will fix it. I think it's a great friendship and also a good relationship. They fir perfectly in the wron feet way. It's great!

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
That's how I feel about Pisces women too. I get along with them great and love their sarcasm but eventually I stop trusting them because they stop making sense and yes lying… and they will just swim right out of it too still not making sense. Like wtf DO YOU LIVE ON PLANET EARTH….

That's how I feel. I hate pisces. I am one, but I don't get them and it makes me sad that I have to be one.

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LovelyAries86
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posted May 10, 2014 12:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Lion - you are indeed very fiery. That makes a huge difference then.

@MPF - I'm glad that you appreciate Aries! But don't hate yourself...Pisces has it's good traits too.

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posted May 10, 2014 08:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not a pisces, but I have had several friendships with Aries women. I am a Scorpio female with a very strong mars in my chart along with a Scorpio stellium. The same situation you have described has happened on all of my Aries friendships and I have concluded that these women were twofaced and sneaky. I'm sure not all Aries women are this way, but the ones I have encountered have been. Maybe it's our (Water signs) watery energy that doesn't mesh well with fire or maybe we take your words, actions, etc. way more seriously than you do so to us, it looks twofaced. It could be a number of things. I'm just guessing it's the difference in personalities. I don't get a long with too many Aries unless they have Scorpio placements because of their "me first" attitude. I believe they're egotistical like Leos, but with more aggression involved which is irritating to be involved in. I'm laid back and reserved so being friends with an Aries is definitely a challenge.

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LovelyAries86
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posted May 10, 2014 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I am not a pisces, but I have had several friendships with Aries women. I am a Scorpio female with a very strong mars in my chart along with a Scorpio stellium. The same situation you have described has happened on all of my Aries friendships and I have concluded that these women were twofaced and sneaky. I'm sure not all Aries women are this way, but the ones I have encountered have been. Maybe it's our (Water signs) watery energy that doesn't mesh well with fire or maybe we take your words, actions, etc. way more seriously than you do so to us, it looks twofaced. It could be a number of things. I'm just guessing it's the difference in personalities. I don't get a long with too many Aries unless they have Scorpio placements because of their "me first" attitude. I believe they're egotistical like Leos, but with more aggression involved which is irritating to be involved in. I'm laid back and reserved so being friends with an Aries is definitely a challenge.

Thank you for responding. But the Scorpio dynamic is not at hand here.

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pinkgh0st
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posted May 10, 2014 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pinkgh0st     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Obviously, I'm an Aries.

Some of my favorite female friends have been Pisces Women! We'll start out as total partners in crime and our personalities will greatly compliment one another.

But somewhere down the line - almost every time with them - they'll find a way to sabotage our friendship! They'll begin imagining things that aren't there, lying, acting two-faced. Becoming your "Frenemy" so to speak - and I don't do that sh*t.

I find that many of them will admire Aries for being a Leader, original & strong...but will later begin to envy those traits and will secretly start hating on Aries when Aries in actuality, has nothing but love for the Pisces!

Aries is up-front & honest about everything. So Aries is heated & turned-off at Pisces for not being authentic and ruining any chance they had at a real friendship.

What are your personal experiences with the Pisces/Aries dynamic in friendships?



i feel like i can totally relate to this and i see this happen in my life as well! i don't know why this is a common pattern with pisces women and our interaction with them. i'm sure they're not all like that, it's probably just the ones we've met that have a manipulative aspect in their charts maybe?

in grade school, me and my two best friends (all three of us were aries) would leave out our pisces classmate a lot (bc of our ten-year-old immaturity), make fun of her, talk behind her back and whatnot. ten years later, that same pisces classmate we grew up with and ignored is now extremely successful, with the highest grades, and most friends. yeah. i kind of don't like her even more now lol. just kidding.

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nove731
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posted May 10, 2014 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my best friends is a Pisces, and this is more or less the dynamic that we have. In a lot of ways, I think he "looks up" to me because I'm generally more willing to take risks. I used to get really irritated with him in college when he would sort of copy pretty much everything I did! He has gotten a lot more independent though in the last few years...I think I'm finally having an effect on him.

That said, we also have a very (silently) competitive relationship. We're constantly trying to one-up each other. It's actually kind of a disturbing dynamic, now that I think about it.

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Sun -> Aries
Moon -> Sagittarius
Ascendant -> Virgo

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PixieJane
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posted May 11, 2014 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you have any Pisces in your chart?

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nove731
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posted May 11, 2014 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Pisces.

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Sun -> Aries
Moon -> Sagittarius
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PixieJane
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posted May 11, 2014 01:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I was referring to this:

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Some of my favorite female friends have been Pisces Women! We'll start out as total partners in crime and our personalities will greatly compliment one another.

But somewhere down the line - almost every time with them - they'll find a way to sabotage our friendship! They'll begin imagining things that aren't there, lying, acting two-faced. Becoming your "Frenemy" so to speak - and I don't do that sh*t.


Someone who somehow manages to attract Pisces, become very good friends, and then it turns rotten over and over again would make me think there's something in the chart. Not as a one time thing, of course, but she says it keeps happening over and over, and I find that strange.

And most of the Aries I know didn't have a special affinity for Pisces, nor have the few Pisces I've known felt drawn to Aries (did know one Pisces moon very tight with an Aries sun & moon but it was the Aries that messed that up, and the other Pisces moon I can think of didn't get along with Aries at all). The one Aries (my grandmother) who did seem to attract Pisces as friends (at least a couple) didn't have this problem.

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