posted May 08, 2014 12:44 PM            

(I made a thread too, lol)

He's been ignoring me since I sent the messages Sunday & I haven't said anymore since i am trying to give him space but it definitely hurts bc I like to talk things out also

posted May 08, 2014 12:57 PM            

A large emotional problem makes Cancers shut down, especially when the feelings are very strong, feeling actually hurt Cancers, it goes directly to the heart and the brain/memory, some Cancers will act like you don't even exist if you make them mad enough. Emotions in other signs are just emotions, but every emotion in Cancer is always magnified. I personally think Cancers get scared of their own anger, as it's something we do very poorly, we just don't handle anger and confrontation well. For a Gemini Moon you need to air out the situation but unless he has air placements I don't see him doing that, maybe you guys just aren't compatible. When stuff happens, there is always a reason for it...but I hope it works out for you either way.

posted May 09, 2014 01:54 PM            

I still love him very much and I wish with every fiber of my being that he would have just talked to me. It was such a stupid argument in retrospect. But the rational part of me thinks, this may be for the best, which was why I let him go. Like what Comatoes said, sometimes, you’re just not compatible. I don’t want to be with someone who shuts me out every time we have an argument. It’s like he has no regard for my feelings whatsoever when he’s in that state of mind.

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Originally posted by Comatoes:
For a Gemini Moon you need to air out the situation but unless he has air placements I don't see him doing that, maybe you guys just aren't compatible. When stuff happens, there is always a reason for it...but I hope it works out for you either way.

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posted May 09, 2014 02:43 PM            

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posted May 10, 2014 06:18 AM            

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Originally posted by PeterPan:
Yeah it works! My aunt had lung cancer, we used the silent treatment on her and she's cured!

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posted May 10, 2014 06:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Melodie:
This is one of those topics that have been talked about to death, but I finally experienced first-hand the full “wrath” of a Cancer. My Cancer Moon ex and I broke up a few days ago. We dated for about four months when we were in school, broke up, then a year later, he tracks me down and wanted to try again.

The first time around was awkward, I didn’t have much experience with guys before him. But this past year has been amazing. I was initially very cautious because he hurt me once already, but I ended up falling in love. It seemed like we were very happy and my instincts told me he cared for me greatly…until we had our first real fight on Sunday over something incredibly stupid. He completely iced me out. Didn’t reply to my texts or return my calls, which was not like him at all. He always replied even after we have our little quarrels (which were very rare). This made me go into a frenzied worry because I thought; the fight wasn’t anything major so he can’t be ignoring me. Maybe something happened. Long story longer, it wasn’t until after I asked his coworkers if they saw him on Monday that he finally texted back and it was apparent he wanted to break up, which I finalized after realizing what he did. I still love and miss him, but it’s just too emotionally draining and he had no regard for my feelings whatsoever.

My question is, why do they do that?! I understand that they're sensitive, but it’s like freaking sabotage. The issue could have been resolved easily if we just talked about it. And my Gemini Moon needs to talk things out. Crabs are so confusing.

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Could he be experiencing the opposition transiting Pluto and square with Mars?

If so, his feelings may be that much more magnified and you may want to steer clear-in case he just blows up.

On the other hand, you could also continue to send messages and insist on contact. Eventually, he'll crack.

A break-up that is a consequence of arguments between the two parties is still very emotionally charged: It can't be over just like that.

posted May 10, 2014 07:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Canadiangirl:
Ami Anne:
I am a cancer Moon and Mars. We have very, very deep feeling. However, if someone really betrays us, we can cut off like a knife. The person can be dead to us and we can be cold as ice. I have that. It takes a lot( and I mean a lot) to get to this point but it does happen.This can happen when people harass me on and on and on, too. They don't realize the power of a Cancer Moon. We are very sweet and so people think we are weak, but we are not.

--I've cut someone completely out of my life but you're right, it took complete betrayal to do this. I don't regret the decision and am much better off without the person in my life. You're very right about having deep emotions and people thinking we're weak bc we tend to be sweet people. I deal with it by letting people see my lioness side.

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Yes, my sweetness has been taken as weakness, time and time again. I am very, by nature. I hate to see someone bullied. I hate meanness. People see that and think they can walk on you. I will walk away, if I can but if the person won't stop, I will turn around and pay them back and I have always won, so far

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posted May 10, 2014 07:18 PM            

Even tho i'm past 30 years now i do use it from time to time.. But never in a close relationship with girlfriend. I have a strong need to communicate with the person closest to me, and if someone who i care for would do the same to me i really suffer hard... Curse you wonderful scorp girls!

Being angry at someone and showing it to them directly is a exposure of feelings. If the person does not include my closest family and friends i rather keep it all in the shell and watch them suffer in my silence.

Tho Pluto is all over my natal chart and personal planets so i think i fit the general description of a scorpio better.

posted May 13, 2014 04:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Could he be experiencing the opposition transiting Pluto and square with Mars?

If so, his feelings may be that much more magnified and you may want to steer clear-in case he just blows up.

On the other hand, you could also continue to send messages and insist on contact. Eventually, he'll crack.

A break-up that is a consequence of arguments between the two parties is still very emotionally charged: It can't be over just like that.

A resolution needs to happen in order to ascertain whether or not this is indeed what both parties want-rationally.

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Been doing a lot of self reflection these past few days and it bothers me how I spent Friday and Saturday at his place. When I left it was laughs and kisses. Then bam! he gets this upset over a stupid fight (two out of five people I talked to said there wasn't even a fight to begin with).

Been reading up on the Mars retrograde. I blame it on this, but I'm still undecided if I should swallow my pride and reach out once again at a later time when things cool down. He's never acted like that towards me.